Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality From A Christian Perspective

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Synopsis

Answering questions about married sexuality and intimacy

Episodes

  • SWM 075 – May 2021 Questions – How we look at sex, refractory periods, asking about orgasms and more

    18/06/2021 Duration: 17min

    May 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:How we look at sexWhy we have refractory periodsWhether or not it’s common for a husband to have to ask his wife if she had an orgasmA husband who is secretly purchasing toysA widow who wants to know what happened to her husband who was crematedThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life.  Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Melt - CouplesMassageCourses.com - 20% off for Fathers' DayWhy you should take a couples massage class25% off in our shop for Father's Day - use coupon code FATHERSDAYA day of sexAbout the corpus callosum (why men are single minded)Why do some women's legs shake when they orgasm?Keep Your Love On - Danny SilkBoundaries in Marriage - Henry Cloud and John TownsendIs it okay to engage in pegging in a marriage?

  • SWM 074 – Apr 2021 Questions – Friends who grope, postpartum recovery, anxious husbands and more

    07/06/2021 Duration: 19min

    April 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Friends touching me inappropriatelyPostpartum recovery from the husband’s perspectiveHusband is anxious about sexNot attracted to my husband anymoreHusband doesn’t like oral sexHow to get over husband’s porn useNarcissistic husband and adulterous wifeThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life.  Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:SWM 067 – Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and LoveFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here t

  • Is a sexual activity wrong if it was learned from a sinful source?

    30/05/2021 Duration: 09min

    Is a sexual activity wrong if it was learned from a sinful source? Check out the show notes here for more details and links.The question we're answering today is:My wife and I have a very active sex life. We enjoy a nice variety of activities and positions. Our frequency is definitely on the higher side, so I really have no complaints.We have used porn, either separately or together, for much of our relationship and are working on that issue. I understand the problems with that and the implications. That is not what this is about. Many of the things we do sexually have been learned and implemented from watching or reading porn. We have discovered many very enjoyable activities from that area of our lives together.So, here is the question. Does a sexual activity become wrong or sinful if it was introduced from a sinful source? I feel that as long as the activity involves a man and woman married to each other, that activity becomes blessed in the marriage bed. I know others who don't feel the same way. My wife

  • SWM 072 – Mar 2021 Questions – Should humans be non-monogamous and more

    05/05/2021 Duration: 12min

    March 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Is any part of porn ok?Is it unreasonable to expect sex after oral?Are humans meant to be non-monogamous?Is it okay to teach kids to masturbate safely?Wife doesn't enjoy sex but says she wants to be promiscuousThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life.  Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Solo masturbation is a problem whether you are married or singleFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us

  • SWM 071 – Is it okay for Christians to have sexual fantasies?

    13/04/2021 Duration: 15min

    Are sexual fantasies okay for Christians? Does it matter what the fantasy is? If it's only in your mind, does that make it okay? Check out the show notes here for more details and links.The question we're answering today is:My wife and I have had a reasonably active sex life for most of our relationship. There have been ups and downs of course, but for the most part, we really have no complaints that way.One part of that sex life that has been around since very early on is fantasy. We both, me somewhat more than her, enjoy and get very aroused by telling each other different fantasies. The ones that are the most effective and "fun" are ones that involve other people, and even more, same-sex activity. She gets extremely aroused and has very intense orgasms when I tell her about me having sex with another man, vice versa when she tells me about having sex with another woman. Neither of these has ever actually happened, it's strictly fantasy, and neither of us actually has a desire to fulfill these fantasies, bu

  • SWM 070 – Feb 2021 Questions – Semi-public sex, squirting, falling asleep during sex and more

    24/03/2021 Duration: 15min

    February 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Semi-public sexSquirtingLow drive wifeFell asleep during sexWife doesn't like physical contactWhat is pornographicPoophole loopholeThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Is it okay to engage in pegging in a marriageOur Sexploration ListSpice JarLast month's podcastFemale ejaculation/squirting/gushing survey resultsHow can I stop gushing?How to make yourself squirt during sexWhere did my sex drive go?Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month make

  • SWM 069 – Is it okay to remarry after being divorced?

