Dudes Spankin' Dudes

Jaden is back with another spanking buddy, Kevin, here to talk about their fun time at Mid-Atlantic Leather (M.A.L.) in January. Speaking of which, in the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, M.A.L. got some negative publicity from a young gay conservative at the Washington Examiner who thinks that fetish and leather play makes the LGBT community look bad. Scott, Jaden, and Kevin discuss the problems with his opinion piece, which you can read here: https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/dcs-degenerate-leather-weekend-annihilates-gay-progress In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Kevin and Jaden discuss what it's like to start filming your own amateur porn. If you're interested, there's a lot of fun to be had. And Hot Seat Retreat is just a month away! There's still time to register here: https://www.hotseatps.com/

What better way to celebrate ringing in the new year with a discussion of Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers (Or ABDL) and their connections to the spanking scene? Scott is joined by regular and Whappz co-founder Jaden and his buddy Richard, a member of both the ABDL and the spanking scene. We discuss what the two communities have in common and the opportunities for daddies out there in the spanking scene to find some guys in some firm need for discipline. In other news, Camp Red Tails is back on for July! And Jaden and Scott give the latest update on how things are going with Hot Seat Retreat in March. For more on Hot Seat Retreat and to register, visit the site here: www.hotseatps.com/

Jaden is back to join Scott as we announce some big news: The launch of Hot Seat Retreat, a new spanking weekend event planned for March 5-8, 2020 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs, California. Scott and Jaden go over what prompted them to launch this new event and want to encourage all y'all to come on out. Also: Unfortunately, Camp Red Tails this summer is in trouble; RedSpankScott is now also HotBotScott when he's feeling like a bratty bottom, and Jaden and Scott go over their participation at the 10th Anniversary of Bad Ass Weekend. For more on Hot Seat Retreat and to register, visit the site here: https://www.hotseatps.com/ If you want more info about CCBC, the host resort, visit them here: https://www.ccbcresorthotel.com/

For episode 25, Scott is joined by the long-awaited straight dude! Cutter the Sourpatch Kid, who is on the board of the L.A. BDSM society Threshold, joins Scott to talk about why he likes spanking other dudes, the right way to approach heterosexual guys if you’re interested in spanking play with them, a bunch of things you SHOULDN’T do when approaching hetero dudes, and what fantasies straight dudes do and do not have. More about the Threshold Society here: https://threshold.org/

Scott is joined for the latest episode by J.R., whom listeners know better as Bossman. Yes, the guy who beats Scott's butt on the regular stops by for a chat. And maybe a threat or two. In the Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes section, J.R. talks about his membership in Avatar, an L.A. club that teaches men how to engage in safe BDSM play, including spanking. We discuss how the Internet and the rise of millennials own interpretation of leather and BDSM culture has changed the way we look at the scene and how these organizations are adapting. Avatar's Facebook page can be found here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/AvatarclubLA/ In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Scott and J.R. respond to some messages to a young newbie top in the spanking scene who is afraid to actually get involved because he's worried about his heavily sadistic fantasies. We talk about how it's actually pretty normal to have extreme and even nonconsensual fantasies. What matters is how you adapt those fantasies into safe and consensual play w

Some good news to start. The Los Angeles Moonburn spanking party is back at it's old location at Threshold at the familiar day and time (the first Saturday of the month from noon-4 p.m.) Scott explains the details. Then, Scott is joined by David and Bruce, two of the organizers of Bad Ass Weekend, the all-male weekend spanking gathering held in Augusta, Georgia. This year marks the 10th anniversary of the even, and David and Bruce explain the amount of work that goes into pulling this all off. This year's gathering is from Oct. 17-20. Scott is again planning to be there. Get more information here: https://www.bawevent.com/

Jaden is back to let us all know that his spanking app Whappz is now available for Android devices, yay! And Scott updates on what's going on with the L.A. Moonburn parties. In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Jaden talks about the work that goes into hosting private spanking parties, and what you'll want to keep in mind if you're thinking of having some of your own. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking segment, we talk about the spanking erotical legacy of Cliff's Spanking Central site, which has ceased production of new movies but is still around and you can still join and download past videos here: http://spankingcentral.com/ And we take a question from a listener wondering how much he should "act" like he's struggling as a bottom, even when he's not.

