Sluts & Scholars

Ian Ferguson is a Master Trainer of the Erotic Blueprint™ Methodology and co-founder of Jaiya, Inc., a company dedicated to radically transforming how society discusses and experiences sex. You may have seen them on Sex, Love, and Goop. Tune in to learn more about your blueprint and bust the myth of sexual compatibility.  https://missjaiya.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week I am joined by sex educator, speaker, and coach Marla Renee Stewart. We talk about her new book An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy: Centering the Lives of Indigenous, Racialized, and People of Color. We also talk about her amazing events including Sex Down South and Dick Fest, as well as ways to heal through acts of self love.     Ads: - Go to GETQUIP.com/SANDS RIGHT NOW and on top of their holiday savings, you’ll get your first refill FREE. - Check out YourParade.com/sands and use code sands to get 20 % off your first order - 10% off and free shipping when you use my code sands at UberLube.com Marla Renee Stewart: https://www.velvetlipssexed.com/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode talks about a recent controversy in the news regarding Dr. Allyn Walker's research on minor attraction and childhood sexual abuse. I first share the importance of this topic and its nuanced complexities, then I interview a non-offending minor attracted person named Richard Kramer, who discusses what it is like to live with these highly stigmatized desires. Other topics covered: abuse prevention, academic freedom, and stigma related stress.      Ads:  - 10% off and free shipping at uberlube.com with code sands - 30% off any Satisfyer https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H - 30 day free extended trial dipseastories.com/sands   Jezebel article: https://jezebel.com/professor-on-leave-after-comments-about-people-attracte-1848089269   B4U-Act: https://www.b4uact.org/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

If you watched the recent Goop series Sex, Love, & Goop, you may know a bit about Sexological Bodywork; tune in to learn even more. Educators Chris Maxwell Rose and Charlotte Mia Rose, aka the Pleasure Mechanics, join in for a conversation about body work, the importance of touch, how to savor more and increase your pleasure in life and sex, erotic massage, and more!       Ads:  - YourParade.com/sands and use code sands to get twenty percent off your first order - Everlywell.com/sands for 20% off your at-home lab test - Go to GETQUIP.com/SANDS and get your first refill FREE - Pleasure Mechanics: The Erotic Essentials free online course, rich with resources and freebies: https://pleasuremechanics.teachable.com/p/the-erotic-essentials/?affcode=160539_guqx01pi   Pleasure Mechanics: https://pleasuremechanics.teachable.com/?affcode=160539_guqx01pi   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and sc