    09/03/2021 Duration: 15min

    Is it okay to remarry after divorce? Check out the show notes here for more details and all the verses.What does Matthew 5:32 mean when it says:But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery. - Matthew 5:32 NKJVIs it as clear-cut as it seems? I don't think so, and in this episode, I'll dig into why based on what the rest of the Bible has to say about the topic.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd join the discussion of upcoming blog posts, podcast episodes, product launches and other events, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions who faithfully donate! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with

  • SWM 068 – Jan 2020 Questions – Nudists, exhibitionism, male lingerie, pet play, ANR and more

    24/02/2021 Duration: 25min

    January 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Is nudism a sin?Is exhibitionism okay?Does Romans 13:14 say you shouldn't plan for sex?Wife won't get help for traumaHow do I start an ANR?How do I be a respectful wife when my husband is watching porn?Is male lingerie okay?Doggy style is too deepOpposite sleep schedules affecting sexThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Adult Nursing RelationshipsThe Bumper Deep Trust CushionFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference and new s

  • SWM 067 – Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and Love

    24/01/2021 Duration: 10min

    SWM 067 - Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and Love. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, I thought I'd take the opportunity to some of the various neuro-chemicals involved in new relationships, why we don't feel the same after we've been married for a while, all while answering a reader's question about why he doesn't feel attracted to his wife.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference and new supporters in January get our Truth or Dare printable free.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their re

  • SWM 066 – Dec 2020 Questions – Shaking legs, wife changed after separation, birth control and more

    20/01/2021 Duration: 11min

    December 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Legs shaking during oral sexWife changed after separationFeeling drained after oral sexBirth controlCock worshipGo see a doctor if you are worried about your healthThis month our most popular resource is our Truth or Dare printable. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Truth or Dare - Free Online VersionTruth or Dare - Printable VersionBirth Control Options for ChristiansFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference and new supporters in January get our Truth or Dare printable free.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give

  • SWM 065 – Nov 2020 Questions – High sex drives, losing erections, being too loud, vaginismus and more

    29/12/2020 Duration: 18min

    November 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Managing a high sex driveLosing erections while changing positionsBeing too loud during sexHusband thinks his wife is sexually boringVaginismusHow do you surrender and give God control in your life?This month our most popular resource is Intimacy Advent Calendar. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Dr. Jessica McCleese - Christian Sex TherapistAmazon - ball gagSpice JarSexy MemoryWhat do you do if sex is painful?Our Sexploration ListWomanizerLELO Sona CruzeMagic WandFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like o

  • SWM 064 – Oct 2020 Questions – Body odour, remarriage, doggy style sex and more

    17/12/2020 Duration: 18min

    October 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:The MotorbunnyWhere is the eye candy for women?Body odourRemarriageHating Doggy StyleNaggingThis month our most popular resource is Intimacy Advent Calendar. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Sermon - It's all worth itWhy masturbation is a problem whether you're married or singleHousehold leadership according to the BibleFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, or leave us a review. Ratings and reviews help others know this is a good resource to help with with t

  • SWM 063 – Sermon – It’s all worth it

    04/12/2020 Duration: 47min

    I’m preaching this weekend in my home church, and so, I thought I’d share my sermon, both because I feel bad that I haven’t been working as much on getting podcast episodes out because of it, and because I thought it might be a good way to practice it, do some final editing and figure out how long it would be.So, the audio is a recording of me reading through it, and if you prefer text, you can find it at uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-063-sermon-its-all-worth-it/If you like our podcast, and want to encourage us to make more, please be sure to leave us a rating, or better yet a review by visiting lovethepodcast.com/uncoveringintimacy.

  • Black Friday Deals for your Marriage – Save up to 50%

    27/11/2020 Duration: 04min

    It's Cyber Monday! I'm sorry, I completely forgot to tell my podcast listners about the Black Friday Deals, but most of them are still up for Cyber Monday. I'm going to extend mine a day or two, just to give you a chance. You can check out all the details here.Most of the items in our shop are 50% off, just use coupon code BLACKFRIDAY2020 however, our Intimacy Advent Calendar is only available at this time of the year and will be disappearing soon until next Christmas. You can check it out here.Lastly, if you want the Intimacy Advent Calendar for free, I'm giving it out to all my $5+/month supporters. If you've been considering becoming a supporter and joining our supporter's forum, now is an excellent time! More details here.

  • SWM 061 – September 2020 Questions – High Drive Wives, Being Too Wet, Polyamory and more

    27/10/2020 Duration: 25min

    September 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Husbands who refuse sexBeing too wetPeggingDreamsNeeding different kinds of foreplayPolyamoryCuckoldingThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Take our latest survey!Intimacy Advent CalendarMy thoughts on divorceIntimacy IgnitedMarried Dance - Liberator ThrowMelt - Couples Massage CoursesForeplay gamesFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

  • SWM 060 – Aug 2020 Questions – Negative Self-Talk, Affairs, Manual Sex Troubles and more

    27/09/2020 Duration: 40min

    August 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Negative Self-TalkSex and Midnight PrayerIs it okay to ask God for a spouse who enjoys anal sex?How to deal with jealousySex isn't special after the wife had an affairDid Jesus ever get married?Is it wrong to have sex in the same room as another couple?Is it okay to leave my wife because she can't have sex?Should anything go in the bedroom?Trouble with manual sexHow to keep intimacy alive without sexThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Survey Results - What's the best way to have sex?Course - Becoming More Sexually EngagedResponsive vs Spontaneous DesireSweet Almond OilMelt - Couples Massage CoursesIntroduction to Talking DirtyShould christians have sex while fasting?Is anal sex a sin?Dr. Jessica McCleeseDr. Jeffrey Francis

  • SWM 059 – Anonymous Questions from June and July 2020

    06/08/2020 Duration: 42min

    June and July 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:Wife keeps falling asleep during sexIs it possible for women to orgasm without cumming?Wife wants bigger toysHow do I handle my wife screaming at me?Clone-a-willyBlowjobs make me nauseousDo men who take ED meds tell their wives?Why should single people abstain from sex?Insecurity about penis sizeWhy do I look at men's crotches?Husband is constantly sexualIs prostate stimulation wrong?This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Our Latest SurveyFemale Ejaculation Survey ResultsCAT (Coital Alignment Technique) Position - Grinding the Corn - ChristianFriendSexPositions.comPenis Sleeves - Married DanceButt Plugs - Married DanceAre sex toys allowed in a Christian marriage?Clone-A-Willy - Married DanceHow does breast or penis size

  • SWM 058 – Anonymous Questions from May 2020

    26/07/2020 Duration: 32min

    May 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:Husband is in jailHusband masturbates all the timeHusband won't quit pornShould Christians avoid Tantric Sex?Premature EjaculationBondage ResourcesJock ItchWife is not interested in sexHusband not interested in sex with wifeBeing "too loose" after childrenWhen to disclose a masturbation & porn addiction when datingThis month our most popular resource is Becoming More Sexually Engaged - A Course for Christian Wives. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Keep Your Love On - Danny SilkBoundaries In Marriage - Henry Cloud et al.Becoming more sexually engagedSWM 039 - Anonymous Questions from January 2019 - Part 3SWM 051 - Anonymous Questions from October 2019Premature EjaculationMutual MasturbationOur Sexploration ListBeginner Bondage QuestionsBondage Rope on AmazonTwisted MonkThe DutchySafety

  • SWM 057 – Anonymous Questions – April 2020

    07/07/2020 Duration: 30min

    April 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:How can I get more intimate nights with my wife?Can I have sex with my ex-husband?Does my husband want kinky sex?Is it okay to want more passionate sex?What happens when you die - what about Lazarus and the rich man?Why does my wife suddenly want daily sex?Is it okay for my wife to flash me?Wife thinks it's sinful to touch herself during sexThis month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Responsive desire is a blessingSexy Memory GameBecoming more sexually engagedWhat happens when you die?Why solo masturbation is a problem whether you are married or singleToys mentioned:We-Vibe SyncTOREvaPOCOBeFullyWell.com - Jessica McCleese - Licensed Christian Sex TherapistMarriage CoachingOur Forum (open during the COVID-19 crisis)Follow us on Face

  • SWM 056 – How To Feel Connected During Sex

    01/06/2020 Duration: 16min

    How do you feel connected during sex? Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the question of how you can feel more connected during sex.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Why I, as a Christian, believe we don't have a soulSpice JarOur Sexploration ListMarriage CoachingFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.We are 53% of the way to our next support goal! Thank you to all our faithful supporters.If you'd like us to start hosting virtual workshops, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.And don't forget to leave us a review and share with your friends!

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