Dudes Spankin' Dudes

Our second Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by attendees Randy (a.k.a. RedBearSpanker) and Tony (a.k.a. BearSpanks) to discuss all the fun of the event. Lots of swats were dished out, Scott got bullied and wedgied quite a bit, a pool party led to some wet bottoms getting paddled, and a good time was (mostly) had by all. In other news, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes now has a Discord server. If you want to join, message Scott on the Twitter feed (https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes) or look up Scott on Whappz (RedSpankScott) and send him a message. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

It’s Hot Seat Retreat time! But for those of you unable to join us out in Palm Springs, Scott managed to squeeze in a fun episode about some important spanking history connected to Man’s Hand Films, which has just recently shut down as a company. Scott is joined by Mike (a.k.a. StricTop) and Phil (a.k.a. SFspank), who have launched a brand new m/m spanking art archive. The initial focus is on the artwork and contents of old issues of the now-defunct “Red Tails” magazine that Man’s Hand Films produced. We talk about how they started the archive, the work involved, why it’s important, and commissioning new art from erotic artists online. And we also reminisce about the days of Man’s Hand videos and some of our favorite old movies of theirs. Check out Mike and Phil’s archive here: www.gayspankart.com. Mike's Twitter feed is here: https://twitter.com/spank_gay Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Hey out there to any dudes attending Hot Seat Retreat. If you’re looking to get your hands on Scott’s ass while he’s involved in his hosting duties, please listen to these guidelines. Yes, Scott wants to be bullied and spanked all weekend long while he's serving as host and he'll be attending as a bottom. He takes a few minutes here to outline his consent and what he’s giving all of you permission to do to him. His poor butt is already quivering in anticipation for what’s to come. Please visit our site at HotSeatPS.com for info about the event. If you’re already registered to attend, please get active on our forums as folks schedule fun spanking activities. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

It’s our very first female guest ever, as author and spanking kinkster Jillian Keenan joins Scott to discuss what it is about guys spanking each other that appeals to some women. In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, we discuss a complex issue that Jillian has strong feelings about: Are kinks and fetishes a type of sexual orientation that we should treat differently from being gay or straight (or other)? Scott talks about some of the feedback he has gotten since coming out in episode 41 as asexual, and we discuss a recent Dan Savage letter from a straight guy who wants to be spanked by other men and how frequently dudes spank other dudes in her part of the spanking community. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Jillian absolutely loves stories about Star Wars Jedi Master Qui-Gon Jinn spanking Padowan Obi Wan Kenobi, and really any spanking fan fiction revolving around a male mentor spanking a younger student (like Batman and Robin). We discuss why that is, and she details an amazing recreation of one

Jaden of Whappz is back with Scott on the podcast for a review of CLAW in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving weekend. Scott did the work to put together some panels on spanking and a big spanking party. Jaden was there as well, and the two discuss what they’ve learned (and how awesome it was to have major spanking presence at a big leather festival). In the second half of the podcast, Scott “comes out” as asexual, something he had been on the edge of and thinking about for quite some time. But after spending a weekend with 1,000+ hot and kinky dudes and realizing he didn’t want to have sex with any of them, it was time to come to terms with the truth. Jaden is also asexual, and the two of them talk about what it means to be super kinky, but not want to actually engage in typical intercourse.

Come out to CLAW on Nov. 24-28 at the Westin Bonaventure Hotel in downtown Los Angeles. and have a great spanking time. Scott goes over all the important details of the Bad Boys Spanking Party and other fun activities. If you book a hotel room now, you will receive one free five-day event ticket for CLAW - just use CODE: C21-HOTELPACKAGE at www.clawinfo.org. There will also be day, night and vendor mart passes available for purchase soon. Vaccination is required to attend!

Scott is back from Bad Ass Weekend and is joined by Aaryn to discuss the amazing time they had at the first major U.S. spanking weekend to take place since the COVID lockdown. Pledges were hazed, naughty sons were disciplined by upset dads, and wrestlers grappled for dominance in some super-hot spanking activities. Also, Scott provides some more details about the upcoming Bad Boys Spanking Party and other spanktastic activities at CLAW in Los Angeles on Thanskgiving weekend. Spanking booth, anybody? Hope to see you there! Bad Ass Weekend's website: bawevent.com CLAW's website: clawinfo.org Aaryn's Twitter feed: https://twitter.com/aarynleesparxxx Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

This episode Scott is joined by Bob Miller, one of the of the founders and the executive director of Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend (a.k.a. CLAW). Due to COVID wrecking schedules and planning, CLAW’s annual convention is happening this year in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving week. Better yet, it marks the kick-off of what they’re planning to be a new annual leather-kink-bdsm gathering every November here on the West Coast. Scott will be attending, and has taken the initiative of putting together a spanking party for CLAW for Friday, Nov. 26. He talks with Bob (who is also into spanking) about why spanking fetishists should feel comfortable attending these events even if they’re not into leather gear or pup play or other kink activities. If this spanking party works out, Scott hopes to make it an annual event, so get your asses out here to L.A. And don’t forget about Bad Ass Weekend coming up in October. And registration will be opening up on Sept. 18 for Hot Seat Retreat 2022 on March 17-20 in Palm Springs.

Scott is joined by Jaden and Doug to formally announce that Hot Seat Retreat is on track for 2022. The event will take place from March 17-20 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs, California. Registration will formally open on Sept. 18. We go over all the basics to prep y'all on what to expect if you attend next year's hot spanking weekend. We hope to see you there! Visit the website here: https://www.hotseatps.com/ Follow our Twitter feed at: https://twitter.com/HotSeatRetreat

Jaden, founder of Whappz and co-founder of Hot Seat Retreat, is back for another episode as we all prepare for Bad Ass Weekend (bawevent.com) in Georgia in October. And Scott announces plans for a spanking party at the Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend (CLAW) event (clawinfo.org), which will actually be taking place in Los Angeles this November on Thanksgiving weekend. Stay tuned for more details. We’ll also be announcing registration for Hot Seat Retreat 2022 very soon. In “Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes,” Scott and Jaden tackle the problem of dudes that are not actually real on hookup sites and apps. There’s been a rise of scammers using our favorite fetish platforms to try to weasel private information and money out of you. We talk about tools that help you make sure your dudes are really real, and how to make sure dudes you try to talk to recognize you’re also a real dude and not a scammer. In “The Fantasy Life of Spanking”: Wedgies! Wedgies have always been a fringe kink on the scene that has combine

Greetings dudes! Scott takes a step away from podcast episodes to record a special segment on spanking basics, inspired by seeing a bunch of fresh faces (and butts) coming into the scene post-COVID. This is intended to be a sort of “evergreen” podcast episode that can be searched for and shared with other dudes who are having fantasies about spanking and are wondering what to expect. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Just a quick message to let y'all know that the L.A. Moonburn m/m spanking parties are officially back! The next party will be on Saturday, July 3, from noon-5 p.m., at the Threshold club in North Hollywood. (Their site is here: threshold.org) Vaccinations are mandatory to attend. Scott will be celebrating his 50th birthday, so be sure to give him some licks!

J.R. (a.k.a. Bossman) returns to the podcast after giving Scott’s ass its first post-pandemic beating. We discuss what that was like and how to ease yourself back into pain play if you’ve taken, like we have, 14 months off from the scene. In the “Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes” segment, we talk about how rebooting your butt and your BDSM interest is an opportunity to perhaps experiment in other types of impact play and expanding your horizons. We discuss the ins and outs of flogging, punching, and face-slapping. And we discuss the state of events and the spanking scene (Hope to see you all at Bad Ass Weekend) as the world slowly starts to reopen. More on Bad Ass Weekend here: bawevent.com More on San Francisco’s spanking party here: https://sanfranciscomensspankingparty.com/ More on CanSpanks here: https://canspanks.wixsite.com/canspanks/foxhaven

For episode 36, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes Co-creator Croup/Soup Goblin/Brian returns to chat with Scott about furry culture, what it’s like to be a furry, and about bringing the spanking fetish to the furry community. In addition, Bad Ass Weekend is on schedule for October, and Scott reaches a birthday milestone and offers up his ass for punishment. In Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes, Croup talks about what furry culture is, how he developed an interest in it, his unicorn “fursona” Inarog, and how it all relates to spanking. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, furry fantasies are an excellent way to explore unusual or wild ideas about spankings. Scott explains how he made a “fursona” of his own, a hippo named Brody, to help explore his fantasies of heavy duty play and other forms of BDSM, and how he actually helped Scott branch out into new areas of kink! More info on Bad Ass Weekend here at bawevent.com

