In Bed With Dr Sue

Humiliation. When it comes to fetish and submission, humiliation is a given. But is it okay? At what point does humiliation start to cross the line to bullying and become detrimental to your mental health? Why is humilation part of submission?Why do I like to be humiliated at all?When does humiliation become hate?Can humiliation actually help your self-esteem?How can I play but still maintain my self-esteem?How to humiliate without damaging your sub What are your thoughts on humiliation?

Join me Tuesday October 16 at 10m ET when my guest will be author and researcher Key Barrett and we'll be going over everything about chastity and female led relationships. Key has been researching FLR's and is the author of two books we'll be going over; Surrender, Submit, Serve Her.: The definitive guide to enacting Female Leadership and embracing the Female Dominated Household and Locked-In Love: How two weeks in chastity can end the barter system, renew courtship and make a better husband We'll be chatting about: What are the psychological changes a couple will go through when the husband is locked?What are the benefits of being in chastity for both husband and wife?What is a female led relationship?What is required to create a good FLR?The common myths of both chastity and FLR'sWhat men can do to be more supportive of women in our changing societyand MORE! CALL IN WITH YOUR QUESTIONS 657-383-0031

Has financial domination died? Yes! It died ages ago yet some of you women keep trying desperately to shock the life back in to it. Several years ago I wrote a very controversial article stating that indeed financial domination is DEAD. It pissed off a lot of women but it was the truth. On this show I’m going to be going even deeper in to the frigid, hard reality of this particular kink. Financial domination, just what is it and how did it get so incredibly fucked up over the last decade? I’ll be discussing: What exactly is REAL financial dominationWhy calling yourself a rinser makes you look like a corner hooker with a needle in your armThe impact of online media and it’s complicity in the deterioration of the kinkHow, because of FOSTA/SESTA, calling yourself a findom openly could get your ass brought up on federal chargesWhy many Domme’s don’t get involved in findom and actually find it distastefulIf you insist on calling yourself a findom, how to protect yourself and your moneyHow men get so addicted to

In the first of many new shows I'll be doing with no guest, I will be uncovering the lies, deception and utter bullshit that has taken over the cuckold world in recent years. I will be taking you through what cuckolding REALLY is and exposing the lies and ridiculous practices that have infiltrated the cuckold scene. I'll be discussing What the true definition of cuckolding isWhy the term 'hot wife' has nothing to do with cuckoldingWhy men are shaming women who practice this lifestyleWhat is a female led relationship (FLR)What's the deal with 'professional bulls'And a TON MORE! You probably won't like what I have to say on this show and subsequent shows and I expect you to CALL IN with your own opinions and observations and to debate mine in a respectful way. The BDSM scene is falling apart and I'm taking names and calling out the bullshit. CALL IN THE NIGHT OF THE SHOW 657-383-0031

Join me for a frank discussion about the history of sadomasochism with author and kinkster Peter Tupper and the release of his book A Lover’s Pinch, A Cultural History of Sadomasochism. Peter has been researching and blogging about the history of consentual sadomasochism since 2005. Peter is the co-founder of Metro Vancouver Kink, a non-profit BDSM community organization in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada and remains active in the BDSM lifestyle. He has lectured at numerous conferences throughout the U.S. and Canada and has appeared on many kink related podcasts. From publisher Rowman & Littlefield about A Lover’s Pinch “A worldwide subculture that influences everything from fashion to advertising, sadomasochism has a long and lively history. A Lover’s Pinch tells the story of consensual sadomasochism, from a controversial religious practice to a secretive sexuality branded a perversion. The origins of kink and fetish culture have been shrouded in secrecy and myths, until now. Here, Peter Tupper re

One of the most difficult aspects of working in the adult industry is dealing with the mental health issues we all face. Whether it’s dealing with clients, haters, competitors, family, friends, or the isolation of working online sex industry can wear even the most stable of us down. The legendary Kimmie Kaboom is joining me to discuss how we can keep our sanity in the crazy and not always fun work we do. Suicide has become even more prevalent in our industry with the passing of FOSTA/SESTA and the feeling of being alone and the world being against us is real. Kimmie is going to give us the tools needed to deal with such issues as: Bullying, cyber stalking and keyboard warriors How to keep your social media in compliance Dealing with trolls and negative feedback How not to get sucked in to trolls/fans that demand your time I will discuss: The importance of self-care and how to actually do it Meditation And we will both tell you about the new support platfrom for sex workers Pinapple Sup

In what we know will be a contentious issue and show I am joined by Mistress Mia Darque and Master Blackrod. Mistress Mia you will remember from the show on Giantess fetish where we touched briefly on this very topic of race play and decided then that we would have to do an entire show on the subject.  Master Blackrod has some very definite ideas regarding the racist aspects of sex play and when it crosses the line. A brief history of African American slursDoes me indulging in raceplay for profit make me a sell out to my race?What am I? (A look into what the provider is comfortable with for themselves)If I'm the dominant don't I run the show? Being a top in raceplay.Can a white couple (cuckold scene) use the term Queen of Spades?Can a white person indulge in race play?and MORE! What are your thoughts?

