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  In this episode, we delve deep into gaslighting in relationships. We discuss what gaslighting is, its signs and symptoms, the psychological impact on victims, and ways to address and overcome it. Jennifer shares her personal experiences with gaslighting and how she found herself in these situations repeatedly, even in her role as a coach. Jennifer will discuss:    - Definition and origins of the term "gaslighting."    - Historical context and examples. Identifying Gaslighting    - Common tactics used by gaslighters.    - Signs and symptoms of being gaslighted.    - Real-life examples and scenarios.  Impact of Gaslighting    - Short-term and long-term effects on mental health.    - How gaslighting undermines self-esteem and self-trust.    - The cycle of abuse and why it’s hard to break free. Handling Gaslighting in Relationships    - Strategies for recognizing and acknowledging gaslighting.    - Communication techniques to address the behavior.    - When and how to seek professional help. Recovery and Healin

This episode generated a lot of buzz among my listeners back in January, so why not re-air it?  Today on Doing Relationships Right, Jim Healey is back, and we're talking about "Living Apart Together" - an old trend that's getting more popular. It's something we've been doing since we met in 2017! It's been good for us, but could it work for you? Listen to our chat to hear the upsides and downsides. It's important to do what's right for your relationship. Scientific evidence suggests that living apart could really strengthen a long-term relationship. Are you great partners but terrible roommates? You two make a great team, but do you have different ideas about what success means? Is it essential to you NOT to blend families?  A successful connection means different things to different people, as gender roles, parenthood, and cultural background all play a role in relationships. What was once a deal breaker may now be an opportunity to adapt to modern society. We are here to destigmatize the negativity of going

It's been a couple of months, so I thought I'd bring back one of my favorite episodes about my new bestie, PERRY! Perry Menopause and all she brings to the table. UGH! If I don't laugh, I will lose my cool. Are you with me? And men, this one is for YOU, too. It's essential to understand how your partner is feeling! Menopause can affect a lot of things in a relationship - hormones go up and down, hot flashes, mood swings, and decreased libido can be challenging to deal with. It's a tough time for couples, but I've got you! And I'm here to share some great tips to help. I'm getting real - and no-nonsense, y'all! You are NOT ALONE in this journey! Communication is crucial in helping couples. Keep your new bestie at bay and your boo in your bed! Ha. There are ways to ACCEPT THIS AND FEEL GOOD! Let's talk about menopause today on Doing Relationships Right! Happy Dating During Midlife!  xo j  Looking to improve your relationships? Check out 'Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to Finally Doing Relationships

Let's get into it: Valentine's Day. Whether you love it or hate it, you can do a lot of things to make it work for you.  We're diving into all of it today, so buckle up. Have any questions for us? Please feel free to DM me- remember, it's okay to try different ways of doing things! Read more about The Unblended Family, Nesting, and Living Apart Together in my books- One Happy Divorce, Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda and Midlife Priceless. You don't know what you don't know!  Happy Relationships!  xo j    And use MS15 to get 15% off COCONU!     

Let's get REAL about MENOPAUSE!  The stigma around women's health during menopause can leave women feeling like they are just too old and that nobody would want to date them- not true!  Prioritize your health, eat well, and look after your mind and body. Get help from a coach or therapist to support you while you learn to date again, and it can be a positive experience! Menopause can mess with a lot of things in a relationship - hormones go up and down, hot flashes happen, and the mood swings and decreased libido can be hard to deal with. It's a tough time for couples to get through, but Jennifer has some great tips to help. She shares real-life advice and practical strategies to help couples communicate better, keep the intimacy alive, and come out the other side with a better understanding of things.  So don't worry; you're not alone: let's TALK about all things MENOPAUSE today on DRR!  And use MS15 to get 15% off COCONU!         

