Pursue Your Spark

Struggling with insomnia in midlife? It might be trying to tell you something important. In “What Your Midlife Insomnia Is Trying to Tell You,” we explore how sleep patterns change as we age and the unexpected reasons behind restless nights.   Our expert guest, Martha Lewis, founder of The Sleep Detective, shares how mastering your sleep routine can be life-changing. Her journey started with her son Parker's sleep troubles, leading her to help others find their way to restful nights. Tune in to learn how you can finally get the sleep you deserve.   Martha is not just any expert; she's a certified sleep expert, functional health coach, and the visionary founder behind The Sleep Detective. With an approach beyond the surface level of sleep advice, Martha dives into the physiological and psychological factors contributing to insomnia, offering innovative and effective solutions.   She talks about what to do when you can't fall asleep, natural remedies for insomnia, why you have trouble sleeping, and w

Can you believe summer is over already? If you’re struggling to shift gears, I've got the perfect tip to help you find your footing this fall. From flip-flops to focus, it’s time to reclaim your fall routine! Trust me, you won’t want to miss this! After a busy summer, taking a moment to reclaim our personal space and time is essential. It helps us prioritize our mental well-being and boost productivity. Today, I’m sharing how to find clarity after summer with a powerful yet simple practice that can make all the difference in your routine. What’s this game-changing tip? It involves dedicating time just for you—no kids, work, or distractions. It’s like hitting the reset button for your mind, body, and soul. Unlike vacations that often come with their own set of responsibilities, this practice is all about focusing on yourself and what you need. Planning this special time is easy. Find a quiet space at home or a peaceful spot nearby. Set a schedule with activities that help you relax and recharge, like m

Ready to declutter your midlife? Join us as we chat with Janet M. Taylor, the "Clutter Free Queen," who has been transforming lives since 1994. Discover practical strategies and emotional insights to simplify and organize your daily life. This episode, "Organize and Simplify Your Midlife," is packed with expert tips to bring harmony and peace to your home and mind Janet M. Taylor, who pioneered her path with Totally Organized, LLC in 1994, brings more than just her title, she brings a lifetime of transforming chaos into harmony. Her journey from the Rachael Ray Show to speaking engagements at IKEA and the Philadelphia Home Show has made her a beacon of inspiration for anyone looking to declutter and organize their life. In our conversation, Janet shares the essence of getting organized, highlighting the small, achievable steps that lead to big changes. She opens up about our emotional ties with our possessions and how understanding this can revolutionize our approach to organization. Balancing a caree

Ever wonder what the secret to a long, healthy life is? In this episode, "Lessons from the Blue Zones," we're exploring the fascinating lifestyles of the world’s healthiest and longest-living people. These are places where folks live well into their 90s and beyond, staying vibrant and happy. One of the biggest takeaways is their primarily plant-based diet. They fill their plates with a variety of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and legumes. They follow a principle that means eating until you’re 80% full, which helps with better digestion and prevents overeating. Physical activity is woven into their daily lives. Instead of hitting the gym for intense workouts, they stay active through simple, enjoyable activities like walking, gardening, and other forms of natural movement. This sustainable approach keeps them fit and healthy. Community plays a huge role, too. Strong social ties and a sense of belonging are crucial. A great example is having supportive social circles that encourage healthy habits an

Healthcare advocacy for Black women took center stage as Elaine Curry and Brenda Barbour, the Body Wealth Sisters, joined us. Their expertise and personal journeys shed light on the critical path of navigating the healthcare system as a Black or African American woman. "How Black Women Advocate for Better Healthcare" wasn't merely an episode title—it transformed into a manifesto, resonating with Elaine and Brenda's dedication to tearing down systemic barriers and equipping our listeners with the tools necessary for self-advocacy. They also are the hosts of the Body Wealth Sister podcast. Elaine and Brenda's motivation to speak on this topic comes from their encounters with the healthcare system, which revealed the significant barriers Black women often face, from systemic biases to socioeconomic obstacles. This episode sheds light on these issues, offering listeners actionable advice on engaging with healthcare providers, questioning standard practices, and seeking care that respects and understands their

