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As I write this description, I'm watching two women have sex on Chaturbate. They're in a 69 position with the camera placed above the head of the woman on the bottom. Her makeup is immaculate, there's a Lovense in the vagina of her partner, and she also is using a black vibrator in the wrong location, more or less stimulating the taint of the other woman. They finished their scene, the woman on top moved and the Lovense slapped her partner in the face. The got up immediately and put back on their clothes. Then they started talking about one partner's boyfriend in Russian. The site says they're in "Pleasureland." They're not. In this episode, we discuss an article about how women have to contend with never knowing whether a man is interested in their actual skills and talents or just in having sex with them. Where these two Russian ladies are concerned, I was actually interested in neither; I think they both smoke a lot. What does a woman do if she doesn't want sex anymore after she orgasms (kind of like a man

What to do if as a man you are able to pull off an MFF threesome with your partner, but you realize midway through the experience that she's more into the other woman than she is you. Honestly, that's probably a pretty common situation, and one which men should consider before jumping in. As with the similar MMF threesome problems, the situation isn't easy to rectify. Keith reveals that he properly enjoys requesting that women "sit on his face." He uses those exact words, because it turns them on. But then there are the mechanics to sort out and the ever-present question of which direction she's supposed to face. Now, Keith thinks it's obvious, but a significant amount of research indicates there is some dispute. And, we get an update on Keith's effort to find out whether women on dating apps want ENM relationships with him. How much sex will this man have in coming weeks and months? We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discuss

Keith wants to see how easy it is to find an Ethically Non-Monogamous second partner. He wants to follow all the rules and be completely up front in what he's seeking, and he wants to see how many women will respond positively o such a message. So, he has a set of women who have "liked" him on dating apps, and he's going to send them an honest message. How many will respond positively? Separately, we're here to help women discern how they pick the men they do. Honestly, the incels have a point here, in that women like to hide from the truth that not many men are that attractive, and most women purse a small set of guys. A man has the unpleasant habit of anally penetrating himself in his leisure time, and he's (rightfully) reluctant to reveal that to his female partner. A woman is confused by a man's desire for her to be totally bare "down there," and another woman is concerned about air travel with her rather large vibrator. And, can a relationship survive on oral sex alone? Answer: Yes, provided the partners

It may well be that OnlyFans has gone totally mainstream and men have no reason to expect their partner won't be sending pictures and videos of themselves all over the place to make some extra spending money. If society views it as totally fine, then why not? But might this not drive down the value of the photos and render it unprofitable? I mean, let's say we lived in a society in which there had never been a taboo about women exposing their breasts in public. In that situation, naked breasts would also have no value, since they'd be so easy to come by. Paradoxically, for nude photos to continue to be profitable, they need to remain something frowned upon. I guess, like most things, you take the good, you take the bad, you take the rest, and that's what you get. We've also got a rich sugar daddy who is pissed that an even richer one took away his sugar baby. Discussion about how to meet women if you don't like online dating apps, and how to approach women online for an explicitly non-monogamous situation. W

If a woman has a squirting orgasm, needs to pee before she has sex, needs to pee before her orgasm and then no longer needs to pee after the orgasm, then where did the pee go? Well, naturally it dematerialized, and the squirt she squirted wasn't pee at all but some other substance! Right? Who's more attractive? Porn stars or non porn stars? Is there some upper bound on attractiveness after which a woman wouldn't even consider getting into porn? How often is a man aroused by something he sees in porn, but then he doesn't want to do it in real life? And, a couple topics that come up somewhat often: MMF situations and men who fetishize penises but "aren't gay." In what situation would a hetero man give another man a handjob? What are reasonable limits to curiosity? To follow along with the lovely lady's images we discussed early in the episode: https://ymmv.me/67/dainty-wilder We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed th

In a move right out of Ally's playbook, a woman really doesn't like it when she climaxes before her male partner. Looks like it's some sort of race to see who gets the better experience. As always, the winner is the person who comes second. We discuss a bit of radical feminist theory, and how it relates to the current trend of sugar dating. Mike gets in his jibe that radical feminists are the "female equivalent of incels." There's no possible way that comment could cause any blowback. What's going on when Leonardo DiCaprio dates a succession of very young women who all pretty much look the same? Is it narcissism, or does he just want to avoid actually viewing them as human beings? And, is there any difference there? More topics include hair pulling, after-sex cleaning and willingness to explore MMF situations if invited. To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode, click the below. We started watching at the 2:00 mark: https://ymmv.me/66/jedi-mind-chick We get a lot of our ques

A woman isn't tired of sex in general. She's just tired of having sex with her boyfriend. What's the right recommendation? Should they break up, or is this something that's fixable? We watch a completely female-centric porn, meaning it's something that a woman would purportedly enjoy watching. The piercing blue eyes, mustache and beard were too much for me, honestly. And, what's the ideal bodycount for a partner? How long do you want between the last time the partner had sex with someone else and the first time you two have sex together? Does it make a difference for men versus women in this regard? To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode (we started at 11:35 into the video): https://ymmv.me/65/licking We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week: https://ymmv.me/65/pretty-vag https://ymmv.me/65/blanket https://ymmv.me/65/clean-shaven https://ymmv.me/65/dont-enjoy-boyfriend htt

