Still Standing With Valerie Silveira

As our kids grow older, we have intersecting journeys, but when addiction (or another self-destructive path) enters the equation, we can begin living their lives. We abandon ours in hopes we can save them. It's understandable, but it can be detrimental to their journey. Join Valerie for another candid and robust discussion. www.Warriorsin Hope.com - Join us!

PODCAST ALERT: "The Ripple Effect of Their Addiction" In this episode, Valerie discusses the negative impact of their addiction on moms and other family members, and she emphasizes the ripple effect of the impact. Further, she will inspire you to create an entirely different ripple as you choose to stand up and fight for your recovery from the trauma of your addiction. Join Valerie as a Warrior in Hope! www.WarriorsinHope.com

This week, Valerie has a candid discussion with her son, Sean, and husband, Rich, on the 8th anniversary of her daughter Jamie's murder. It has been a long road and no end in sight with the so-called justice system, but they are still standing! We all go through unexpected twists and turns in our lives, and sometimes, we get smacked over the head by one of life's two-by-fours or experience an ongoing painful journey. Join us for an update on our story and hopefully some inspiration for you. Link arms with Valerie: www.warriorsinhope.com

Feelings can be overwhelming. They come out of nowhere, and many want to stick around permanently. If we allow our feelings to run the show, one feeling after the other will toss us around like a rowboat in the ocean. There is a way to honor and respect feelings but override their tendency to send us into sadness, despair, and depression. Even when the anniversary of Jamie's murder approaches, I use a few techniques to ensure that I don't allow my feelings to dictate my life. Hopefully, a tip or two can help you manage overwhelming feelings. Connect with Valerie at www.WarriorsinHope.com

In this episode, Valerie chats with Warrior Annelle Abernethy about living with grief while embracing life. Annelle describes it as a low hum, a constant presence in life. Whether you have a loved one in addiction or recovery or one who has angel wings, this episode is a source of comfort and support. Remember, you are not alone in your feelings or your journey to freedom. Join us at: www.WarriorsinHope.com

Valerie's emotional journey through her daughter's addiction and tragic death was isolating despite her circle of family and friends. The weight of grief left her feeling lost in a sea of faces, overwhelmed by loneliness and despair. Valerie found solace and purpose through her struggles by channeling her pain into strength and empathy for others facing similar challenges. Opening up about her experiences led to a newfound connection with those who understood her journey. Valerie's story is a powerful reminder of the importance of reaching out and supporting others in times of darkness. By embracing her vulnerability, she transformed her loneliness into resilience and compassion, bridging the gap between isolation and community. Join Valerie at: www.WarriorsinHope.com

In this episode, Valerie and Warrior Annelle Abernethy discuss the impact of hope and crushing disappointment when you have a child in addiction. Annelle shared her moment of truth when she knew she had to let go of her son and rely on her faith. Importantly, Valerie and Annelle talk about reclaiming their lives from the collateral damage of addiction and overwhelming grief. You will be inspired and motivated to reclaim your life, and you might even find a couple of laughs in this inspiring episode of Warriors in Hope with Valerie Silveira.

In this episode of Warriors in Hope, Valerie calls moms impacted by the collateral damage of addiction to courage. She will inspire you to accept what you cannot control and begin your journey to recovery to be a much-needed voice. Subscribe to the Podcast and join Valerie at Warriors in Hope. www.WarriorsinHope.com

Fear is a Beast. It is the #1 culprit that holds us back or keeps us down. Fear steals our joy and crushes our dreams. Fear keeps us stuck in shame and guilt. No matter your circumstances, you don't have to live in paralyzing fear. Listen to Valerie's empowering Podcast episode and join us as a Warrior in Hope. www.Warriorsinhope.com

What if you were sent to Earth on a mission? But along the way, you forgot about it. All hell broke loose; it was the furthest thing from your mind. You struggle to remember something through your painful journey - it's stored in your mind, but you can't seem to retrieve it. There must be another purpose past your pain. Come along with me on this story and get inspired along the way. Link arms with Valerie and other Warrior Sisters at www.WarriorsinHope.com (or download the App).

When a traumatic event, such as addiction in the family, hits, it is natural for us to start thinking of life before and after (or during). It is a life split in two. This discussion will get you thinking about being mindful that not everything before the trauma was good, and not everything after is terrible. Become a Warrior in Hope: www.WarriorsinHope.com

When the game goes into extra innings, fatigue sets in—physically and mentally. When we are playing the more serious game of life, it can wear us down until we want to quit. This episode will motivate you to stay in the game and include some tips to do just that. Link arms with Valerie at: www.WarriorsinHope.com

We all experience things we wish we didn't. We learn about things we could have gone our whole life without knowing. There is so much about my daughter's addiction that I wish I never had to learn. The details of her murder, I would like to have just been a crime drama. There are things about our journey you wish you didn't know. But here we are. What can we do with those "things you never wanted to know?" Let's talk about that in this episode. Link arms with Valerie at www.WarriorsinHope.com

In modern society, there is a growing concern that we may be making our children too comfortable, hindering their ability to develop courage and confidence. Providing them with a safe and secure environment may inadvertently shelter them from challenges that could help them grow and thrive. This idea is echoed in eagles' behavior, who deliberately make their nests uncomfortable as their young ones grow. By layering their nests with sticks, thorns, and other sharp objects, eagles create a sense of discomfort that ultimately motivates their offspring to venture out and learn to fly. If we are past the point of changing this situation, there are still ways we can make a difference.

This insightful episode is a discussion with a Warrior in recovery from addiction. It's also a powerful message to moms (and other family members impacted by addiction). Sandy has done the work to beat the odds and is living a life she never imagined, but what I am most impressed with are the following: - Her "no victim" mentality. - She shows compassion for what family members go through and how they deserve to live their lives. - How she vigorously works on her recovery. As family members, we need to do the same - fight vigorously for our recovery! We have to stop waiting for someone else and get on with the business of living our lives. We have to do the work!! Our process of creating a courageous life filled with peace, purpose, and hope. I am so proud of Sandy for many reasons, but also because she made it out of Jamie's life. Sandy was Jamie's friend in addiction, and now Jamie is her angel in her new life. P.S. Warning - a couple of 4-letter words, but if you have been living with a Beast as a r

Everyone is living with a Beast. Some are twins, and others have MANY siblings. I have discovered that this family is close-knit and has many of the Sam characteristics! They love to get us down on the mat and force us to believe lies about ourselves and others. This fun episode is a bit tongue-in-cheek, but it's also serious. Let's link arms and take on this family of horrid creatures! Connect with me at: www.WarriorsinHope.com

When a loved one falls victim to the Beast that is addiction, its claws dig deep into our own lives, intertwining our struggles. The overwhelming mix of love and fear drives us to fixate on saving them, especially when it is our son or daughter. The sorrow, anguish, and agony that addiction brings to a family are undeniably profound, but they need not define our existence. It is crucial to hit the brakes on the Roller Coaster From Hell, taking the first steps towards reclaiming our own well-being. Even as our thoughts and actions are consumed by our loved one's struggles, we must realize that we can still stand strong and work on our recovery journey. Separating ourselves from their addiction allows us to focus on our healing without abandoning hope for theirs.

When addiction is involved, the dynamics of support and care often shift. Unlike other situations where neighbors and friends may rally around with loving gestures like bringing a casserole to symbolize their support, addiction can elicit feelings of fear, shame, blame, and stigma. The isolating nature of addiction for us moms and other family members can make it challenging for loved ones to know how to help or express their concerns in ways that are meaningful. It is time for us to all come together because addiction is no longer a family problem but a community problem. If you know someone who needs to understand what you are going through, have them listen to this episode. And be courageous enough to help people not on your journey to know how to bring you those metaphorical casseroles! We are all in this thing called life together. If you are a mom or another woman with an addiction in your family, please join us at www.WarriorsinHope.com

Addiction is not the final chapter of your story; it is a challenging plot twist that can be overcome with resilience and determination. Whether you are personally struggling with addiction or witnessing its impact on a loved one, remember that there is always hope for a brighter future. Instead of letting addiction define your story, choose to stand up and fight back against its grip. Remember, you are not alone in this battle. Countless individuals have faced similar challenges and emerged stronger on the other side. Your story is not defined by the addiction Beast but by your resilience, courage, and willingness to confront adversity head-on. Embrace the journey towards healing and recovery, knowing each step forward is a victory. With perseverance and determination, you can rewrite the ending of your story, transforming it into a tale of triumph over adversity. Stand tall, face the challenge, and write a new chapter filled with hope and strength. Connect with Valerie: www.ValerieSilveira.com

In this compelling podcast episode, Valerie bravely delves into the harrowing experience of seeing her life and everything she held dear being dismantled by the clutches of her daughter's addiction. Her perspective gives listeners raw and honest insight into the profound impact that addiction can have on a mother's life. Valerie's journey poignantly reminds us of the challenges and struggles faced by mothers who find themselves entangled in the grip of their son or daughter's addiction. Her resilience and determination to overcome the Beast, as she aptly calls it, are both inspiring and empowering. Listeners are encouraged to fight their Beast and find the courage to fight back. The podcast episode highlights the transformative power of resilience, hope, and perseverance in adversity. It offers a message of strength and solidarity to mothers who are grappling with their child's addiction, reassuring them that they are not alone in their struggles. Through Valerie's narrative, she invites listeners to join h