Finally, the caning episode! With the assistance of British guest Harrison, we talk about the well-known, well-worn British love of caning this episode. The Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes section discusses caning techniques, things to do and not do, and what a caning feels like. The Fantasy Life of Spanking section discusses the British schoolboy fantasy, some of the history of caning in schools, and most importantly, how to bring those fantasies to life. Also, Scott memorializes another prominent members of the dudes spankin’s dudes community who passed away in December. And we take a question about what implements you can use if you can’t make a lot of sound. If you want to reach out to Harrison or check out his spanking videos— Twitter: https://twitter.com/hotspotharrison Clip store: http://clips4sale.com/studio/160647

This is not a full podcast episode, but sadly, a short message informing everybody that Hot Seat Retreat for March 2021 has been cancelled. We're making initial plans to return to Palm Springs in March 2022 and some sort of virtual event to take its place. Listen for more details.

This episode begins with some sad news for our listeners. Frank, a.k.a. “Big Daddy Vegas,” who was the guest for episodes 13, 14, and 16, has passed away from Bulbar ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease. Scott opens with some warm thoughts about a close friend. Our guest for this episode is James AZ of Southspanking.com, and that’s what our “Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes” segment is about. SouthSpanking is a great social media platform for dudes into spanking, and if you’re not already on there, you should check it out. If you’re missing all the hot spanking smut you used to see on Tumblr, SouthSpanking has you covered. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, James is in a domestic discipline marriage where he’s living out a very common fantasy—the weekly review discipline session. If you’ve ever fantasized about being in a relationship where you are on a regular discipline spanking schedule, James talks about what it’s like to live it out and what dudes should think about before they pursue it. Check out Sou

Scott is joined this episode by Isaac (izkboy on Whappz and SpankThis Hookups), a trans dude from New York who is new to the spanking scene but managed to get some action in before COVID-19 shut everything down. (FYI, Bad Ass Weekend for October has been cancelled.) In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, Isaac talks about the mostly very positive experiences he has had joining the spanking scene as a trans dude and has tips for everybody. In The Fantasy Life of Spanking segment, Isaac talks about his childhood fantasies of having older brothers (nine of them!) to bully him and give him spankings and how that translates into adult spanking fantasies. Special shout-out here to the “Brother in Charge” series at Straight Lads Spanked for anybody looking for spanking porn that can help scratch this itch. And we take a question from a possible newbie to the spanking scene who worries he may be too old, especially as a bottom. Don’t worry! We’ll get you a sore butt! As soon as this stupid pandemic is ove

Doug (from episode 30 about Hot Seat Retreat) is back to talk some more. He and Scott and Jaden worked on a great video to hopefully keep all you dudes entertained during our shared Coronavirus Lockdown, featuring interviews with guys involved with Sting, SpankThis, Bad Ass Weekend, and others. Check out the video at Hotseatps.com. In the Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes segment, Doug shares what it’s like to be married to another spanking fetishist, how their relationship works, how they negotiate play with other guys, how they handle issues, and how they keep their fetish interest fresh. It’s a useful discussion for anybody thinking that they might want to settle down with a spanking partner some day. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Doug reveals that he lives out a very common spanking fantasy: Being punished by a personal trainer. Yes, he over the past several years has been literally whipped into shape. He talks about how he got started and what people should think about before they actually try to get a

Scott is joined this month by buddy Mike, who was his next-door neighbor at March's Hot Seat Retreat. In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Mike is a big fan of self-spanking, and in a time where we shouldn't be out trying to hook up with each other, no matter how badly we need a spanking, Mike has tips on applying heat to your own seat. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking we talk about fantasies about real life "accountability" spankings and punishments. How do you know you really want to be spanked for real-life reasons and how is it different from just wanting to get spanked. Mike explains. Oh, and speaking of real-life spanking accountability, check out the Dudes Spankin's Dudes Twitter feed and weigh in on how much Scott should have to paddle himself for his terrible, terrible quarantine Mohawk: https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes