Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality From A Christian Perspective

June and July 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:Wife keeps falling asleep during sexIs it possible for women to orgasm without cumming?Wife wants bigger toysHow do I handle my wife screaming at me?Clone-a-willyBlowjobs make me nauseousDo men who take ED meds tell their wives?Why should single people abstain from sex?Insecurity about penis sizeWhy do I look at men's crotches?Husband is constantly sexualIs prostate stimulation wrong?This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Our Latest SurveyFemale Ejaculation Survey ResultsCAT (Coital Alignment Technique) Position - Grinding the Corn - ChristianFriendSexPositions.comPenis Sleeves - Married DanceButt Plugs - Married DanceAre sex toys allowed in a Christian marriage?Clone-A-Willy - Married DanceHow does breast or penis size

May 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:Husband is in jailHusband masturbates all the timeHusband won't quit pornShould Christians avoid Tantric Sex?Premature EjaculationBondage ResourcesJock ItchWife is not interested in sexHusband not interested in sex with wifeBeing "too loose" after childrenWhen to disclose a masturbation & porn addiction when datingThis month our most popular resource is Becoming More Sexually Engaged - A Course for Christian Wives. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Keep Your Love On - Danny SilkBoundaries In Marriage - Henry Cloud et al.Becoming more sexually engagedSWM 039 - Anonymous Questions from January 2019 - Part 3SWM 051 - Anonymous Questions from October 2019Premature EjaculationMutual MasturbationOur Sexploration ListBeginner Bondage QuestionsBondage Rope on AmazonTwisted MonkThe DutchySafety

April 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:How can I get more intimate nights with my wife?Can I have sex with my ex-husband?Does my husband want kinky sex?Is it okay to want more passionate sex?What happens when you die - what about Lazarus and the rich man?Why does my wife suddenly want daily sex?Is it okay for my wife to flash me?Wife thinks it's sinful to touch herself during sexThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Responsive desire is a blessingSexy Memory GameBecoming more sexually engagedWhat happens when you die?Why solo masturbation is a problem whether you are married or singleToys mentioned:We-Vibe SyncTOREvaPOCOBeFullyWell.com - Jessica McCleese - Licensed Christian Sex TherapistMarriage CoachingOur Forum (open during the COVID-19 crisis)Follow us on Face

How do you feel connected during sex? Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the question of how you can feel more connected during sex.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Why I, as a Christian, believe we don't have a soulSpice JarOur Sexploration ListMarriage CoachingFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.We are 53% of the way to our next support goal! Thank you to all our faithful supporters.If you'd like us to start hosting virtual workshops, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.And don't forget to leave us a review and share with your friends!

March 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:Is fingering fornication?Is it wrong to fulfill my wife's fantasy of having a gang-bang?How to tell my husband sex is bad when he drinks?Husband's penis keeps falling out during sexWife doesn't want to dress up for meThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:It's still adultery, even if you have permissionCan Christians have threesomes?Christian Friendly Sex PositionsOverweightLess EndowedDeeper PenetrationOur Forum (open during the COVID-19 crisis)Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

February 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:How can I become more comfortable masturbating?Why wouldn't he use lube?How to have "team sex" (not what you think)Husband can't be emotionally intimate or trust meMeta discussion about piercingsHow do I start to fix my marriage?Becoming more sexually engagedThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Faithful Counseling (10% off for our listeners with this link)Marriage CoachingWhy marriage ruins sexSacred Marriage - Gary ThomasKeep your love on - Danny SilkBoundaries in Marriage - Henry Cloud and John TownsendIntimacy IgnitedBecoming more sexually engagedOur Forum (open during the COVID-19 crisis)Free Webinar - Stress and Sex - May 3rd, 2019 - 9pm EDTFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the ques

December 2019 and January 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:Gang bang fantasiesHow to make sex not feel like an obligationHow to get past setbacks during foreplayHow to deal with a wife who needs to feel "dirty" to orgasmA warning about the book "Boundaries"Do vibrators have negative long term effectsThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Is it still adultery if you have permission?Introduction to talking dirtyBoundaries in Marriage - Henry Cloud and John TownsendKeep your love on - Danny SilkSimultaneous Orgasm survey resultsFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.We gained a bunch of supporters back again, some new, so we are 96% of the way to our next support goal! Tha

Are Dominance and submission games in the bedroom okay? This is a question from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the question of whether or not dominance and submission play is humiliating, if it's okay to call your husband "sir" in the bedroom, what about "daddy", and what if the wife is the dominant one?This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List printable, which we're actually giving away free to our $5+ supporters this month. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Want to get it free, check our supporter information page.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:My wife wants me to tie her up?Beginner Bondage QuestionsHonor BondageHousehold Hierarchy - What does our phsysiology say about who should lead?According to the Bible, which gender should lead?What does household leadership mean for the husband?Finding the Father - Herb MontgomeryFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and Tw

October 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:Other types of orgasmsHow to deal with a transgendered-friendCrossdressing for comfortAn unrepentant husbandOrgasmless sexWife sleeps during sexHusband will not come to bed at a decent timeWhat if you medically can't have sexHow do you switch from being single and chaste to married and sexual?This month our most popular resource is our Spice Jar printable. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:What happens to our souls when we have sex?Dante's The Divine ComedyHow do I know my spous is my soul-mate?Is it wrong for Christians to crossdress?Keep your love on - Danny SilkBoundaries in Marriage - Henry Cloud and John TownsendIs mutual masturbation okay for married Christians?Intimacy IgnitedFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in,

