Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality From A Christian Perspective

September 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Wanting your wife to have sex with other menHow to handle a spouse who doesn't want to have sexWhat is healthy sexuality for single people?Does God intend for you to be a virgin if you don't get married?Dealing with the loss of a wifeCan men continue to have sex after orgasm?Should you do Our Sexploration List while aroused or not?Pain during sexAre men turned off by prolapses?How to build staminaAre topless and nude photos the same as porn?This month our most popular resource is Our Intimacy Advent Calendar - a fun way to inject some intimacy into the holiday season. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Covenant Eyes - Accountability SoftwareWhere did my sex drive go? - Free EbookOur Sexploration ListPost on pain during sexMoringa seedsMoringa seedsMaca powderL-ArginineRed GinsengAs

August 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Snoopy wife caught husbandIs orgasming the same as cumming?Is OMGYes okay?Ejaculate colour and consistencyEncouraging senior sexWife won’t “finish” oral sexWife searched for pornBirth control for ChristiansWife’s smellWhat sexual behaviour is prohibitedZoloft and PE updateMultiple wives - againThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Recently updated with new sections! Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Christian Married Sex ConferenceBecoming More Sexually Engaged - for Christian WivesBirth control options for ChristiansZoloft and PE original questionWhen did God stop allowing multiple wives?Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private

July 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:How do I hide my BDSM toys when I live at home with my parents?Does God value boys more than girls based on Leviticus 12:2-5?How do you handle the hormones from PCOS when you have a low-drive husband?Is it okay to fantasize about my fiancee?This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Recently updated with new sections! Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Sex Noises SurveyChristian Married Sex ConferenceBecoming More Sexually Engaged - for Christian WivesFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/

June 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:How to improve a boring sex lifeWhy only ED during sex?Meds for Premature EjaculationRisky public sexShould I talk to my doctor if I have ED?Fantasizing about premarital sexTurned on by my wife urinatingWife with no interest in sexIs breastplay required for a good marriage?This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. We just updated it! Get it free this month when you become a new $5+/month supporter.  Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Sex Noises SurveyIntimacy Ignited - Song of Solomon Bible StudyPromescent - Premature Ejaculation SprayEpisode 68 - Discussion of the morality of public sexWhy marriage ruins sexIntroduction to talking dirtyWhere did my sex drive go? - Free ebookWhy are men obsessed with breasts?Don't put yo

May 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:How we look at sexWhy we have refractory periodsWhether or not it’s common for a husband to have to ask his wife if she had an orgasmA husband who is secretly purchasing toysA widow who wants to know what happened to her husband who was crematedThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life.  Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Melt - CouplesMassageCourses.com - 20% off for Fathers' DayWhy you should take a couples massage class25% off in our shop for Father's Day - use coupon code FATHERSDAYA day of sexAbout the corpus callosum (why men are single minded)Why do some women's legs shake when they orgasm?Keep Your Love On - Danny SilkBoundaries in Marriage - Henry Cloud and John TownsendIs it okay to engage in pegging in a marriage?

April 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Friends touching me inappropriatelyPostpartum recovery from the husband’s perspectiveHusband is anxious about sexNot attracted to my husband anymoreHusband doesn’t like oral sexHow to get over husband’s porn useNarcissistic husband and adulterous wifeThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life.  Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:SWM 067 – Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and LoveFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here t

Is a sexual activity wrong if it was learned from a sinful source? Check out the show notes here for more details and links.The question we're answering today is:My wife and I have a very active sex life. We enjoy a nice variety of activities and positions. Our frequency is definitely on the higher side, so I really have no complaints.We have used porn, either separately or together, for much of our relationship and are working on that issue. I understand the problems with that and the implications. That is not what this is about. Many of the things we do sexually have been learned and implemented from watching or reading porn. We have discovered many very enjoyable activities from that area of our lives together.So, here is the question. Does a sexual activity become wrong or sinful if it was introduced from a sinful source? I feel that as long as the activity involves a man and woman married to each other, that activity becomes blessed in the marriage bed. I know others who don't feel the same way. My wife

March 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Is any part of porn ok?Is it unreasonable to expect sex after oral?Are humans meant to be non-monogamous?Is it okay to teach kids to masturbate safely?Wife doesn't enjoy sex but says she wants to be promiscuousThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life.  Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Solo masturbation is a problem whether you are married or singleFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us

Are sexual fantasies okay for Christians? Does it matter what the fantasy is? If it's only in your mind, does that make it okay? Check out the show notes here for more details and links.The question we're answering today is:My wife and I have had a reasonably active sex life for most of our relationship. There have been ups and downs of course, but for the most part, we really have no complaints that way.One part of that sex life that has been around since very early on is fantasy. We both, me somewhat more than her, enjoy and get very aroused by telling each other different fantasies. The ones that are the most effective and "fun" are ones that involve other people, and even more, same-sex activity. She gets extremely aroused and has very intense orgasms when I tell her about me having sex with another man, vice versa when she tells me about having sex with another woman. Neither of these has ever actually happened, it's strictly fantasy, and neither of us actually has a desire to fulfill these fantasies, bu