You ask, you get it!  This week on Doing Relationships Right, Jim Healey is BACK, and we are discussing LIVING APART TOGETHER- a growing trend. And one that we have been doing since we met in 2017! It has worked for us, but can it work for YOU? Listen to our conversation and hear the pros and cons; doing what suits your relationship is essential. Scientific evidence shows that living apart may significantly strengthen a long-term relationship. Are you great partners but terrible roommates? Are you great partners but with different definitions of success? Is it essential to you NOT to blend families?  A successful connection means different things to different people, as gender roles, parenthood, and cultural background all play a role in relationships. What was once a deal breaker may now be an opportunity to adapt to modern society. We are here to destigmatize the negativity of going against the "norm."  Have any questions for us? Please feel free to DM me- remember, it's okay to try different ways of doing

GASLIGHTING: SIGNS & HOW TO STOP IT! I’m back with ALL NEW EPISODES of DRR! It's 2024, baby!  This JUST JEN episode lights up the truth about gaslighting in the dating world.  Don’t let anyone dim your shine or twist your reality. Trust your instincts, set boundaries, and keep your heart guarded- but not too closed off! Not everyone is GASLIGHTING YOU! Remember, you deserve genuine connections, not mind games. Stay true to yourself and let the right one light up your life. xoxo j  Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HER

Dating and not succeeding may seem frustrating. I'm here to talk to you about the common mistakes women make during the early stages of dating. xoxo j  Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

Happy Holidays! But it may not seem as happy if you're spending it alone, maybe for the first time, or maybe for the 10th time.  I'm here to talk to you about some ways to enjoy your holiday, even if it's not exactly like the ones you had before! xoxo j  Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

Jump back to 2021, right after the pandemic shut down the world, my oldest son went off to college, and shit started getting REAL.  Really.  I started to take my partner for granted after being in "captivity" with him for so long during COVID-19; we were both frustrated, and I was annoyed. It's time for a wake-up call for both of us!  Listen as I talk about those qualities that go overlooked in our partners, the ones that are sometimes forgotten.  Right now, one of the most popular things people want is a satisfying relationship, happiness, money, freedom, and peace. But what about the less obvious?  Listen to what I came up with in 2021 and see if you agree.  xo j    Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website:

DATING AT MIDLIFE CAN BE ABSURD! I know, I've been there. But it can also be amazing!  Did you know that dating during midlife can be very different from dating in your 30s? Do you need help with technology? Are you unsure about how to navigate the new "rules" or understand the latest "lingo"? No worries, I got you! I've been there, done that...and endured it all! Have you read the horror stories in my latest book, Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right? Pick it up- trust me!  I GOT YOU! If you want a 30-minute crash course on Doing Dating Right: AFTER DIVORCE & DURING MIDLIFE-- check out the link below!  Don't let dating in your 50s damage your self-esteem. Stay optimistic and put out positive energy to attract the right person! xoxo j        Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and l

Don't waste your time if they do these things. These are some signs it won't last. Did you know that dating during midlife can be very different from dating in your 30s? Do you need help with technology? Are you unsure about how to navigate the new "rules" or understand the latest "lingo"? No worries, I got you! I've been there, done that...and endured it all! Have you read the horror stories in my latest book, Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right? Pick it up- trust me!  I GOT YOU! If you want a 30-minute crash course on Doing Dating Right: AFTER DIVORCE & DURING MIDLIFE-- check out the link below!  Don't let dating in your 50s damage your self-esteem. Stay optimistic and put out positive energy to attract the right person! xoxo j  Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a que

DATING AFTER 40 CAN BE ABSURD! Rough. Wild!  But it can also be amazing!  Did you know that dating during midlife can be very different from dating in your 30s? Do you need help with technology? Are you unsure about how to navigate the new "rules" or understand the latest "lingo"? No worries, I got you! I've been there, done that...and endured it all! Have you read the horror stories in my latest book, Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right? Pick it up- trust me!  I GOT YOU! If you want a 30-minute crash course on Doing Dating Right: AFTER DIVORCE & DURING MIDLIFE-- check out the link below!  Don't let dating in your 50s damage your self-esteem. Stay optimistic and put out positive energy to attract the right person! xoxo j        Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a questi

Let's talk about love languages - the five ways people show and feel love. You've got words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. Knowing your partner's love language can help you express your feelings better and improve your relationship. Want to know more? Let's dig in! xo j Oh! And if you enjoyed this, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/    