Whether you are a proud sex worker, you support sex workers, or you are not empowered or proud but you are working it for your own reasons, this is your chance to be heard. June 2 is International Sex Worker Day and in light of the recent passing of FOSTA/SESTA ~ The Cloud Act and End Banking for Human Trafficking Act this day of celebration is even more important this year as we all stand up to fight against descrimination of LEGAL SEX WORK. If you can't join a local march or rally I want to give you a chance to call in and tell the world how you feel about legal sex work and how this law is affecting your life. In this OPEN LINE LIVE CALL-IN SHOW the mic is all YOURS!  657-383-0031

Join Ashley Jill and myself as we explore smoking fetish and we’ll also be talking more about the FOSTA fall out.  You might not want to hear what I’ll be telling you about the reasons why sites such as FetLife have had to pull the plug on certain fetishes despite the negative feedback. We’ll also discuss Who participates in a smoking fetish knowing they’re killing themselves?Why would anyone think smoking is sexy?The art of smokingSmoking coercionWhy are Findom and Pro-Domination being targeted?Why have so many terms of service been changed recently?What is going on in Europe on May 25th?The recent changes to bankingTwitter shadow banning; how to keep your account from disappearing

Ashley Jill and myself will be discussing all of the issues surrounding the passing of FOSTA/SESTA on March 21/2018. I will attempt to get as many answers as I can regarding what services are changing and hopefully what services are not. We’ll also go over: What is FOSTA/SESTA?What does it mean?Why it affects you if you’re not in the U.S.What services can you TRUST?What services have been affected?And more importantly what you can do to help survive this tragedy of a bill and maintain your business.

You truly don't want to miss this show with the legendary Mistress Mia Darque. We are going to be hitting on a ton of subjects including giantess of course but we're also going to be discussing race play, body positivity, corporal punishment and even the trend of geeks and gaming in BDSM. So set a reminder on your phone right now to make it for this fantastic show! Giantess: The differences between glamazons, giantesses and amazons How much does actual height have to do with it? Giantess and the AB/DL fetish The effects of Namio Harukawa on post WWII giantess and plus size body positivity. Corporal punishment: Race relations (dealing with varying ethnicities in certain aspects of race play) Knowing how and when to tell a masochist - enough is enough Working with extreme masochists in general and what to do when you think you've run out options Nerds...The new frontier (geek fetish in S&M)

Too often we become far too complacent with both our online and offline safety. We can get sucked up into that, ‘It can’t happen to me,’ mentality. And that can have some dangerous consequences. Corii Siren and I are going to bring you some issues that have cropped up and whether you are new to this business or a seasoned professional we ask that you listen in because your security is of utmost importance.   We’ll also be discussing changes you can make to keep yourself safer. I personally have stories you need to hear from past ladies who have been stalked and present ladies who have been murdered. This isn’t sensationalism; I wish it was, unfortunately its fact.  So am I telling you them to scare you? 100%. Cause you should be scared if you’re not taking this seriously.  But we’ll also be discussing changes you can make to keep yourself safer so it’s not all gloom and doom. Look I know for some of you the term ‘sex worker’ is off-putting but like it or not that’s what we all are. From Dommes to cam g

You may have noticed a slight change in the LGBTQ community‘s acronym of late to include the letter “I.” So what’s with the “I”? Well the letter “I” stands for Intersex. And what is intersex? Well that’s precisely what Sadie Synn andMadame Margherite are here to educate us about. Tune in and find out: What Intersex is? How Intersex differs from Transgender including The difference between biological sex and gender identity Infant Conforming Genital Mutilation Issues that those who are Intersex face Struggles with the medical community The obstacles involved in dating and intimacy The social awkwardness, having to stay covered up, conforming to societal standards How to be a good ally to an Intersex individual How to raise awareness about Intersex without being Intersex How to speak with an Intersex individual and more! Join us for a riveting show and learn to be an ally in everyone’s fight to be allowed to be different. Because like it or not, we all are. Once you accept that

In Bed with Dr Sue is joined by the lovely Evil Opal, purveyor of slippery, sensual caresses around your extremities with these centuries-old textiles. The thought of silk and satin brings to mind Egyptian tents with beautifully adorned women in these brightly coloured, soft, wafts of cloth. Opal will tell us how she got into being a 'textile-o-phile,' and how she incorporated that into her BDSM life. She'll be teaching us about: Versatility & Practicality - of these textiles -Different textures -Silk fetish attire -The ease of silk scarvesSymbolism - the history & archetypes of silk -The symbolism of silk with power and wealth among many others -Spider Silk -Historical and regional costuming including; saris, kimonos and goddess drapesSensuality - all the lovely ways to use silk in kinky play -Bondage -Mummification -Sensation Play -Fetish attire So bring your notebooks nuggets because class is in session and there's a lot to learn. Whether you're professional o