Mike does a solo episode, tackling some listener feedback, reading literotica to our listeners, going though some feedback on the escort-aficionado forum and answering a bevy of sex/relationship questions, lightning-round style. Genuinely dozens of topics covered, enough to make anyone happy, he hopes. What are the best and worst things about hosting a sex podcast? Are we mansplaining too much? Are we right about squirting? And, how many of you are turned on by the literotica Mike selected? You're welcome to send us your own selections for us to read on air and give feedback. In particular, we should probably try an episode focusing on what women like in literotica, as most of what we've found so far seems like it must really be targeting men. If, for some reason, listeners want the full effect of the literotica discussed and read in the episode, here it is: https://ymmv.me/64/pushing-my-luck https://ymmv.me/64/mom-posing https://ymmv.me/64/virgin-wife We discussed some posts regarding escorts and Seeking A

Is it really possible for a guy not to realize he's going to penetrate the "wrong hole" when it happens? What is the allure of porns where a woman appears to be trapped (in a dryer, or even stuck in a wall or some other similar predicament)? A woman enjoys pleasuring herself while looking at pictures of ... herself. How common is this? Could a man do it and have it work? And, which gender has the harder time understanding the unique life experiences that the other gender has all to themselves? Is it easier for a woman to relate to men's relentless sex drives? Or is it easier for a man to understand cyclical hormones and having periods? We looked at both a subreddit and a video this episode. Here are links to both: https://ymmv.me/63/gloryho-sub https://ymmv.me/63/gloryho-vid We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week: https://ymmv.me/63/breast-sex https://ymmv.me/63/sex-rules https://ymmv.me/63/swallow-recipr

Once we've got the dirty talk out of the way, Ally joins us to discuss a wide array of sex and relationship topics. We watch a video taken from a woman's perspective of receptive oral sex. The discussion turns to women wanting anilingus performed on them, as it must. Mike offers Ally numerous candidate dirty talk lines, but the best he can muster is a 5 out of 10 on her scale. She's apparently not willing to divulge what a 10 out of 10 would be, but I suspect I know what it is.... Someone asks whether being a sugar baby gives her an "unfair" advantage in life. And, is it believable that man could be so obsessed with sex with his wife that he has difficult concentrating on normal life when she's around? To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode: https://ymmv.me/62/mr-pussy-licking We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week: https://ymmv.me/62/anilingus https://ymmv.me/62/ordered

How much exploration of a woman's insides is good and desirable? It's obviously pretty different when you're exploring your own body versus when it's someone else. The enjoyment for a man doing it must be completely psychological, since it's kind of indistinguishable from warm jello or some such, if you were blindfolded and didn't really know where you were putting your hands. Oh man. One of these questions is about a guy "warning" his partner that he's going to have a "huge load" because he hasn't ejaculated in some time. I wonder, how does a woman take that when she's "informed"? Is that an offer? A warning? A threat? What if she's not really in the mood that day to swallow a gigantic load of semen. We talk about a number of different TikTok purveyors, including a woman who wants men to know they're not supposed to "poke" but rather to "dock" and then move in a front-to-back motion. Another woman likes to talk about her "pink" and "brown" canoes, which I guess is supposed to be alluring. No more real conve

It's incredibly hard to predict that magic moment when a man finally decides to accept penetrative sex, performed on him, by his lovely female partner. One question at hand this week is where Keith finds himself on that journey. To find out, we invited his girlfriend Alyssa to the show, from their Caribbean hideaway where they presumably are investigating new and innovative ways to explore topping and bottoming. Oh, but there's more! What to do when you discover a woman has been secretly using your vibrating toothbrush to masturbate? How not to destroy a promising sugar relationship with an errant "I love you" while receiving oral ministrations. And, do men need very specific stimulation in order to orgasm? Can certain men do it "hands free"? How? We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week: https://ymmv.me/60/toothbrush https://ymmv.me/60/sugar-love https://ymmv.me/60/pegging https://ymmv.me/60/cutting https:/

At core, I would call a "breeding fetish" just more or less being human. We have fun talking about sex, but at core it's serious business! Without sex, there would be no people. No one to even ask the great philosophical questions like, "Why are we here?" and "What is a woman?" This episode, we shortened our discussion of each topic in order to fit more in. We fit a lot more in. Our cup runneth over with topics. How to tell a woman you're about to climax? When does sex for money become prostitution (answer: quickly)? And much, much more. Oh, and by the way, try searching the term "jilling" on Google Images. I just did, looking for a good thumbnail for the episode. I wasn't disappointed. To follow along with the video discussed at the beginning of the episode: https://ymmv.me/59/jilling We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week: https://ymmv.me/59/heads-up https://ymmv.me/59/breeding-fetish https://ymmv.me/59

How well does it work if one partner wants sex more frequently than the other, and they initiate a schedule for sex? I'm actually pretty sure this doesn't work so great in practice, but we discuss the practicalities and what it means for a relationship. It's mainly a full-employment system for couples therapists. How much does your partner receiving pleasure from an act increase your interest in doing it? Does this extend all the way to pegging? Probably so, for some folks. If a woman wants sex almost all the time, so much so that she can't stop herself from masturbating and becomes cross with her partner if he doesn't oblige, so much so that her deepest desire is to be some sort of human trampoline, is it wrong for him to stop being attracted to her? To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode: https://ymmv.me/58/big-one We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week: https://ymmv.m

YMMV is not a celebrity gossip podcast, but the answer to the first question is "No." Societal delusion aside, this is not someone who meets the traditional definitions of attractiveness, and that's not even considering how she looks. We discuss the health consequences of porn and an online forum which appears to tout "actual" incest porn. Is it real? Possibly so. And, if so, why are there people who enjoy this stuff? We also talk about the /r/nofap subreddit and how effective that is at improving (or lowering) people's quality of life. Another discussion of larger-than-life dildoes. Is mutual masturbation compelling, or is it the "69 of handjobs," as Keith describes it? Virgin detection and multiple shots on goal round out the episode. Loads everywhere indeed! To see the relevant incest porn thread, here is a link: https://ymmv.me/57/incest-porn We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week: https://ymmv.me/57/

Which would you rather do while watching a movie with your female partner? Edge her manually for 45 minutes and then give her oral for 5 minutes, or not edge her at all but then the oral sex takes 20 minutes? And, do people need to be edged during movie watching at all? What does it mean when your husband seems never to be interested in sex, but then when you have sex he ejaculates prematurely? Does it mean he's not interested in sex at all? If so, how is he getting off so fast? And, what's the real deal with facials? Are there any women in the world who like them just because they enjoy semen sprayed on their face? Like, would any women consent to having a squirt gun loaded with semen and shot at their faces? Or are they doing it because men seem to like it and it's submissive? Our video segment this week is really one you don't want to miss. A vibrator of unusual size (and a likely fake orgasm to go along with it!). To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode: https://ymmv.me/

Men enjoy watching women "perform" so much during sex that we wonder whether they know that women are in fact just "performing". And, maybe women do what they do because it helps enhance the mood for them. Alternately, some women claim they have no control over behaviors such as screaming during sex. Are they telling the truth? What is "control" anyway? When is the best time to tell a partner about a hygiene issue in a relationship? And, we debate again the whole question of "squirting": What is it? Why do some men seem to so love it? To take a look at the picture discussed at the beginning of the episode: https://ymmv.me/55/imperfections We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week: https://ymmv.me/55/noise https://ymmv.me/55/odor https://ymmv.me/55/squirting Twitter: @ymmvpod Facebook: ymmvpod Email: ymmvpod@gmail.com

We discuss masturbation habits and how they vary depending on sexual activity with a significant other in the recent past. Also discussed are the routines men have either to conceal their masturbation from others or to heighten the pleasure. We discuss open relationships and the almost guaranteed issues when one partner is having a little too much fun. Taken to the logical extreme, can plural marriages work out? And, a man's partner flies into a rage when she doesn't have an orgasm during sex. What should he do about it? We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week: https://ymmv.me/54/open-relationships https://ymmv.me/54/masturbation-photos https://ymmv.me/54/no-orgasm-rage Twitter: @ymmvpod Facebook: ymmvpod Email: ymmvpod@gmail.com

Ally, Keith and Mike discuss all manner of sexual topics. Prior to the recording, Ally had the full experience of Virtual Reality Porn, which was disconcerting for her, as it resulted in her having large quantities of semen deposited on and throughout her body by two virtual men who didn't appear to be heterosexual. Later, Ally confided that she'd "enjoyed" the porn. "I like porn," she said. "I'm a pro-porn person." Mike shared analytical techniques for detecting real and falsified female orgasms. We discussed the female reaction to a man who wants to be snowballed or, worse yet, to languidly clean his own semen off the stomach of an unsuspecting partner. And, we clarify the advice for Ally when her partner orgasms before her. No, he doesn't want to be required to interact with his own semen, but he's fine with her masturbating and perhaps lending a helping hand. It's just that he's tired and really wants to take a nap! We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are

We start with a continuation of last week's discussion of virtual reality porn, which has its pros and cons. Too many pro actresses is definitely one of the downsides. How would you handle being offered a large sum of money not to have an orgasm for a year? (A year? Keith bristled at the notion of a week!) Does the reaction depend on gender, age, other factors? How much money would it take? And, where should listeners go to find out about new genres of porn, like hentai, creampie, mmf, gangbang, etc? Turns out there's a place for that and much more. And, you can get help from others to find your specific kink. Here is a link to the NSFW411 subreddit we reviewed on the episode: https://ymmv.me/52/nsfw411 We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week: https://ymmv.me/52/ticklish https://ymmv.me/52/refrain Twitter: @ymmvpod Facebook: ymmvpod Email: ymmvpod@gmail.com