Jaden from Whappz is back joining Scott for an episode that has some fun news from Jaden (Whappz coming to Android; fun at Mid-Atlantic Leather) and some bad news from Scott (Moonburn loses its home; Tumblr kicks out porn). Before getting to the main event, Scott explains the sudden and surprising closure of Threshold, the BDSM club in North Hollywood where the monthly Moonburn spanking party takes place. Moonburn organizers are busy looking for a new location, so stay tuned. In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Jaden reports from Washington, D.C., where he attended the annual Mid-Atlantic Leather (MAL) convention and had lots of fun spanking and being spanked. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, we talk about how Tumblr made the rather radical decision to dump all adult content from the site (essentially committing suicide) and where people are going as an alternative (check out bdsmlr.com). All this and a question from a listener about how to introduce a partner who isn't into spanking but is w

Podcast co-creator Brian/Croup returns for an episode because he and Scott just came back from a whirlwind spanking good vacation in Augusta, Georgia, for Bad Ass Weekend #9. They get into details about spankings, both delivered and received (and that includes Scott) and how amazing the entire event was. Y'all should consider going next year! Details about Bad Ass Weekend here: www.bawevent.com. In other news, Scott has decided to take a spin at self-publishing some of his spanking fiction. An anthology of his early chapters of "Aaron's Game" are now available as a Kindle ebook for the low-low price of $2.99. Check it out here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07JFJSFCS

A very special guest joins Scott for Episode 19: Hunky porn star (PornHub's 2018 Top Bear Performer), and rugby jock Colby Jansen. Scott has been spanked by Colby twice now (and apparently there' s more to come). In the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Colby talks about how he got into the porn scene, how he discovered he was into spanking and BDSM, his escort work, and some etiquette if you're looking to find an escort to help you fulfill your spanking fantasies. In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking," Colby and Scott talk about how we all can push the major porn studios like Kink.com to maybe show a bit more spanking in their videos and the right way to give them feedback. Want to see more of Colby? Check out his fan site here: https://onlyfans.com/colbyjansenxxx Also, in other news, Scott is going to be attending Bad Ass Weekend in October in Augusta, Georgia. Several other of his podcast regulars will also be in attendance. There's still time to register. Information on the event here: http://baw

Sidney's back to join Scott to talk about some more heavy-duty bottom stuff. Also, porn star Colby Jansen showed up at the Moonburn Party and it took Scott all of 60 seconds to go flying over his knee for a spanking. So now he and Sidney have that in common. There was also an accidental death in the BDSM community in Los Angeles, and Scott and Sidney go over what happened. It's an important subject for anybody who is using spanking as a springboard into other parts of S&M play. For the rest of the podcast: In the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Scott and Sidney talk about double-teaming--when a single bottom submits to two spanking tops. Scott has done it a bunch as a top (and as of a week ago, once as a bottom). Sidney has done it a bunch as a bottom. We discuss what you should think about before submitting to an intense experience. In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking" we discuss leather and leather daddy fantasies. Leather, of course, plays a huge role in the gay BDSM scene. It's less prominent

Scott's Guest for Episode 17 is Copper, an extremely well-known member of the American scene of dude-spankers. If you don't know him for his role in Man's Hand spanking videos, then you most certainly have seen his spanking artwork. For our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Copper talks about his role in helping the Los Angeles spanking community get together and torment each other and the sorts of challenges he and the leaders of the Moonburn group have in keeping a party going for years. In our "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section we delve into Copper's background in spanking art, the struggles of trying to find markets for fetish art in the era of the internet, and how to support fetish-friendly artists.

We've got Big Daddy Vegas back for a third episode. And we've got info on a new spanking party in New York City appropriately called "Welts." (Check out the host's Tumblr page here: https://nycinfernoparty.tumblr.com/) In our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, it's been a while since we've talked about particular implements. Daddy Vegas is a master at the belt and straps, so we spent some time talking about how to use them, and how they feel, and what to do when you're inexperienced with them (watch out for those balls!). In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section, humiliation plays an important role in nearly every fantasy that involves spanking, so we decided to take some time to discuss why that is, how humiliation play allows for longer scenes, and how it allows for individual sessions to be more memorable and unique. All this and a question from a newcomer struggling with online communication with tops about getting spankings.

