Synopsis
Hi, I'm Elsie and I'm a recovering drug addict. This isn't a meeting? It's a podcast? Um, I've never done one so, uh, hi, this is my podcast about addiction. Not just drug addiction. Pornography addiction too. Why? Great question. My hubby is a recovering pornography/sex & love addict. So I'll talk about healing from the trauma that porn addiction can cause too. I don't have a Ph.D. What I share are my personal experiences and optimism. While this journey can be tough, I feel we all have the power to heal and recover. I talk with humor but take this seriously and I'm grateful you're here.
Episodes
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Letting Go With Love and Holding Space For Someone
07/09/2020 Duration: 21minHave you ever had to let go and detach with love? Are you able to hold space for someone? In today's episode, I share my personal experience with these two topics. To learn more you can visit my blog. I look forward to seeing you there! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Feeling All The Feels
09/08/2020 Duration: 14minAre you struggling to regulate your emotions now that you're on the road to recovery? You're not alone. I talk about feeling all the feels...and regulating them, in today's episode. To read more about addiction, healing, and recovery, visit my blog. I'll see you there! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Questions I Hear Most About Pornography Addiction (Part One)
23/07/2020 Duration: 15minI thought I’d change it up a bit and share some of the questions I’ve gotten over the years about pornography addiction. These were received from loved ones and addicts and are paraphrased to help keep anonymity. Want to learn more? Feel free to visit my blog! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Recovery Reboot
19/07/2020 Duration: 19minMy neighbor is such an inspiration. She’s the perfect example of “What is the good?”. She’s a personal trainer and has been holding her training sessions online since the quarantine. I hear her in her garage as she instructs her students and she is one tough cookie. On the weekends she holds her class in her front yard. Everyone is physically distanced…and getting a fantastic workout! She found a way to reboot! She made me realize, what a great opportunity to do a recovery reboot of my own. In today's episode, I share tips on how to have your own recovery reboot! Looking for more tips? Visit my blog. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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What Kind Of Choices Are You Making?
02/07/2020 Duration: 15minWhat kind of choices are you making? Do you want to make better ones? You can learn about choices in today's episode. You can also visit me at my website. Have a beautiful day. You deserve it! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Letting Go Of Resentments
25/06/2020 Duration: 11minDo you have resentments? How do you let go of them? I talk about my process in today's episode. Be prepared for some Elsie rambling!
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Emotional Mud Washed Away
18/06/2020 Duration: 13minDo you struggle to process emotions? Have you heard about emotional sobriety? I talk about it in today's episode. Want to know more? Head over to my blog and type "emotional sobriety" in the search bar. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Honoring Yourself
11/06/2020 Duration: 12minHow will you honor yourself today? How will you reach your goals and be forgiving of yourself? You can visit me on my blog too! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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What Is The Good?
05/06/2020 Duration: 12minWhat Is The Good? If you’ve been around a while, you know that this is one of my favorite sayings. We’ve all had some trying times the last few months and sometimes, at least for me, it can help instead of asking myself, “What good is it?” I ask, “What is the good?” This is especially important for me in my recovery. I need to make sure I reframe and see the good in things and have gratitude to avoid going down negative paths of thinking. You can also visit me at my website. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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ANTs: Automatic Negative Thoughts
19/05/2020 Duration: 13minANTs is a fitting description because they can line-up and march around our brain if they're too out of control. I also call it my “addict voice” because it likes to whisper those negative thoughts in my ear when I’m feeling my lowest. Pesky litter buggers! In today's episode, I talk about how to manage them. You can also visit me at my blog. Hope to see you there! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Marathon Not A Sprint
14/05/2020 Duration: 16minSome say we need to learn to run with patience. They say that recovery and healing is a marathon, not a sprint. (One of my mentors uses this phrase often, and I LOVE it!) Although I'm not a runner (I'm barely a walker), I can relate to this sentiment. I share how in today's podcast. You can also visit me on my blog. Have a question? Let me know! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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WHY Statement
09/05/2020 Duration: 16minWhy do you want to do something? What’s your reason for making that decision? Struggling to stay motivated? In this episode, I share my acronym for a WHY Statement. You can find more tips at Elsie Amata. Have a question? Feel free to message me here or on my website. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Self-Care Isn't Selfish
24/03/2020 Duration: 09minAre you practicing Self-Care? Need some ideas? Get some great tips in this quick episode! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Compartmentalization
19/03/2020 Duration: 13minSometimes, compartmentalization is good. When you have an addiction, it can be tough to navigate. I talk about my experience with compartmentalization in this week's episode and also go into more detail on my blog. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Emotional Triggers: You *can* heal and manage them!
20/02/2020 Duration: 20minIn today's episode, I share what helped me manage my emotional triggers and eventually heal from them. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Acronyms In Recovery
29/01/2020 Duration: 15minI love acronyms! I share some of my favorites and what they mean to me in today's episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Forgiveness Was On My Mind This Week
22/01/2020 Duration: 19minAre you struggling to forgive someone? I talk about my process...my long process...of forgiveness. You can also read more on my blog tomorrow. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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The Concept of the Three C's
07/01/2020 Duration: 17minDo you ever feel a sense of responsibility or guilt about your loved one's addiction? I sure did. Today I talk about the three C's of Al-Anon. We didn’t CAUSE it; We cannot CONTROL it, and We cannot CURE it. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Letting Go - The Holiday Edition
05/12/2019 Duration: 26minStress is high during the holidays. Learning how to let go during the holidays isn't easy. I talk about managing your emotions during this difficult time. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message
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Beach Plan aka Recovery Kit
07/11/2019 Duration: 15minMy "emergency" plan for my recovery and my healing. I share what I kept inside my backpacks. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elsie-amata/message