Are you ready to turn midlife from a challenge into your greatest opportunity? Today on '5 Transformative Habits for Midlife Mastery,' we’re shedding old labels and forging new paths! Let’s explore how the simple choices we make every day can lead to profound transformations in the prime of our lives.   Habits often boxed into 'good' or 'bad' categories are about alignment. How well do your daily routines mesh with your life goals and values? We explore this question deeply, shedding light on the power of conscious decision-making in crafting a fulfilling midlife. We dive into the 'habit loop,' inspired by James Clear’s insights in "Atomic Habits." Understanding the sequence of cue, craving, response, and reward offers a practical framework for reshaping our actions to support our aspirations. Imagine seeing your Pilates mat each morning. It's not just equipment; it's a cue that sets off a chain of rewarding actions that keep you strong and centered. In this episode, I share a powerful comment from o

In 'Radiant Skin Secrets Revealed After 40,' we explore the captivating intersection of health and beauty with Dr. Jen Haley, renowned host of the Radiance Revealed podcast. From her prestigious education at Cornell University to her service as a Navy Officer, Dr. Haley offers a unique and insightful perspective on dermatology, nutrition, and holistic health. Dr. Haley's approach to patient care is deeply rooted in compassion. She emphasizes the significant relationship between our inner health and our skin's appearance. She shared insights on how midlife hormonal changes impact the skin, stressing the importance of personalized skincare to address sagging, wrinkles, and age marks. According to Dr. Haley, nutrition plays a pivotal role in skin health. She recommended specific foods and supplements to enhance skin vitality and mitigate aging signs. The conversation also highlighted the critical connection between gut health and skin conditions, with Dr. Haley advising on steps to improve both for better

Welcome to your action plan to combat osteoporosis, which you can manage with the right strategies. This episode shifts our focus from shock and worry to empowerment through proactive prevention. We discuss the importance of early screening, especially for those at increased risk due to factors like early menopause or a family history of osteoporosis. It's crucial to start these screenings as early as age 65 or even earlier for those at higher risk. Redefining Bone Health In Midlife transforms fear into action and takes charge of your bone health today. Osteoporosis, often called the silent killer, progresses without symptoms and can lead to fractures, loss of height, and severe pain. Factors contributing to the risk include low physical activity, poor diet, and confident lifestyle choices like smoking and excessive alcohol consumption. However, we debunk common myths surrounding this condition, emphasizing that osteoporosis is not an inevitable part of aging and can be managed effectively with lifestyl

We will explore a topic that many find challenging and crucial: maintaining weight loss in midlife and beyond. I enjoyed chatting with Jill McCauslin and Chris Brown, the inspirational founders of Becoming Elli, a community where women over 50 come together to celebrate and support each other in becoming fit, strong, and vibrant. Jill and Chris shared their transformations, revealing how hitting their fifties was not an end but a beautiful beginning to discovering the joys of running, lifting weights, and leading a healthier lifestyle. They emphasized that the fitness journey is ongoing, much like the story of Elli, the Norse Goddess of Aging, who embodies strength and resilience. One of the golden nuggets from our conversation was the importance of finding a balance between exercise and nutrition that you can enjoy and sustain long-term. Unlike the initial stages of weight loss, which might focus more on calorie deficits and intensive workouts, maintaining weight loss is about creating a lifestyle you

Today, we're diving into how changing your mindset can literally change your life, especially during midlife. It's not just about getting stronger or more flexible; it's about how your thoughts shape your journey. Our bodies and minds are evolving in midlife, and it's prime time to align our mental wellness with our physical health.    We're talking practical strategies for those ready to shift a powerful mindset. 'Midlife Mindset Shifts to Strength and Flexibility' is your go-to for insights that transform not just how you move but how you think and feel every step of the way. First up, we tackle the significant mental roadblocks: the fear of failure, feeling overwhelmed by too many fitness options, and getting stuck in who we used to be. We explore how adopting a growth mindset transforms challenges into opportunities for growth. For instance, facing a new exercise is about celebrating each small step forward. Then, we discuss the importance of setting intentions alongside goals. This approach bri