September 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:How do you deal with deployment and sex drivesHow do we improve sexual intimacyHow to improve our sex lifeSatisfaction and adventurousnessHow do you get your wife to be more dominant in bedAsking doesn’t work, not asking doesn’t workHusband has sleep apneaWhat should teenagers do instead of masturbate?Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Mutual Masturbation for Married ChristiansDr. Jessica McCleeseIntimacy Ignited - Small Group StudyThe worst time to spice up your sex life9 raunchy reasons why letting him cum up your nostril will lead to the best sex of your lifeIntroduction to Talking DirtyIntimacy Advent CalendarFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.We gained a bunch of supporters back again, some new, so we are 86% of the way to ou

Focus on your spouse, not the model. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, I'm talking about spontaneous and responsive desire are just a model to help educator and guide. But eventually you have to drop the model and focus on how your spouse is unique.Listen to these two podcast episodes first:Responsive desire is a blessingSpontaneous desire is a blessingCheck out our Intimacy Advent Calendar if you're looking for a Christmas gift to help boost intimacy and keep you and your spouse focused on each other during the holidays. Visit the site to check out all the amazing reviews people shared from last year.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Also, supporters giving at least $5/month get our Intimacy Advent Calendar free this month.Make sure you subscribe to the newsletter so you don't miss out on everything that's going on. Lastly, if you have any questions, you can always email me at jay@uncoveringintimacy.com.

July and August 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:How often do people's sex drives switch from low to high?How to squirtWife is into whippingAnal sex tipsSingle and curious about erectionsLow drive wife is secretly masturbating every nightHusband has a secret Facebook profilePorn addiction ruining relationshipsWife said she could go months without sexLow drive husband with Asperger's SyndromeSex is just another thing on my wife's checklistOral sex not being reciprocatedHusband engaging with women onlineHere are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Responsive vs Spontaneous DesireWomen's Health Magazine - Make yourself squirtBoundaries In Marriage - Henry CloudCovenant Eyes Web FilteringThe Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome22 Thing a Woman Must Know if She Loves a Man with Asperger's SyndromeFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as the

Responsive desire is a blessing. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, I'm talking about how responsive desire can actually be a blessing to both the one with responsive desire and the person who's spouse has it.Links I mentioned are:September Kegel / Squat ChallengeResponsive vs. spontaneous desireDo you control your emotions or do they control you?Spice JarSexy MemoryLearn how to massage your spouseSweet almond massage oilOur Sexploration ListSexual inhibitorsDesire vs. willingnessIf you have any questions, you can email me at jay@uncoveringintimacy.com.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.Make sure you subscribe to the newsletter so you don't miss out on everything that's going on.

Tackling May and June 2019 questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:How important is communication during sex?Is it wrong to not want your wife to lose weight?Someone asks if they should have an affairHow do you find time to have sex when you have young children?Does premature ejaculation affect your sex drive?What do you do if your husband won’t quit masturbating alone?Is it still considered crossdressing if it’s for comfort?A question about male chastity or female-led relationships.Should you suggest a boob job to your wife?A question about language in the bedroomIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Lastly, we're closing in our our next support goal! 93% of the way there!If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.And our survey post should be up this week some time. There won't be a podcast, so make sure you subs

Tackling February and March 2019 questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:Is doggy style demeaning?Does anal sex always cause bleeding?How to start talking about sex with a sensitive wife?Can you have sex with an unsaved spouse?How to handle a wife orgasming too quicklyMutual MasturbationSwallowing your own semenCan you be married to the wrong person?Is sexlessness being unfaithful?Ethical pornIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Lastly, we're closing in our our next support goal! 82% of the way there!If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.And our survey post should be up this week some time. There won't be a podcast, so make sure you subscribe to the newsletter so you don't miss it.

Tackling the newest questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here.In this third and final part, we're tackling the subjects:Wife looking up exWife used to be a swingerIs bondage okay?Our sex life is boringWife destroying self-esteemIs it okay to buy my wife lingerie for my birthday?Wife teasing husband sexuallyWhy does my husband want to lick my ass?!and more ...If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Some other updates:We're closing in our our next support goal! If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.And I'm done the analysis from our latest survey. I just need to post the results, so they should be up soon.Have a question, but don't want to send an email? Call 1-833-719-0228 and leave me a voicemail. If you’re in the US, you can also text me.

This is a sermon I wrote and preached in my home church on Matthew 19:1-11 - Jesus responding to the Pharisees asking about divorce.Check out the video here: https://youtu.be/XZCdnDSKO4UGet the show notes / text of the sermon here: https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm042-god-will-never-leave-you/

It happened again. I was answering questions from February and March from our Have A Question page, and the answer to this one turned into it's own blog post and podcast episode. Check out the blog post here.If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Some of the links mentioned in the podcast:Do you control your emotions or do they control you?Have you broken your wedding vows?Attraction SurveyConversation Starters Book37 Questions for spouses to ask each other about sexWhy solo masturbation is a problem if you're singleScheduling sexWant more podcast episodes to listen to? We're 79% of the way to the next goal, which will mean weekly podcasts. Did you know most of our supporters only give $5/month. Add your pocket change to help us meet our goal. Check out our Support Us for more info.Analysis of our latest survey has started, and should be out soon. Don't want to miss it? Be sure to join our mailing list.

I was answering questions from February and March from our Have A Question page, and the answer to this one turned into it's own blog post and podcast episode because the question showed a common misunderstanding about what a soul is. Check out the show notes here.If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Some other updates:We've added some new functionality to our supporter's forum. You can now email in topics to discuss, and can just reply to the notification emails to reply to threads. Our users are loving it and interactions are increasing, which is awesome.Want more podcast episodes to listen to? We're 77% of the way to the next goal, which will mean weekly podcasts. Did you know most of our supporters only give $5/month. Add your pocket change to help us meet our goal. Check out our Support Us for more info.Analysis of our latest survey has started, and should be out soon. Don't want to miss it? Be sure to join our mailing list.Have a question, bu