We’ve all been there. We’ve all been scammed in some way on the internet and unfortunately, it happens in our little kinky neck of the internet world as well. Because of that, I’ve decided to wake all of you up to some of the common scams that are geared to the BDSM online world. Join Ashley Jill and me December 19 at 10pm ET for this very frank discussion that may piss some people off but… you know me. What marketing scams are being used on DommesWhat horrifying scams are being used on subsWhat to look for and what to RUN FROM when you’re searching for a Domme to serveand so much MORE! If you’ve been scammed in BDSM online I WANT TO HEAR YOUR STORY. Please CALL IN the night of the show 657-383-0031

The delicious aroma of fresh, out-of-the-box pair of leather stiletto shoes. The glimpse of buttery softness your fingers get as you slide the zipper up her leather thigh-high boots. The gleam of the light as it hits her curves in the freshly polished, latex, little black dress. The feel of the rubber glove as it clamps over your mouth and her breath as she whispers in your ear, “you’re fucked!” BDSM and leather is so cliché it makes even the best of us roll our eyes but if we move away from the stereotype and into the realm of fetish you find that whether it’s leather, rubber, latex, vinyl, velvet or feathers sensation play is a huge part of the BDSM and fetish realm and we’re going to explore sensation play with both Mistress VQ and Leatherfreak. Mistress VQ is a professional dominatrix who uses all of these items in her craft in both her wardrobe and as part of the services she offers submissives. We’ll talk to Mistress VQ about how she incorporates sensation play in her art. We’ll also be chatting w

What could be better on Halloween Night than to be joined by my guest Andy Baca while we talk all things sexy and spooky.  Spectrophilia is best described as a sexual attraction to ghosts and paranormal investigator Andy takes us into a world where sex and the paranormal collide. We’ll also be delving into these creepy but spine-tinglingly sexy subjects: Dual views of paranormal investigation and parapsychologyOuija board projection/ Philip ExperimentPoltergeist/RSPK (Recurrent Spontaneous Psycho Kinesis) Sleep Paralysis/Old Crone SyndromeCelebrity Show Case10 Celeb snuggles with spooksKe$ha visits haunted brothel twice The Entity CaseSan Pedro Haunting + SideshowThe Mustang RanchAlien Cathouse & Nye County Brothel Wars So grab some wine and put the rugrats to bed with their evening haul, slide under a warm blanket and join my co-host Ashley Jill and myself for an evening of sexy, spectral fun with incredible stories that will keep you up for the rest of the night in more ways than one.  We want to hear

Cuckolding is the dream of many men.  They salivate at the idea of another man having sex with or in some cases even being his wife’s boyfriend.  It all sounds good on paper but when you implement this type of lifestyle there can be serious consequences if you’re not careful. I am very lucky to have as my guest’s both Chris and Kevin.  Chris will be joining us live and telling us about his relationship.  You might recall I described some of what Chris and his wife went through in an article I wrote for Kink E Magazine.  What happened to Chris is frightening and extreme for sure and much can be learned from his experience.  I am also going to be speaking with Kevin in a pre-recorded interview that I will air on the show.  Kevin is living in an extreme, cuckold relationship and is now doing things he would never have thought he would be.  Things that you and I might think are absolutely crazy but he and his wife are making work.  I would love to hear your thoughts that night and I’m sure Chris is happy

Most of us don’t think of tickling as being anything sexual let alone a way to torture someone.  For some of us tickling is torture because we just plain don’t like it, but what if THAT was used against you? There are many elements of BDSM involved in tickling and tickle torture and tickling has become an industry within BDSM. Foot stocks and being tied down during the tickling process gives you your bondage element.  The tickler becomes the evil, torturer who inflicts the suffering on a barefoot and/or naked defenseless victim, driving them crazy with a myriad of brushes, fingernails and other tickle torment accoutrement. I invite you to join myself, Ashley Jill and our special guest Tony as we explore this fetish together. Tony is a client of mine who I know you’ll fall in love with. He’s funny, articulate and knows his tickling shit inside and out.  So whether you’re a Domme/Dom looking to add to your bag of tormenting tricks, a tickle loving fetishist or just curious about this kink be sure to join us

Every one of us at one time or another has experienced feelings of intense sadness and apathy.  For many people this is a short-lived and temporary situation.  But for others those feelings persist and become accompanied by other more acute issues such as feelings of self-loathing, physical pain, severe fatigue and thoughts of suicide just to name a few. Depression effects everyone whether it be through personal experience or by observing or dealing with friends and loved ones who suffer.  But do those of us in the sex industry suffer more?  There is a school of thought that anyone involved in the adult industry is already damaged in some way. Together with my guest co-host Miss Peyton we'll discuss the signs and symptoms of depression and open the discussion removing the stigma's associated with it.  We'll also talk about strategies you can implement to help ease your own symptoms.  It's time we open the discussion on depression and mental health in order to remove the blemish and shame associated with it.