Slay Girl Slay

Some of you are sitting on some really dope ideas. Some of you have been wanting to step it up, and take your business to the next level. Take your projects and creativity to the next level. Take your life, to the next level. But you have not moved, because you are concerned with whether or not the world, your peers, your family, or your audience….will be pleased with what you do. But the reality is, you can’t please everybody sis. If who you are, and what you do is your best? Then who you are, and what you do…is enough. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Your Best Is Enough appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A lot of us know, what will ultimately make us happy. We know the things that we need to do to bring us happiness…but because there’s so many steps, and so many changes that we have to make to get there…we put it off. Doing things that bring us joy can sometimes be an inconvenience. It takes time out of our day, and not a regular part of our schedules. But sis….happiness is a choice. Happiness is not found at the end of the journey that you are on. In most cases…happiness can be found right where you are. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Stop Putting Off Your Happiness appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s okay to be disappointed that your life doesn’t look the way you thought it would by now. But never forget, we live life on our own terms sis. Not by the terms of your family. Not by the terms of your friends, and certainly not by the terms of society. Don’t feel bad because you haven’t checked all the “life boxes” that you thought you should have checked by now. No matter what age you are, no matter what season you’re in, if it didn’t happen before today, it wasn’t supposed to happen before today. But the good news is…you still have a lot of life…to live. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Your Destiny Isn’t Going Anywhere appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Did somebody say Season 5?! We’re back boo, and to say “we missed you” is an understatement. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, anxious about where your life was going, scared to take risks, or ever felt like you just couldn’t do what you’ve dreamt of doing – today’s season premiere was signed, sealed and delivered just for you. Not going to spoil this episode for you, but all we’ve got to say is – get ready sis. Ashley….is back. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Run The Play Sis appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s looking like a season finale boo! Listen, there is something that only you can do in this lifetime that has the power to change your life, and the lives of those around you. All of us were born with a gift, and whether we use it or not is up to us. But the purpose you are seeking sis, the accomplishments you’re striving for, the love and validation you want, the security you may be looking for, the happiness that you are after, can be found in the gifts that you were born with. Your gift will make room for you boo…if you step aside, and allow it to. Join us this Wednesday, December 15th at 7:00pm CT as we go LIVE on Instagram to celebrate the end of Season 4!! Thank you for such a great season! We’ll be back with new episodes in the new year boo, but until then, keep going, keep dreaming, keep slaying…and we’ll chat soon boo! Peace! Join the LIVE with host, Ashley Leggs, Founder & CEO of Slay Girl Slay on December 15th at 7:00m CT here! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast o

All of us, are waiting for something to happen in our lives. Waiting for life changing news, a significant other, a booming business, literally the list goes on. But instead of being anxious and worrying about what’s going to happen in the future and trying to chase down answers you don’t have yet, focus on all the things that make your life beautiful right now. Do not get weary, while in your waiting season sis. You deserve the good things that are coming. And whatever you are waiting for will one day come too….but only if you sit back, and allow it to. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Waiting Period appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Most of the time we get excited about growing into the person we’ve dreamed of, and accomplishing our wildest dreams, but we don’t really sit down and think about how much we’re going to have to do (or go through) to get there. For every goal you are focused on, there is a blindspot that you can not see boo. When it comes to our dreams and goals, we tend to believe in only the things that get us excited, and we don’t acknowledge the things that might disrupt us along the way. But your blindspots can become roadblocks if you do not pay attention to them. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Check Your Blindspots appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Everyone will not love who you are and what you do. The real question is, do you though? Your gifts, talents, ideas, and all the things that make you the bomb person that you are, will not be for everybody. No matter how hard you work at something, and no matter how hard you try, you can’t please everyone sis. There will always be someone that will refuse to pick up what you’re putting down. And you know what? That is 100% okay. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Won’t Be For Everybody appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Life has a way of grabbing us by the edges, and hitting us when we least expect it. No matter how great you may be feeling, life can just punch you out of nowhere. But at some point, when you’ve had enough, you have to learn how to look life square in the eye and fight back. Life will always be life, but most importantly you will always be you. So if you’re feeling down, if you’re feeling sad, if you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, grief, or all of the other things that we have to deal with – put them dukes up sis. Stand up, square up, and fight back. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Stand Up & Fight Back appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes we don’t like enforcing boundaries because that means we might have to say something we don’t want to say to someone. We don’t want to hurt their feelings, and we don’t want to sour the relationship so the boundary is never enforced. But as we know, boundaries are not for them sis, boundaries are for you. Speaking up for yourself is a way of setting a boundary. But what matters the most, is not what you say…but how you say it. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Respectfully Declined appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It can be scary standing up for yourself, and speaking up for what you want. You don’t want to upset anyone and you don’t want them to look at you in a negative way. But at some point sis, you can’t keep setting yourself on fire to keep others warm. You can’t keep bending, and letting others bulldoze over you. When you speak up for yourself, you may lose some people. You may lose some opportunities. Some things may not go the way that you planned. But guess what you did not lose? Yourself. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Speak Up So They Can Hear You appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You can’t do everything, with everybody sis. When you elevate in life, not everyone in your circle will elevate with you. As you seek new levels of growth in your life, and as you go after new experiences, sometimes you might have to do them alone. This level, this journey, and this experience is yours, and yours alone. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Can’t Be Bougie With Everybody appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some days you feel super confident and beautiful, and just feeling yourself, and literally the next day you can feel raggedy. Some days you can feel like you are in perfect alignment, and you love your life, and you love where it’s going, and the next day can feel completely opposite. Both days you are still the same perfect you. Don’t let negative thoughts, self hate, and comparison keep you from accomplishing everything you set out to do. You have a goal, get to it sis. If it doesn’t lift you up, it does not belong. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Stop Being Mean To Yourself appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When we feel like we’re not progressing, and not doing as good as we think we should be doing – we find ourselves wishing we “had it all together”. But wishing we had it all together, or believing in this false sense of perfection is doing more harm than good sis. There is no destination we arrive to in life where everything makes perfect sense. There is no time where everything in our lives will be in perfect balance. We are in a constant state of evolving boo, and with every new level of achievement, comes a new hurdle to jump over. There’s levels to this… Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Are A Work In Progress appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your life can change in an instant boo. Literally, our lives can change at the drop of a dime. If your life changed today, are you happy with how you’ve been living? Are you proud of how you show up each day? If your answer is no…that’s okay sis. We get so caught up in the minor details of our lives, that we forget each day we have the opportunity to live a life worth living. Today’s episode is a gentle reminder, that you should never take those opportunities for granted. Never forget, that it is a privilege to be you. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post It Is A Privilege To Be You appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You have to have discernment in who gets to experience the best parts of you. You have to have discernment in who gets to know everything about you. Making moves in silence isn’t just for your haters, and the people that want to see you fail. Sometimes, you have to protect your dreams, visions, and goals from the people that want to see you win. Crazy right? Your wildest dreams, the life you have planned for yourself, is not a conversation piece sis. Before you go telling the world about your plans…always know what you’re about to say, and most importantly, who you’re saying it to. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Keep Your Mouth Shut appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How you feel everyday, has the power to dictate your every move in life sis. But just because you feel a certain way, that doesn’t mean that feeling is coming from a true place. For example: Just because you feel unproductive today, that does not make you a lazy person. Just because you feel bad today, that does not mean you have a bad life. You see where this is going? We can end up so deep in our feelings that we forget to take a minute and ask ourselves if what we’re feeling is even valid. Feelings are real sis…but they are not always the facts. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Facts Over Feelings appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We know you’re over the work, and you’re tired of putting in hours at your jobs, or your businesses, and you’re ready to sit back and just enjoy the fruits of your labor. Because who dreams of work? But the reality is, when you want big things in life, big work is required sis. Because to whom much is given, much is required. There are no short cuts, easy routes, or discount codes to your dreams. You can not reap the benefits of hard work, if you are not willing to sow a few seeds. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Struggle Of Doing Hard Things appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You never know the impact you can make on someone’s life sis. You don’t have to have your life “together” to change the life of someone else. If you have it on your heart to be kind to someone and be a blessing to them, do it. Believe it or not, being kind to others, can teach you the most valuable lesson, in being kind to yourself. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post It Costs Nothing To Be Kind appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Raise your hand if you had every intention of coming back outside looking like a snack, but instead you’re still eating them? *raises both hands* Outside is open again, and let’s be honest…we fell off in some areas of our life. Whether it be our fitness goals, putting in effort into our appearance (because let’s face it, we really didn’t have to for the last 12 months), going out and being social with others, the list goes on. We all have an area of our life that we value, but we just stopped putting in the effort. But now it’s time to press the reset button, knock the dust off, and get back on your game sis. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post If You Fell Off Just Say That appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices