Synopsis
Hi, I'm Elsie and I'm a recovering drug addict. This isn't a meeting? It's a podcast? Um, I've never done one so, uh, hi, this is my podcast about addiction. Not just drug addiction. Pornography addiction too. Why? Great question. My hubby is a recovering pornography/sex & love addict. So I'll talk about healing from the trauma that porn addiction can cause too. I don't have a Ph.D. What I share are my personal experiences and optimism. While this journey can be tough, I feel we all have the power to heal and recover. I talk with humor but take this seriously and I'm grateful you're here.
Episodes
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Drop The Rock
25/05/2021 Duration: 21minHave you heard of the Drop The Rock parable from AA? In today's episode, I share my personal experience with dropping my own rocks and letting go of characteristics I wanted to change. For more information about addiction, recovery, anxiety, and healing, I invite you to visit my website. I look forward to seeing you there! Programming note: I’ll be podcasting every other week as I work on my next book. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Codependent and Enabling? Oh my!
14/05/2021 Duration: 19minHow do you know if you have dependent or enabling traits? In today's episode, I share quick assessments and talk about ways to away from the traits and towards healthier behaviors. For more information about addiction, recovery, anxiety, and healing, I invite you to visit my website. I look forward to seeing you there! Programming note: I’ll be podcasting every other week as I work on my next book. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Liars and the Lies We Tell
25/04/2021 Duration: 18minWhy do those of us in recovery lie so much? Lies and I have quite a history together. In today's episode, I talk about why some of us may be deceitful and how we can move into healthier behaviors. For more information about addiction, recovery, anxiety, and healing, I invite you to visit my website. I look forward to seeing you there! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Coping and Healing from Sexual Assault: April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month
15/04/2021 Duration: 22minIn today's episode, I share ways to cope and heal from sexual assault. Note: This episode may be triggering. For more information about addiction, recovery, anxiety, and healing, I invite you to visit my website. I look forward to seeing you there! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Staying Motivated & Hopeful
07/04/2021 Duration: 19minIn today’s episode, we’re going to talk about ways to stay hopeful and motivated. Do you struggle to stay motivated...or even getting started? Then this episode is the perfect fit for you. For more information about addiction, recovery, anxiety, and healing, I invite you to visit my website. I look forward to seeing you there! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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The Importance of Mindset
31/03/2021 Duration: 18minWhen we go through recovery and healing, it’s important to have the right mindset. What kind of mindset do you have? In today's episode, I talk about having to achieve a positive, healthy mindset. For more information about addiction, recovery, anxiety, and healing, I invite you to visit my website. I look forward to seeing you there! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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What is Gaslighting?
25/03/2021 Duration: 13minHave you heard of gaslighting? In today's episode, I share my experience with gaslighting and share some tips on what to do if you're going through it. To learn more about addiction, recovery, healing, and anxiety, I invite you to visit my website. I'll see you there! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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The Crutches Created by Automatic Negative Thoughts
19/02/2021 Duration: 17minToday I talk about the struggles and safety crutches created by automatic negative thoughts and what you can do to challenge them. To view the worksheets, visit my website. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Finding Our Authentic Self
31/01/2021 Duration: 18minIn today's episode, I talk about finding our authentic self. What does your true self look like? How do we honor our passions, beliefs, and feelings and present them to the world instead of a version of ourselves we think the world wants us to be? Visit my website for more tips on recovery and healing. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Have you ever heard of The Spoon Theory?
24/01/2021 Duration: 15minIn today's episode, I talk about Christine Miserandino's Spoon Theory and how it can be applied to addiction, healing, and anxiety. I also talk about the dangers of stagnation. Looking to learn more? Visit my website. I look forward to seeing you there! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Forgiveness
16/01/2021 Duration: 17minHow do we forgive others? How do we make amends? In today's episode, I talk about forgiveness and making amends. Have more questions about addiction, sobriety, or anxiety? Would you like a free 30-minute life coaching consultation? Visit my website! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Resolutions vs. Intentions
29/12/2020 Duration: 12minEvery year around this time, many of us reflect on our lives and reflect on the past year. What a year 2020 has been, but I'm hopeful things will look a lot different this time next year. A few years ago, I heard about creating intentions instead of setting resolutions. I thought that was a really cool idea, especially for those of us on a recovery and healing journey. Have a question? Visit my website! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Managing Triggers During The Holidays
16/12/2020 Duration: 19minWhile the holidays can be a time of love and celebration, for many, it can be filled with anxiety and triggers. Sometimes, those triggers can lead to setbacks. Today, I’m sharing some tips on how to manage triggers during the holidays. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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What does recovery look like? Part Two
03/12/2020 Duration: 17minIn my last episode, I talked about what my recovery and healing looked like. Today, I share a bit about my hubby's recovery. If you have any questions or comments, you can reach me here or on my website. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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What does recovery look like? Part One
10/11/2020 Duration: 21minIn today's episode, I talk about what my recovery looks like. Next week, I'll share what my husband's recovery looks like. Want more information on addiction and healing? Have questions or comments? Visit my blog. I hope to see you there! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Trick Or Treat: Dispelling myths about addiction and some fun facts too!
28/10/2020 Duration: 25minIt's that time of year again…Halloween! I'm doing another round of Trick or Treat? Will you know what's fact or fiction when it comes to addiction or fun facts? Want to learn more? Visit my website: Elsie Amata I look forward to seeing you there! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Putting Your Thoughts On Trial: Challenging Negative Thoughts
23/10/2020 Duration: 13minThis episode is all about challenging negative thoughts and beliefs. I share an exercise called putting your thoughts on trial. Have a question or comment? You can reach me at my website. I look forward to hearing from you! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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The Anger Iceberg Concept
15/10/2020 Duration: 16minHave you ever felt angry for days on end? Yep, me too. Today, I talk about The Anger Iceberg Concept created by The Gottman Insitute. I wish I had read about it earlier in my recovery and my healing! Want to learn more? You can visit me at my blog. I hope to see you there! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Mental Illness Awareness Week & Signs of Anxiety
08/10/2020 Duration: 20minThis week is Mental Illness Awareness Week in the United States. In today's episode, I highlight some helpful resources and also talk about some signs of anxiety and share some helpful tips on reducing stress. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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The Triangle, The Circle, and The Three-Legged Stool
30/09/2020 Duration: 21minEver wonder what The Triangle, The Circle, and The Three-Legged Stool meant in recovery? I share what they mean to me in this week's episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message