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We had sex but he didn't kiss me.... by Sam Sylk

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Dear Sam, I met my boyfriend a little over a year ago. Everything was perfect. I mean, too good to be true perfect, no fighting, great to me and my child. Anyway, after our one year together, he started to have no feelings. Like, he was empty. He said that the only feeling he had was for his boys, and that as they get older, they don’t need him anymore and that hurts him. It makes me feel so confused because everything was great. At first I thought he sounded depressed but now I am thinking he just turned 50 and might be having a midlife crisis. But I am unsure, and unsure how to help him. We still live together but just as friends because he broke up with me. But he said he didn’t want to hurt me. I need help please . . . what should I do?

Dear Sam I found out recently that my daughter’s mother has been dating men she meets from out of town on Facebook. She meets guys on Facebook and I guess she has conversations with them via DM. I found out about it because my oldest daughter with her is 10 years old. My 10 year old told me because she wanted to go to a slumber party but her mother told her she needs to stay with me on the weekend. I thought she was just letting me bond with them more but according to my daughter, she is inviting these guys to come down from wherever they come from and spend the weekend with her in her house. My daughter is afraid for her and wants me to say something to her. I’m thinking they might need to come live with me. Am I overreacting? Is it my place to ask her about her dating life?

Dear Sam I am getting up in age, I have a successful career, and because of that career I have put a lot of things on hold. The biggest is having a family. I have had a hard time finding the man of my dreams because of work. However I have been a little more than friends with a married co-worker. Before everyone starts dogging me I know I am wrong for sleeping with this but I don't want him. As a matter of fact I just needed to get pregnant, which I did. I never told him about the baby but what happened was before I even started showing I lost my job. Unfortunately I do need his help a little now that the baby is here. I went to him and told him. He hit the roof and told me to go to hell and stay away from him. My question I guess is am I out of bounds if I take him to court? How should I handle this I still don't want him but I do need a little help?

Dear Sam I have been dating this guy off and on for awhile. Things have been going really good. He proposed, I said yes. Then a woman comes to him saying that she is 6 months pregnant. It happened on our of again but now he seems confused on what to do. This will be his first child now I feel cheated. She is acting like we shouldn't get married and he should come back to her. I love him and I want to be supportive but am I asking for trouble for going ahead with a marriage to a man that is about to have a new born baby? Should I be trying to bridge a relationship with this woman for the sake of the child? I've been praying about this. But I would like to know how should I handle this?

Dear Sam, I have a major crush on my boss who is single. I’m in a long-term relationship in which my sex drive has been quite high over the past few months and my partner is generally always too tired to do anything. We also have had some problems this year but I don’t think that we are at the stage of breaking up. When we occasionally have sex, I am picturing my boss. My boyfriend and I have a young child together and I just don’t know why I can’t get over this crush! My boss is quite older than me, very kind and to me very good looking. I fantasize about him banging my brains out (At work), I’m not interested in a relationship with him. When it is just him and I, I feel that he sometimes flirts. He stands close to me, stares and we touch each other’s hand while handing over documents. However, in a group setting, he hardly talks to me and keeps his distance. We also have zero communication outside of work and I know that nothing will ever happen between us, he is not the type of person to fool around wit

Dear Sam, I have been seeing a guy for a total of 10 plus years we lost touch and decided to give it a try again so here are my issues , if he stays at my home for a few nights a week , he won’t take a shower but instead wash up in the sink because he says you get the same results. I have a home church and I am very active in the church he doesn’t belong to one , he complains when I have to go to church or volunteer , so I invite him to come along he always has an excuse , he has taken me to his house for a few times , but each time we go he seems to take a different route so I won’t remember how to get there , I have asked him to send me the address so I can stop by while I am out , well first of all he won’t send it , and next he will say he won’t be home and lastly he will say since I have obligations (child) at home I don’t need to know his address because he always has to come to me anyway if we are going to spend time together, he is a diabetic so our sex life isn’t all of that because the medication

Reality Hour I Want My High School Swet Heart Back by Sam Sylk

Dear Sam, I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. He has always been great, not really a jealous person, other than about my cousin. I wasn’t raised with my cousin, I met him for the first time when we were 21, and at the time I didn’t know he was my cousin, we met at a club and we ended up kissing ONCE over 4-5 years ago, but nothing sexually happened, I found out he was my cousin when we linked up a week later, nor have we even mentioned it. He moved away, and he has become one of my best friends, he is always there for me and is just such an important person in my life. At no point has he tried to do anything remotely inappropriate to me. My boyfriend read thru our messages and saw that he called me sweetie and just went crazy, and said he needed a break. After 2 days he told me he can’t really see us together if my cousin is at all involved in my life. I at first agreed, but now I just keep thinking about how I’m unsure if I want to give up my cousin for him. I do see a future with my boyfriend, we h

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Dear Sam, My husband and I have been married for 6 years out of those 6 years he has never had a password on his phone there has never been an issue with me going through it no trust issues nothing however I have always had a passcode because the kids share with me. (He's always had access if needed) so he went to the store and left his phone on the couch I pick it up and this is how I discovered that his phone is now locked. I want to address the issue but i dont want to look insecure or like im accusing him of something. How would you approach this issue?

Dear Sam, Hey, really lost. I have been dating” this man for years! I have seen him twice since meeting. He’s a wonderful guy but literally lacks communication skills and he has so much going on in his personal life. In my heart of hearts I don’t believe he is cheating. My issue is though that I am missing that physical connection one gets with their partner. I am missing being around him and just in his company. He keeps saying soon, soon, soon and when it happens it will be worth it but I feel like I am cheating myself out of livings my life waiting on him. What can I do to ease this feeling or do I just live and see if maybe God brings us back? Please Help!

Dear Sam, A good male friend and I were at a party of a mutual friends. My male friend got drunk and I ended up giving him a ride home. Well that's when decided to profess his romantic feelings to me. The problem is I don't like him like that plus I have a man that is coincidently his friend. I just wrote it off as a drunken moment but a week later he brought it up again. I told him i didn't like him like that. Should I tell my boyfriend?

Dear Sam, I recently found out that my husband has been having phone conversations with another woman, that I have never met. Well at least before I found out they had been talking. According to both of them (yes I called her), they met at a local spot, enjoyed each others conversations as friends. Now their conversations has gone from the spot to the phone and text. They claim they just enjoy each others conversation and they can talk to each other about things they can't to others about. In his case me, she on the other hand is single and claims he also gives her relationship advice. Where I come from if your husband has a female friend that you don't know he's cheating but these two say they are not. Am I wrong? Is my husband cheating? Who does that?? Please help!!