This week I am joined by The Funny Dom. He is a kink content creator spreading BDSM positivity from his home in Melbourne, Australia. We talk about Gomez and Morticia Addams (aka the dream couple), humor in BDSM, 24/7 kinky arrangements, and how to differentiate a toxic misogynist from a Dom or Daddy.    Ads:  - Everlywell.com/sands for 20% off your at-home lab test - 30% off any Satisfyer at https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H   The Funny Dom: https://www.instagram.com/thefunnydom FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week I am joined by Tamar Samuels of Culina Health. Tamar is a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist and we talk about PCOS (Polycystic ovary syndrome), how gut health affects our whole body (sexuality included), and nutrition in relation to sexual health.    Ads:  10% off and free shipping when you use my code “Sands” at UberLube.com 20% off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Goddess KoCo Meow is a Professional Dominatrix at Atlanta Dungeon and a Fetish Esthetician/Lead Instructor at Atlanta Sissy Feminization Academy.  Her signature is infusing spa treatments with BDSM & Kink. We talk about how this works, why people do it, and ways to love your body more.    Ads:  Satisfyer 30% off: https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H Dipsea extended 30 day free trial: dipseastories.com/sands   KoCo Meow: https://www.kocomeow.net/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode features urologist Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, M.D., who is fellowship-trained in Sexual Medicine and specializes in the management of sexual dysfunctions. We talk about everything from hormone management, to low libido, "blue balls," and even how to ejaculate more (and why people want to!).    Discounts! - Everlywell: 20% off an at-home lab test at everlywell.com/sands - Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code SandS at UberLube.com. - Like a Kitten: 20% off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS   Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, M.D.: https://joshuagonzalezmd.com/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This special episode turns the tables and I get interviewed by Michelle L’amour on her podcast Look Down There. We talk about how to decrease sexual and body shame as well as offer some hands on tools and steps to explore yourself more.    Discounts/ Ads:  30% off Satisfyer at  https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H   Michelle L'amour: https://michellelamour.com/links/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode tackles premature ejaculation, or as I prefer to say “finishing before you want to.” I chat with Jeff Abraham of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, makers of sexual wellness supplies including Promescent- a delay spray that helps people with penises “make love longer.” I challenge Jeff about this complex product and talk about why, how, and when folks can use it.    Ads:  - 20% off and free shipping at www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS - Extended 30 day FREE trial at dipseastories.com/sands - 10% off and free shipping using code "sands" at uberlube.com   Promescent: https://www.promescent.com/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode features M.D. Dr. Josephine McNary of CalPsychiatry. We talk about when to visit a psychiatrist, how the process works, some misnomers about medication, as well as what to do if your meds cause sexual side effects.    Discounts/ ads:  - Get 20% off + free shipping with the code sands  at manscaped.com. - 30% off of Satisfyer using code sands30 at this link  https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.google.com/url?q%3Dhttps://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source%253DPodcast%2526utm_medium%253DSANDS%2526utm_campaign%253D2H%26amp;sa%3DD%26amp;source%3Deditors%26amp;ust%3D1631745828543000%26amp;usg%3DAOvVaw2PhKPDCcgK6IqX6TTm9P37&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1631745828565000&usg=AOvVaw0_rpyx4PzUZ77aGbnUtrpM   CalPsychiatry:  https://calpsychiatry.com/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week's episode features sex scholar and writer Nadège, founder of Pleasure Science. We talk about sexual empowerment, self esteem, how to communicate boundaries and needs before, during, and after sex, as well as the intersection of science and pleasure.      Discounts/ ads:  Satisfyer 30 % off at https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H UberLube 10% off and free shipping when you use code SandS at U-B-E-R-LUBE.com   Nadege: https://pleasurescience.com/      FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Welcome back to another season of Sluts and Scholars! This first episode talks about a new animated, educational show called Welcome to Kinkyville- which aims to help folks engage in Kink and BDSM in a safer, more informed way. We talk about how to find a Dom, how to explore BDSM for the first time, unicorn "hunting", and more.    Donate and help Welcome to Kinkyville become a reality: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/pewpewpewproductions/welcome-to-kinkyville   Discounts Manscaped: Get 20% off + free shipping with the code sands at manscaped.com.    Dipsea: Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands Like a Kitten: 20% off and free shipping at  www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Nicoletta welcomes back newly minted author Lucie Fielding to talk about her new book- Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments.   Ads: UberLube- 10% and free shipping when you use code sands at uberlube.com   Dipsea- Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/SANDS    Manscaped: Get 20% off + free shipping with the code sands at manscaped.com.   Lucie Fielding:  https://luciefielding.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Join in a conversation with “Rick,” the founder and creator of ASMR Daddy, an audio porn outlet and community for appreciators of all things Daddy.    Ads:  Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping! Just use code SandS   Feeld:  https://feeld.app.link/sands50   Pour Moi:  https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/   ASMR DADDY  https://www.pornhub.com/model/asmr-daddy   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode helps to break down the nervous system and explains how it affects our relationships and sex lives. Jennifer provides tools for stabilizing the nervous system and finding our inherent resiliency when we are under stress or triggered by traumatic events. This is a must listen for anyone with a body!   Ads:  - UberLube 10% off and free shipping when you use my code SandS at UberLube.com. - Feeld https://feeld.app.link/sands50   Jennifer:  www.jenniferburtonmft.com   Trauma Resource Institute: https://www.traumaresourceinstitute.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Dr. Zhana is a relationship scientist, writer, and consultant. This episode talks about ways to be more prepared when opening up your relationship- the do's, don'ts, and things to think about!     Check out Zhana's course on opening smarter: https://www.drzhana.com/open-smarter   Ads/ sponsors Manscaped: 20% off and free shipping with the code: [sands] at manscaped.com.   Dipsea: Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/SANDS   Pour Moi: $25 off of Intensity https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Von uses her own orgasm to make music. Remember the Lioness vibrator from episode 126? Von hacked her Lioness to change the way we talk about sex- and to create songs. Tune in to hear how this works, tips for working through sexual shame, and how to deal with rejection.   Ads: Pour Moi: Pour Moi is offering our listeners an additional $25 off of Intensity when you go to PourMoi.com and enter code “sands” at checkout   Manscaped: Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code “sands” at Manscaped.com. Von: https://www.vondomlabs.com/ Lioness: https://lioness.io/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

  This episode discusses mental health needs and progress in the adult industry. It includes: how to be a sex worker informed therapist, barriers to care, stigma, and more.   In honor of the late Dr. Amie Harwick’s birthday. You are missed and your contribution to Pineapple and so many other lives will never be forgotten.   Ads: Dipsea: 30 days of full access for free at dipseastories.com/sands Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping when you use code “SandS” at uberlube.com   Pineapple: https://pineapplesupport.org/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Ellie is an asexual sex worker who joins me for a conversation around sexual spectrums, types of desires, aphantasia, and fetishes. She helps correct misconceptions about the asexuality spectrum and shares some personal ways that she helps clients combat sexual shame.    Ads/ discounts:  Satisfyer: 40% off and free shipping for all app-enabled devices with discount code SandS40 Feeld: https://feeld.app.link/sands50 Download the Feeld app for free AND support our show by using the link. Even better...when you use our link in the description, you’ll get 50% off the first three months of Feeld’s Majestic membership   Ellie: https://allmylinks.com/ellienextdoor1   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.