We're getting up close with Deb Blum, the inspiring soul behind The Whole Soul Way. She's not just the brains of this operation; she's a certified life, parent, and health coach with a Business Administration/IT background from the University of Connecticut. Deb recently started a new chapter, moving to Arizona with her husband of 20 years. Join us in this week's episode, "Break Midlife Barriers As A Gateway To Self-Love." Deb's mission? To help women in midlife shed societal expectations and reveal their true essence. She believes in the power of being fully expressed and seen for our inherent magnificence. And let me tell you, her belief that understanding our emotional well-being is critical to our health is a game changer. After facing a midlife awakening and a near-divorce, Deb pivoted to women's empowerment coaching. She launched The Whole Soul Way, a self-paced online program transforming midlife women's lives. It guides them from living by others' rules to embracing their authentic selves. Deb's

We're diving deep into the concept of reframing health goals, directly addressing the 'All-or-Nothing' cycle that can hinder our progress. This episode is an invitation to those seeking to break free from this restrictive mindset, offering a fresh, flexible, and joy-driven approach to health and fitness. It's designed for anyone whose fitness journey has been disrupted by life's unpredictable nature, showing that it's possible to adapt and thrive amidst these challenges. Our main focus is on the transformative power of reframing health goals. We discuss how adapting our fitness and health objectives to match our evolving lives isn't just beneficial—it's essential. This episode encourages women in midlife to view life's disruptions not as obstacles but as opportunities to explore new and enjoyable ways to maintain an active, healthy lifestyle. This shift in perspective is key to embracing a more adaptable, joyful approach to health and fitness. We discuss why traditional fitness habits often fail, critiq

We're opening the doors to a world where joy isn't just a feeling but a space we live in. We're talking decluttering with the queen of clean, Tracy McCubbin. Imagine your home, but with breathing room, where every nook cradles peace instead of piled-up papers. That's where Tracy takes us, transforming cluttered caves into serene sanctuaries. So, let's declutter your midlife and make room for you! Tracy's not just any tidying guru; she's a story of transformation. Growing up amidst clutter, she saw first-hand how possessions can overshadow life's true treasures. Her journey from Hollywood's glitzy chaos to the heart of home harmony shows us that change isn't just possible; it's a path to rediscovering ourselves. Diving into the clutter, Tracy reveals it's not about the stuff but what it signifies. It's a mirror to our mental clutter, reflecting deep-seated emotions and unresolved stories. But here's the twist – decluttering isn't just about letting go; it's about uncovering joy, one cleared corner at a t

Courage in midlife isn't about grand, sweeping gestures. Instead, it can be found in the everyday acts of bravery that lead to significant changes in life. In today's episode, '6 Ways To Redefine Courage In Midlife,' we dive into offering insights and practical tips for women in this vibrant life stage.   We debunk common misconceptions about courage. It isn't about quick fixes or dramatic overhauls but involves steady, sustainable shifts in lifestyle habits. Embracing expert advice and focusing on personal journeys instead of comparing with others is critical. We highlight that true courage resides in internal transformation, not just visible changes. Our discussion covers various aspects of courage. We start with facing truths about our health and well-being. Taking the first step, like joining a course or engaging with health content, signifies courage. We discuss how career transitions can be courageous, as illustrated by Linda's venture into starting her bakery. Consistency in fitness and diet pla

Welcome to episode #206 of the Pursue Your Spark Podcast. Our guest, Hoyt Prisock, the innovative creator behind a successful online speed dating platform, launched with Match.com nearly two decades ago. Hoyt, who found himself navigating the online dating world after a long marriage, has since become a seasoned voice in this arena, offering unique insights through his podcast, 'Behind the Swipe.' Hoyt shared his perspective on how the dynamics of online dating differ substantially for individuals in midlife compared to younger generations. He provided thoughtful commentary on the unique mindset challenges encountered by men and women re-entering the dating scene later in life, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and confidence. A crucial part of our conversation revolves around the mindset challenges men and women face in midlife as they enter the online dating scene. Hoyt offers insights on how to overcome these challenges, emphasizing the importance of confidence and authenticity.  Hoyt also

