Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer

Divorce for children can bring many losses at once; such as loss of expectation family will be together, loss of familiarity, residence, childhood, safety, trust, faith in relationships and marriage, to name a few. _____ Included in this episode are 7 tips to help them cope with the losses and why this area is so close to my own heart.______ Although divorce is always a difficult transition, the way parents handle it can greatly influence how well children cope. Children need to be able to mourn the losses, freely express feelings, and ask any questions. _____ Protect Your Children Through Divorce and get my free e-book on how to Protect Your Children through Divorce click / copy this - http://www.purepeacecoaching.com/help-childrenwithdivorce/ - - - Nicola Beer – International Relationship & Divorce Coach - www.purepeacecoaching.com ---

Last week I received an email from a lady who asked me to warn others about loving too much. It was in response to my article loving through hard times, she felt she had done that too much. Which got me thinking can you really “love too much?” Hear my opinion from working with hundreds of individuals and couples in their relationships. Also learn about the questions you should be really asking yourself if this comes up like; 1, Do you love, respect, value and care for yourself enough? 2, Are you / they loving or smothering? 3, Are you / they score-keeping? - For more free resources - visit - www.purepeacecoaching.com - e-books - on 7 secrets to saving your relationship - or - 10 simple steps you can start now to create a new life after divorce - www.purepeacecoaching.com - Nicola Beer International Relationship and Divorce Coach

Are you fixated on wanting to why your partner or ex did or didn’t do something? Relentlessly questioning why your partner or ex does or doesn’t do something can be frustrating, draining and leaving you feeling confused, disappointed and angry… I listen to individuals in my coaching frequently saying that they just don’t understand WHY their spouse did this or they cannot get WHY their ex would behave in such a vindictive way. Being Fixated and STUCK in a spiral of never ending Why thoughts is a nightmare. I know this, because I’ve been there… In this episode you will learn some tips to help you let go of the why fixation into PEACE Nicola Beer International Relationship & Divorce Coach www.purepeacecoaching.com for more free resources visit www.purepeacecoaching.com

Ever wonder why talking about your relationship issues can sometimes make you feel more annoyed, fed up or isolated than before you started? At the center of many relationship problems is the Shame-Fear dynamic Once you recognize this and follow the steps to overcome it, you like thousands of others can solve previously unresolvable relationship problems. Inspired by the work of Love and Stonsy in their book: “How to save your marriage without talking about it.” I’ve added this principle to my marriage coaching packages and seen great results. I’m super excited to be sharing it with you. Let this be as helpful to you as it has been for the couples I’ve worked with… For further free e-support visit www.purepeacecoaching.com and down load your copies of Marriage Support “7 Secrets to Save Your Relationship” Divorce Support “10 Simple Steps you Can Take Now to Create Change after Divorce” Nicola Beer, International Marriage, Relationship & Divorce Coach Dubai, Middle East and Fu

International Relationship and Divorce Coach Nicola Beer Interviews Jeffrey A. Landers, CDFA™, the creator of the Think Financially, Not Emotionally® brand of books, webinars, seminars and eLearning courses designed to educate, empower and support women (and their advisors) before, during and after divorce. His current Amazon best-selling books include, Divorce: Think Financially, Not Emotionally® – What Women Need To Know About Securing Their Financial Future Before, During, And After Divorce, DIVORCE Financial Planner For Women, Volume I and the newly released, A Woman’s Guide To Financial Security After Divorce – The Basics: Creating A Solid Foundation. He is also the founder of Bedrock Divorce Advisors, LLC, a divorce financial advisory firm that works exclusively with women throughout the United States. Jeff has also been extensively interviewed about the financial aspects of divorce for women by CBS and FOX Television News Nicola Beer is the producer and host of Divorce Talk and has more free resour

This week I received an email from Marie, a lady in my 6 month coaching program who is devastated that her two teenagers don’t want to stay with her. This topic often comes up in my divorce coaching with parents questioning whether they should be concerned, worried their ex is bad mouthing them and whether to force their teenagers to stay or let them choose. Having worked with several teenagers during and after divorce, experiencing my parent’s divorce at 14 and feeling unwanted, depressed and lonely… It is important to distinguish between when a teenager is just being a teenager and when something deeper is bothering them and some attention or parent rebuilding needs to happen. In this episode I will cover this. Hope you like it. From my heart to yours Nicola P.S If you want more resources on supporting children through divorce click here to get your free e-book Parenting Through Divorce – Avoid the 3 Common Pitfalls most Parents Make http://www.purepeacecoaching.com/help-childrenwithdivorce/ Nicola Beer,

What do you do if you’re sick and tired of your partner’s behavior? Perhaps you used to be closer, but sometimes you find you simply don’t want to be around them or that things they do really wind you up. It can be hard to give your love. What do you do if you are co-parenting with a difficult ex but need to keep the peace for your children? Today I will share with you my 5 steps to loving through hard times. As let’s face it it’s far easier to love someone when they are fulfilling our relationships needs, showing us love and respect in the way we want to receive it. Whether that’s affection, words of admiration, through physical touch, giving us gifts or doing things for us. When they show us they for care and appreciate us, it feels good. Doesn’t it? Not so easy is loving someone when we feel they are not saying, doing and behaving how we wish they would. Sometimes this could be to a disagreement on a topic, like child rearing, finances, family interference, putting work or friends before the relationsh

Jumping to conclusions causes undue stress and drama, as well as destroy relationships. In this episode you will learn how to improve your life and relationships by not making assumptions. “a thing that is accepted as true or as certain to happen, without proof.” We make assumptions all the time and in relationships this can be a disaster. Listen in to protect yourself from this trap… Nicola Beer, helps couples on the verge of a break up save their marriage, as well as help individuals create a new life after divorce and find love again. She also helps children through divorce in her parenting programs. Take advantage of her 3 e-books on her website “7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage.” “10 Simple Steps You Can Take Now to Creating a New Life after Divorce” “Protect Children through Divorce – Avoid the common pitfalls most parents make” Visit www.purepeacecoaching.com

Dealing With Your Ex’s Anger During Divorce What can you do if your Ex is angry, playing dirty, being manipulative and aggressive during divorce? In this episode I share 4 steps to dealing with an angry ex during a divorce. These steps have been proven to help those struggling with a difficult ex, de-stress and reduce financial and emotional cost of divorce. Nicola Beer, helps couples on the verge of a break up save their marriage, as well as help individuals create a new life after divorce and find love again. She also helps children through divorce in her parenting programs. Take advantage of her 3 e-books on her website “7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage.” “10 Simple Steps You Can Take Now to Creating a New Life after Divorce” “Protect Children through Divorce – Avoid the common pitfalls most parents make” Visit www.purepeacecoaching.com

Clarissa Rayward, is the Director of Brisbane Family Law Centre and is also known as the ‘Happy Family Lawyer’. As a Divorce Lawyer, Clarissa specializes in helping separating families stay out of the Family Courts and stay friends as she believes that a divorce can be a positive end to a marriage. Over the past 11 years Clarissa has worked as a specialist family lawyer and in that time, has helped over 2,000 Australian families through their divorce. Clarissa is also the author of the successful ‘Happy Family Lawyer’ blog, providing weekly commentary and tips on issues relating to divorce and is about to publish her book 'Splitsville- How to separate, stay out of Court and stay friends'. Nicola Beer, helps couples on the verge of a break up save their marriage, as well as help individuals create a new life after divorce and find love again. She also helps children through divorce in her parenting programs. Take advantage of her 3 e-books on her website “7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage.” “10 Simple Ste

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Confidence plays an essential role in recovery after a breakup and divorce. When you feel confident you are more able to accept the past, learn from mistakes and make sound decisions about your future. Plus the more confident you feel, the more likely it is you will be able to remain calm when challenges do come up. Anxiety and fears are natural and normal following a breakup and divorce. The best weapon against fear and doubt is confidence, confidence in your ability to handle any situation that may present itself. If you have children, confidence becomes even more important. As children need to feel safe and secure. They need to be reassured that you and them will be okay and their needs will still be met. Nicola Beer, helps couples on the verge of a break up save their marriage, as well as help individuals create a new life after divorce and find love again. She also helps children through divorce in her parenting programs. Take advantage of her 3 e-books on her website “7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage

There is no doubt that work stress has become an increasing factor in marital dissatisfaction and even divorce. Today couples work on average a thousand more hours each year than people did thirty years ago. All the extra work and constantly checking work emails means that there is less time for talking, relaxing, eating and even sleeping. Difficult working environments and commuter stress make all too easy for arguments to erupt and a stress cycle develops… Stress at work causes stress at home and then the stress of neglecting the home and our health, affects work performance, which in turn causes further stress at work than is then brought back into the home and therefore relationship. In this episode I will list 10 helpful guidelines to help you make sure any work stress strengthens not ruins your relationship. Nicola Beer, helps couples on the verge of a break up save their marriage, as well as help individuals create a new life after divorce and find love again. She also helps children through divorce i

Good communication is often the first thing to go when a relationship breaks down. So it is not surprising that communicating with your ex after a breakup and during a divorce is emotionally difficult. To say communication is “Emotionally Difficult” is a HUGE understatement for many as the pain, turmoil, confusion and stress involved can be unbearable. So in this episode you will learn 8 helpful guidelines when communicating with an ex. Nicola Beer, helps couples on the verge of a break up save their marriage, as well as help individuals create a new life after divorce and find love again. Take advantage of her 3 e-books on her website “7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage.” “10 Simple Steps You Can Take Now to Creating a New Life after Divorce” “Protect Children through Divorce – Avoid the common pitfalls most parents make” Visit www.purepeacecoaching.com Key words divorce, relationship, marriage counseling, separation, break up, co-parenting, Divorce Support, Breakup