We're back. Today's episode is AGAIN featuring my all-time favorite guest, Jim Healey. We discuss our communication strengths and weaknesses, and how to improve. xo j Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

We're back, and better then ever. Today's episode is featuring my all-time favorite guest, Jim Healey. We will share our entire story, including what's not in my book, and leave no topic untouched. We're discussing how to get back with your ex the right way! It's been some time since I last recorded an episode, and Jim and I haven't spoken on my show in over a year. Our discussion was nerve-wracking and emotional as we shared our personal lives. But, we recognize that our conversation may help those experiencing relationship struggles. Oy. And even coaches fuck up, y'all. We make mistakes, learn from them, hold ourselves accountable, and move on. If I can pick myself up after the last year I endured, anyone can- tune in today and grab a glass of wine. ;) xo j Oh! And if you are feeling birthday-like, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a futu

IT'S MY BIRTHDAY...I can PODCAST IF I WANT TO! So, I'm doing my 50th all over again this year. Why? Last year didn't feel right, so I figured I'd give it another shot. More to that story read on: Yup, last year I wasn't with the right person; it was kind of a superstition of mine. This year, I will celebrate this “Midlife which is truly PRICELESS” with the person I will spend the rest of my life with--and that's all that matters. Looking for all the TEA? Don't miss the special 50-ish Birthday Episode of DOING RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT today, October 12th, featuring my all-time favorite guest, Jim Healey. We will share our entire story, including what's not in my book, and leave no topic untouched. It's been some time since I last recorded an episode, and Jim and I haven't spoken on my show in over a year. Our discussion was nerve-wracking and emotional as we shared our personal lives. But, we recognize that our conversation may help those experiencing relationship struggles. Oy. And even coaches fuck up, y'all. We

I'm thrilled to have Money Coach and Business Manager Carrie Casden on Doing Relationships Right to discuss all things finance- and much more! After over 20 years as a business and personal finance manager, Carie Casden knows this much is true – when it comes to financial challenges, it's rarely actually about the money. Specific patterns tend to repeat themselves, particularly when it comes to women and money. Most of us grew up with a special relationship to our finances due to our upbringing and life events, and it sticks with us – for better or worse. This reality, compounded by the fact that systems are stacked against women, makes matters even more challenging. And even if we've managed to shatter the glass ceiling, find our purpose, and build a solid foundation for ourselves, life inevitably throws us curveballs. Career changes. Divorce. Family drama. Loss. We are confronted with these matters at some point, but are we prepared for them? In Carrie's experience, most people aren't – and it's not because

Managing child behavior problems is a skill that we can learn.  And the tools and resources available through EmpoweringParent.com and The Total Transformation® child behavior program ensure that you don't have to learn through trial and error. Instead, you can learn from parents and professionals who effectively manage disrespect, defiance, backtalk, lying, laziness, motivation, and other behaviors. My guest today, Kimball Lewis, is the CEO of EmpoweringParents.com. In addition to his leadership and management roles, he contributes as an editor, a homeschooling expert, and a parent coach. He resides in Orlando, Florida, with his wife and two teenage sons. Thank you, Kimball, for joining me today on Doing Relationships Right to talk about WHY KIDS LIE and how we can stop it! Check out EmpoweringParents.com Check out Marriage Helper here: MARRIAGE HELPER Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!   

Today, it's FLASHBACK TO MY FAVORITE EPISODES; we've got the incredible Flora Ong. Flora is a Dating and Relationship Coach as well an Integrated Attachment Specialist.  As a certified Health and Life Coach, Flora focuses on working with men and women, helping them identify their blocks around dating. Her purpose is to find them what they want and to make sure they experience inner peace in the process. "You need to know yourself to be in a relationship." ~ Flora Ong. Today's conversation highlights the importance of understanding yourself. You need to find THE ONE, and, spoiler alert, that is YOU! We dive into the various attachment styles and how to work with those to have a healthy relationship. Thank you, Flora, for joining me and sharing your wisdom. I appreciate you; my audience requested this discussion, so I'm excited to share it with them. Peace, love, and truth, xo j   Find Flora here Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!  H