In this episode, we dive into '6 Powerful Ways to Boost Your Midlife Wellness.' No more grand resolutions that fizzle out – we're all about practical steps leading to lasting health. First, let's rethink the whole New Year's resolution game. It's not about massive changes overnight; it's about those small, consistent steps that genuinely transform your wellness journey. Then, we'll tackle some common wellness misconceptions, like the truth about Intermittent Fasting and why super-restrictive diets aren't the way to go. But fear not; we have a solution to guide you through these challenges. In the second part of the episode, we're doubling down on six key things for midlife wellness. We'll explore the power of simplifying your health goals, focusing on one thing at a time, and maintaining that positive mindset. Mindfulness takes the spotlight as we discuss how it can enhance your fitness routines, transform your eating habits, reduce stress, and help you build those healthy habits. Plus, we'll share

In the latest episode of the Pursue Your Spark Podcast, we begin an insightful journey into the essence of a fulfilled midlife. Heike chats with Bernie Borges, a seasoned B2B expert and podcast enthusiast, about the nuances of midlife fulfillment. Bernie, originally from New York City and now thriving in Tampa Bay, brings his rich experience from his successful 36-year marriage and his podcasting ventures, including the 'Midlife Fulfilled' Podcast. This episode centers around the concept of a fulfilled midlife, examining the 5 Pillars: Health, Fitness, Career, Relationships, and Legacy. Bernie and Heike challenge listeners to introspect their fulfillment levels in these critical life areas. Bernie's insights, drawn from his diverse experiences, shed light on the less discussed yet crucial aspects of midlife. We unravel the true meaning of midlife, offering a fresh perspective that goes beyond the conventional chronological definition. Bernie's approach to defining midlife is rooted in logic and personal

We sit down with Dr. Maria Luque, an Air Force veteran and the go-to expert on fitness during menopause. Dr. Luque sheds light on the complex relationship between menopause, body image, and fitness, challenging common misconceptions that often hold women back. Contrary to popular belief, weight gain isn't a given, and exercise doesn't necessarily worsen menopausal symptoms; it can alleviate them. We honed in on navigating body image through the menopause maze for this episode. Dr. Luque offers empowering strategies for women navigating the 'new normal' that comes with menopause. Among these are mindfulness practices and the importance of strength training, which can go a long way in boosting body confidence. We discuss the pivotal mental shift from asking, 'Why isn't my body making me happy?' to 'What can I do with my body?' as a way to focus on capabilities rather than limitations. We also touch on women's unique dietary and exercise needs in this life stage, debunking the need to conform to social med

In this episode, we tackle a common seasonal challenge: sticking to intermittent fasting goals during the holidays. We explore the balance between festive joy and health commitments, ensuring holiday enjoyment without derailing fasting routines. First, we address the holiday season's unique pressures. Breaking fasting schedules can spark guilt, and balancing health choices with family expectations adds stress. We emphasize understanding these emotions as key to managing fasting during these times. Next, we offer practical tips for handling intermittent fasting's social aspects during the holidays. We emphasize staying true to our fasting decisions and recalling our personal motivations. By simply and friendly explaining our choices to friends and family, we demystify our approach and foster understanding. We also suggest non-food-centric activities at gatherings, allowing enjoyment of loved ones' company without eating pressure. We then strategize for gracefully handling social situations. This includes pr

In this podcast episode, we welcome Susan Salenger, the inspiring author of "SIDELINED: How Women Can Navigate A Broken Healthcare System." At 80 years old, standing at 4'10", Susan is an accomplished author and an avid powerlifter, a testament to her belief in personal strength and resilience. She shares her journey from working in Salenger Films, a company specializing in corporate training films, to becoming a voice for women struggling within a healthcare system that often fails them. Susan's transition into authorship was spurred by a pivotal experience - a surgery she underwent that was later revealed as unnecessary. This incident led her to explore women's paradoxical relationship with their healthcare: they are often proactive yet find themselves sidelined by the system. Her book dives into the internal conflicts and societal pressures that lead women to mismanage their health, prioritizing others' needs over their own. "SIDELINED" is based on extensive research and interviews with diverse women