Fear of an uncertain future can stop us from doing great things, keep us holding onto things that hurt us, listen to 5 Secret Steps to deal with separation and divorce anxiety that work for hundreds of my clients. Currently I am working with clients online in London, New York, Mumbai, Melbourne, Phoenix, Paris, Hong Kong and Singapore, as well as in person coaching in Dubai. Despite the differences in culture, religion, and location, fear of an uncertain future, separation and divorce anxiety is widespread. Many wonder whether they will be happy in the future, have enough money, find someone they love. Others worry about their children. How will the children be affected, will their children forgive them for leaving, the affair or divorce. Some are concerned about how family, friends, colleagues, business partners will react to their divorce. Then there are those who are still in grief, dealing with the loss and questioning whether the pain, stress, frustration, guilt, sadness or resentment will ever pass. T

Are you struggling to forgive your ex or current partner? Are you still carrying a grudge, feel resentment or anger towards them? In all romantic relationships there will be times where the one you love will hurt you. It could be something small, like a comment on the way you look, not calling when they said they would or forgetting important dates. Then there are bigger issues; infidelity, insulting your family, abusive or addictive behavior. When divorce begins one or both parties can become very spiteful. When you’re hurt, how do you respond? Can you let go or do you want revenge? There is no time table on forgiveness, but if you are holding a grudge for a long period of time recognize that you are hurting you. Whether you are in a relationship, separated or divorced research shows holding frustration, bitterness and resentment within you in is bad for you and your blood pressure. It also causes stress, anxiety and can reduce your overall life expectancy. Listen and learn one step to let it go. To read

Introverts and Extroverts manage conflict in different ways. Whilst many introvert - extrovert couples are likely to know some of these differences already about their partner, in the heat of a debate or when a crisis occurs we tend to forget and misjudge each’ others behavior as a sign they don’t care or are being deliberately difficult. The episode covers suggestions on what to do when you have the “I don’t want to talk about it” Introvert and the “Let’s get it all out in the open and talk through it” Extrovert? Whether you are hoping to improve your relationship or currently single and want to learn skills for the future understanding the differences between extroverts and introverts in conflict can be beneficial. Nicola Beer is an International Relationship and Divorce Coach practicing online or in person in Dubai. She has free e-books available at www.purepeacecoaching.com 7 Secret Tips to Save Your Marriage 10 Steps You Can Take Now to Creating a New Life After Divorce

Most unfaithful partners underestimate the damage and fallout after infidelity. Many claim that they didn’t think of the consequences and often, when faced with losing what they have, panic. This panic can lead them to make further mistakes in their attempts to help their injured partner. If you have cheated on your spouse, but have regrets and hope to save your relationship, don’t let another mistake-ridden day go by without getting some support. Or, if you are the wounded spouse and your unfaithful partner unintentionally keeps on hurting you in their attempts to make you feel better, put this article in their hands. Having studied and worked with many couples going through this, today I am sharing the secret of a helpful apology which is part of my “How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair” program. This is just one part of the ten part program I run. The aim is to help you learn the secrets between couples who not only survive but thrive in the aftermath of an affair and those whose relation

Our guest on this podcast is Rosalind Sedacca, who is recognized as The Voice of Child-Centered Divorce. Rosalind has written a unique book based on her own experience with divorce. She developed an innovative new approach to breaking the news to her eleven year-old son who today is a grown man who proudly wrote the foreword to her internationally-acclaimed ebook, “How do I Tell The Kids About Divorce? A Create a Storybook Guide to preparing your children with love. Rosalind is a Divorce & Parenting Coach as well as the Founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network for parents. Today she will share her personal insights on avoiding dangerous divorce mistakes parents make. Show hosted by Nicola Beer International Relationship and Divorce Coach. For more free resources visit www.purepeacecoaching.com

In this episode Dr Doug Weiss talks about Sex Addiction, where the addict and the addict’s spouse can get support. Dr. Douglas Weiss is a Licensed Psychologist and the Executive Director of Heart to Heart Counseling Center in Colorado Springs, Colorado. As Director , Dr. Weiss maintains a number of counselors , support groups , 3 and 5 Day Intensive work shops. Dr. Weiss is al s o t he President of the American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy ( AASAT) . Dr. Weis s is a frequent guest o national television, radio and print media and a prolific writer on marriage, addiction and self help topic s pertaining to Intimacy in marriage, singlehood, men’ s and women’ s issues and recovery from addiction. For more information visit http://drdougweiss.com/about/ For free downloadable e-books on saving your marriage or getting through a divorce visit www.purepeacecoaching.com Divorce Talk is produced and hosted by Nicola Beer International Relationship & Divorce Coach – contact her via linkedin or nicol