Jaden is back as a co-host this episode! We have fun news for Dudes into Spankin' and also into IPhones. Also, there's some straight dudes into spanking with other dudes who are willing to answer your questions. In "Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes," Jaden is here to follow up on Episode 7, where we introduced Whappz, a connection site for dudes into spanking Jaden has designed to become an app. But it was a struggle to get Apple to let it into the App store. It's finally available, and Jaden talks about what he had to go through to get Apple to approve an app to help people with specific fetishes connect. In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking" segment, Jaden and Scott talk about "headspace" and how fantasies help you get in the mindset for spank play. We tend to associate this behavior with roleplay, but it's a bit more complicated than that. It's not just a performance. It's about psychologically putting yourself in the right mental space to accept and enjoy the spanking experience. Jaden and Scott talking abou

Happy New Year! Big Daddy Vegas is back with RedSpankScott for another episode. We've got a bit of an update on the state of Whappz, focus of episode 7. Beyond that: In our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, we talk about resolutions for the New Year, particularly in terms of spankings, obviously. But also in terms of making friends and communicating with other guys in the spanking community. In our "Fantasy Life of Spanking" segment, Scott and Frank share a fondness for jocks, as do many dudes into spanking dudes or dudes who are into dudes in general. We talk about the fantasy and about Frank's background as an actual, honest-to-god Jock. We've also got a couple of questions from listeners at the end. And apologies for the drop in sound quality for the last 10 minutes or so. Clearly it's time for Scott to get a new headset.

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah , and Happy Holidays in general. Scott is back after taking November off and joined by Big Daddy Vegas. Apologies for the break between episodes, but Scott had a good reason, which he explains. Also, if you're in the Pittsburgh area, we have info on a relatively new spanking party. In our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" section, the podcast has been kind of bottom heavy (Scott does like his dudes a little bottom heavy). So Big Daddy Vegas and Scott go over a bunch of "Tips for Tops" about the kinds of things tops, especially less experienced tops, should plan for when playing with a new dude. In our "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section, December is the perfect time to look at the role Santa Claus plays in spanking fantasies. He's practically a celebrity among spankos and we explore why that is.

Brian (a.k.a. SoupGoblin) is back! Only as a guest host, but it's still good to have him back on the podcast. And he's back because he recently took a trip to Los Angeles and was able to attend a Moonburn in person. So we figured it would be a great opportunity to record a sequel to last year's Moonburn-centered podcast (episode 3) and talk about a whole bunch of spanking experiences that happened, featuring Brian getting paddled a whole lot and Scott as both the bully and the victim in a fun (and vicious) bit of reversal. We didn't have time for a fantasy life of spanking for this episode, but Scott does answer a listener question about Chi Delta Theta, a fantasy fraternity that existed back around 2000 as a precursor to online mechanisms for dudes into spanking to hook up. Scott was a member and has the paddle to prove it.

Scott has been asked repeatedly since starting the Dudes Spankin' Dudes podcast to discuss real world domestic discipline and Daddy/Boy fantasies. Unfortunately, these are areas in the spanking scene that Scott really doesn't participate in. So our guest for this episode of the podcast is Jake of the blog "Cornertime Confidential." Jake is in a relationship that involves domestic discipline spankings for actual real world reasons, and he's also very much part of the Daddy/Boy relationship dynamic scene. This podcast episode is all about the basics of both domestic discipline and Daddy/Boy roleplay. If you're interested in reading more, check out Jake's Cornertime Confidential blog: www.cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com www.cornertimeconfidential.wordpress.com

Sidney's back for a second episode! The timing was good to bring him back to discuss going off to Camp Red Tails in July and a spanking fantasy he has in common with Scott that they've both made a reality. Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: Scott has never been to Camp Red Tails in Northern California, but Sidney has. Sidney describes the experience and also how he got spanked by a porn star! Which porn star? You'll have to listen to find out. Details about Camp Red Tails here: https://manshandfilms.com/camp-red-tails/ The Fantasy Life of Spanking: Let's talk about whuppin's! That's Scott's term for heavy duty spanking sessions that don't have warm ups or a ramping up but are designed from the start to make a man cry. Scott and Sidney are both fond of the fantasy of the whuppin' (Scott as both a top and a bottom). They talk about the fantasy itself and what dudes should think about if they're thinking of making the fantasy real.

Another long episode! You know what that means: Stories involving actual real life dude-spanking-dude action! Including Scott's birthday spanking. It was a doozy. Scott is joined by Duke, who is new to the spanking scene, but has been involved in other types of BDSM play for years. Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: Spanking and the BDSM Scene. Scott talks to Duke about how an early bad experience pushed him away from spanking kink play, and how he's slowly worked his way back into the spanking scene. Scott helped! By beating Duke's ass. It was fun. The Fantasy Life of Spanking: Begging for a Bullying. From the very first podcast episode, Scott was surprised to discover that a lot of dudes into spanking harbored fantasies involving bullies. Scott loves it as both a top and bottom. Duke loves it as a bottom. So the two of them talk about what the bully fantasy means and how (and whether) to translate it into real life play. And what that looks like with some stories of actual sessions.