February 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Semi-public sexSquirtingLow drive wifeFell asleep during sexWife doesn't like physical contactWhat is pornographicPoophole loopholeThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Is it okay to engage in pegging in a marriageOur Sexploration ListSpice JarLast month's podcastFemale ejaculation/squirting/gushing survey resultsHow can I stop gushing?How to make yourself squirt during sexWhere did my sex drive go?Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month make

Is it okay to remarry after divorce? Check out the show notes here for more details and all the verses.What does Matthew 5:32 mean when it says:But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery. - Matthew 5:32 NKJVIs it as clear-cut as it seems? I don't think so, and in this episode, I'll dig into why based on what the rest of the Bible has to say about the topic.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd join the discussion of upcoming blog posts, podcast episodes, product launches and other events, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions who faithfully donate! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with

January 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Is nudism a sin?Is exhibitionism okay?Does Romans 13:14 say you shouldn't plan for sex?Wife won't get help for traumaHow do I start an ANR?How do I be a respectful wife when my husband is watching porn?Is male lingerie okay?Doggy style is too deepOpposite sleep schedules affecting sexThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Adult Nursing RelationshipsThe Bumper Deep Trust CushionFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference and new s

SWM 067 - Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and Love. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, I thought I'd take the opportunity to some of the various neuro-chemicals involved in new relationships, why we don't feel the same after we've been married for a while, all while answering a reader's question about why he doesn't feel attracted to his wife.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference and new supporters in January get our Truth or Dare printable free.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their re

December 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Legs shaking during oral sexWife changed after separationFeeling drained after oral sexBirth controlCock worshipGo see a doctor if you are worried about your healthThis month our most popular resource is our Truth or Dare printable. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Truth or Dare - Free Online VersionTruth or Dare - Printable VersionBirth Control Options for ChristiansFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference and new supporters in January get our Truth or Dare printable free.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give

November 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Managing a high sex driveLosing erections while changing positionsBeing too loud during sexHusband thinks his wife is sexually boringVaginismusHow do you surrender and give God control in your life?This month our most popular resource is Intimacy Advent Calendar. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Dr. Jessica McCleese - Christian Sex TherapistAmazon - ball gagSpice JarSexy MemoryWhat do you do if sex is painful?Our Sexploration ListWomanizerLELO Sona CruzeMagic WandFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like o

October 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:The MotorbunnyWhere is the eye candy for women?Body odourRemarriageHating Doggy StyleNaggingThis month our most popular resource is Intimacy Advent Calendar. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Sermon - It's all worth itWhy masturbation is a problem whether you're married or singleHousehold leadership according to the BibleFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, or leave us a review. Ratings and reviews help others know this is a good resource to help with with t

I’m preaching this weekend in my home church, and so, I thought I’d share my sermon, both because I feel bad that I haven’t been working as much on getting podcast episodes out because of it, and because I thought it might be a good way to practice it, do some final editing and figure out how long it would be.So, the audio is a recording of me reading through it, and if you prefer text, you can find it at uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-063-sermon-its-all-worth-it/If you like our podcast, and want to encourage us to make more, please be sure to leave us a rating, or better yet a review by visiting lovethepodcast.com/uncoveringintimacy.

It's Cyber Monday! I'm sorry, I completely forgot to tell my podcast listners about the Black Friday Deals, but most of them are still up for Cyber Monday. I'm going to extend mine a day or two, just to give you a chance. You can check out all the details here.Most of the items in our shop are 50% off, just use coupon code BLACKFRIDAY2020 however, our Intimacy Advent Calendar is only available at this time of the year and will be disappearing soon until next Christmas. You can check it out here.Lastly, if you want the Intimacy Advent Calendar for free, I'm giving it out to all my $5+/month supporters. If you've been considering becoming a supporter and joining our supporter's forum, now is an excellent time! More details here.

September 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Husbands who refuse sexBeing too wetPeggingDreamsNeeding different kinds of foreplayPolyamoryCuckoldingThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Take our latest survey!Intimacy Advent CalendarMy thoughts on divorceIntimacy IgnitedMarried Dance - Liberator ThrowMelt - Couples Massage CoursesForeplay gamesFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

August 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Negative Self-TalkSex and Midnight PrayerIs it okay to ask God for a spouse who enjoys anal sex?How to deal with jealousySex isn't special after the wife had an affairDid Jesus ever get married?Is it wrong to have sex in the same room as another couple?Is it okay to leave my wife because she can't have sex?Should anything go in the bedroom?Trouble with manual sexHow to keep intimacy alive without sexThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Survey Results - What's the best way to have sex?Course - Becoming More Sexually EngagedResponsive vs Spontaneous DesireSweet Almond OilMelt - Couples Massage CoursesIntroduction to Talking DirtyShould christians have sex while fasting?Is anal sex a sin?Dr. Jessica McCleeseDr. Jeffrey Francis