Unlocking Greatness With Charlie Harary

Even if we have heard of Shovevim before, we may have turned away from learning about it because of the negative perception we have of the concept.  Shovevim is widely misunderstood.  Shovevim is here to make SURE you get maximum pleasure and joy, not to stifle it! There are two kinds of pleasures. One is easy to get, but cheap and fake. It leaves you feeling sick after.  The other requires some work- you have to tap in. It's not easy to grab, but when you get it, you get unlimited joy and pleasure! By detoxing from the fake pleasure, we can start enjoying real, lasting, satisfying pleasure.  This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate

  Have you heard of Shovevim? Shovevim is a topic most of us know very little about, and understand even less. In this new series, Charlie uncovers a completely new and breathtaking approach based on the Biyam Darkecha. We're in a period of time that has a specific spiritual power that we can tap into, and today we'll uncover the incredible potential of Shovevim.  Listen to episode 1 of the Shovevim series here This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate

Is your soul sick? Ever feel empty, even when you’re “winning”? You may have “won” or gotten “the thing,” but still don’t feel that lasting joy and satisfaction you were looking for… In this episode, Charlie breaks down why chasing success and things won’t heal the emptiness inside. Discover how tending to your soul can bring you real fulfillment. Spiritual sickness happens when we ignore what our soul needs. Life isn’t a competition. God designed a unique path for you—there’s no one else you’re racing against. This is about you and what’s right for you- only. If you’ve ever felt burnt out or stuck in the cycle of “what’s next,” this episode will change your perspective. You’ll finally understand what you really need to feel happy and fulfilled.Take a moment today and ask yourself: Is my soul sick? Am I really happy? Am I chasing the right things? This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of hel

This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate

This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate

What if the way we see the world isn’t the way it’s meant to be? In this episode, Charlie uncovers how secular thinking shapes our lives without us even noticing, and explores what it means to shift the center of our universe—unlocking a life of deeper purpose and connection. The Secular Trap: Western culture says you’re the center. Judaism says something greater is. This shift changes everything—how you see yourself, your challenges, and your potential. Redefining Success: Competing to 'win' isn’t the goal. Truthfully, competing isn’t a Jewish theme! Real growth comes from aligning with values that are bigger than you. This episode pulls back the curtain on the subtle ways secular culture impacts our mindset and actions and gives us a look into why our values are what they are. If you’re looking for a way to live with more clarity, meaning, and alignment, this conversation will challenge and inspire you.Ask yourself today: Who’s at the center of my life? Is it all about me, or am I living for something highe

Who calls the shots in my life? I’m making choices and decisions in my life- but under it all, they are the result of my pre-programmed brain. I may, in fact, not be consciously choosing, without realizing it! Algorithms amplify bias, trapping us in familiar thinking. Growth comes when we embrace uncertainty and challenge our comfort zones. Trusting a higher plan helps reframe challenges as opportunities.Today, when things don’t go as planned, break your program! Pause and say: “I don’t run the world. Who knows if this is good or bad?” Try it once and see how it changes your mindset. This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate

Charlie explores how embracing discomfort and challenging familiar ideas can unlock growth and deepen understanding. By recognizing our biases and engaging with opposing perspectives, we can break free from limiting patterns. Familiar ≠ True: Your brain favors what feels familiar, not what’s true. Awareness is key to breaking this cycle. Discomfort Drives Growth: Growth happens when you step outside your comfort zone and explore new ideas. Metaphors Teach Depth: The physical world offers lessons for spiritual growth—if you’re willing to look deeper. This episode will help you break free from old patterns, challenge your assumptions, and embrace growth in your mindset, relationships, and spirituality.Call to Action:Listen to someone with a different perspective today. Don’t argue—just hear them out and reflect on what you can learn. This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers be

Why do adults love games? It’s about structure and quick wins. This episode dives into how craving comfort keeps us stuck—and how embracing discomfort and focus can change everything Games satisfy our need for structure and progress. Quick tasks feel productive but pull us from meaningful work. Deep focus beats scattered effort every time. Growth happens when you push past surface-level comfort. Feeling stuck in busyness? Learn to break free, focus deeply, and create real impact. Call to Action:Choose one uncomfortable task today. Do it. Grow. This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate

Are you living your purpose—or someone else’s? In this episode, discover how to break free from societal pressures, find true significance, and focus on what really matters. Your purpose is unique—stop comparing yourself to others. Chasing success at the expense of family and spirituality leads to regret. True significance comes from living intentionally, not seeking validation. This episode will inspire you to refocus on what matters most—your relationships, mission, and spiritual growth—before it’s too late.Call to Action:Pause today and ask yourself: Am I living for my purpose or someone else’s expectations? Adjust accordingly. This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate

What if every moment, even the smallest ones, carried profound meaning? In this episode, we uncover how to see your life as a daily mission filled with purpose and significance. Significance is a need, not a luxury—your worth is intrinsic. Every task matters; you’re here to fulfill a divine purpose. Let go of past failures; they don’t define your potential. True worth isn’t about applause—it’s about living your mission. This episode helps you see your daily actions as meaningful, freeing you from self-doubt and the need for external validation. Call to Action:Take one task today and give it your full effort, knowing it’s part of your mission. Repeat: “I am significant because I am on a mission.” This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate

What if every challenge is a custom-made opportunity for your growth? Learn how to transform “It’s not fair” into “I was created for this. Your purpose is unique. Your divine spark is within; it’s time to reveal it. Challenges are your growth opportunities. Today we speak about how the shift to focus on your inner world builds lasting fulfillment. This episode gives you tools to turn frustration into purpose, build resilience, and find meaning in your daily struggles.Call to Action:Today, when frustration hits, say, “I was created for this.” Embrace it as your mission and watch your mindset shift. This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate

Are you stuck comparing yourself to others? Discover how to break free and focus on your unique purpose in this eye-opening episode. True worth comes from within, not external validation. You’re here for a specific, divine purpose—own it. Stop comparing; focus on your unique mission. If you’re tired of chasing empty goals and want clarity on what truly matters, this episode will inspire you to realign with purpose. Reflect: What is one way you can shift from comparison to purpose today? Write it down and take action! This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate

Life can feel like it’s on repeat—day in, day out. In this episode, Charlie Harary challenges you to break free from the routine, ask deeper questions, and rediscover your purpose. Autopilot Drains Life: Without reflection, routines can rob us of growth and meaning. Ask Why: Probing your actions sparks clarity and control, even without immediate answers. Surface vs. Soul: True fulfillment comes from nurturing your spiritual self, not just chasing physical goals. The Struggle Matters: Growth happens in the search and the fight, not the shortcuts. If life feels like it’s slipping by, this episode offers practical steps to take back control, live with intention, and align your actions with your deeper purpose. This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate

The Transformative Power of Questions: Asking “Why am I doing this?” creates self-awareness and opens your mind to a deeper understanding of your goals and behaviors. The value lies in the questioning, not necessarily the answers. Understanding Mimetic Desires: Much of what we pursue isn’t innate but imitated from our environment. Recognizing this can free us from chasing what doesn’t truly satisfy. Embrace the Uncomfortable: Growth begins where comfort ends. If self-reflection feels hard, you’re on the right track. Homework: At least once today, pause and ask yourself, Why do I want this? What need am I trying to fulfill? Write down your answers and reflect on whether they align with your true goals and values. This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate

Are your goals truly yours, or are you chasing someone else’s version of happiness? Let's talk about it in today's episode of The Daily Boost. We talk about: The Equation of Desire Environmental Triggers: Your surroundings and upbringing condition how you meet your needs—be it food, success, or validation. Are they leading you toward true happiness? Distinguishing Needs from Wants The Danger of Dysfunction: If your environment feeds unhealthy desires, it can steer you away from genuine fulfillment. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the rat race or questioned why certain goals don’t bring lasting happiness, this episode is for you. Charlie Harary unpacks how our inner world is shaped—and how we can reclaim control to live more meaningful, purpose-driven lives. Take a moment to ask yourself: What am I chasing right now, and why? The answers may surprise you. This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of he

Are your desires truly your own—or just imitations of those around you? In today’s episode of The Daily Boost, Charlie explores the profound concept of mimetic desire, where imitation shapes what we want. Discover how this hidden force impacts your happiness, envy, and the way you chase significance in life. Happiness Isn’t External: True happiness comes from within—not from external circumstances. Shift your focus to internal, spiritual sources of joy. Labels Shape Reality: The way you label feelings or experiences determines how you process and respond to them. Getting the “right” label can change everything. Mimetic Desire Explained: We often desire things because others value them, not because they’re meaningful to us. This imitation feeds into envy and dissatisfaction. The Role of Significance: A deep human need for significance drives much of what we pursue. Unpack whether your pursuits align with your values or mimic external expectations. Reclaim Your Desires: Ask yourself: “Do I truly want this, or a

Are your desires truly your own, or are you unknowingly chasing someone else’s dreams? In this episode, we explore the surprising ways your inner world is shaped by hidden influences—and how to reclaim your happiness and purpose. The Power of Labels: Understanding your emotions begins with having the right words for them. Clearer labels create clearer thinking. Mimetic Desire: Much of what we strive for isn’t innate—it’s imitated from those around us. Recognize the difference between what you want and what you’ve been taught to want. Happiness Starts Within: True, lasting happiness doesn’t come from external successes. It’s cultivated from a deeper, spiritual connection to your inner self. The Role of Significance: We all crave to feel significant, but misplaced sources of validation can steer us away from our true potential. Question Your Goals: Pause and ask yourself—why do I want this? Is it truly meaningful to me, or just a reflection of societal expectations? This episode equips you with a fresh perspect

Did you know your greatest obstacles aren’t out there—they’re within? In today’s episode of The Daily Boost, we dive deep into the invisible battle between your inner and outer worlds, and why mastering the inner world is the secret to living with purpose, control, and joy. Main Takeaways: The Inner and Outer Worlds: Your outer world is the 'game' you’re playing, but your inner world—the 'controller'—determines how you play. Learn to separate the two to live intentionally. Triggers and Reactions: Everyday moments, like a comment or a passing thought, can hijack your focus and mood. Awareness is the first step to reclaiming your control. Inner Work Matters: Success in the outer world starts with refining your inner world—your thoughts, feelings, and reactions. Character traits like jealousy and pride can derail you, but they’re fixable with effort. Homework for Growth: Today’s action item: Simply notice when your inner world is affecting your outer actions. Label the difference to start building clarity and c

We are all living two lives—one in the world everyone sees, and another in your mind.  In this debut episode of our new series on The Daily Boost, Charlie Harary dives into the secret battle between our outer reality and our inner world, revealing how jealousy, lust, and the pursuit of honor can pull us away from true fulfillment. The Two Worlds We Live In: There's the external world of actions and interactions, and the internal world of thoughts and emotions. True joy and strength come from mastering the inner world. The Danger of Disconnection: You can have everything externally—success, relationships, material comfort—but still feel disconnected or unfulfilled if your inner world is out of balance. Three Traits That Steal Your Life: Rav Eleazar HaKaapar’s timeless wisdom teaches that jealousy, lust, and the pursuit of honor disrupt your internal world and prevent you from thriving. Jealousy’s Power to Distract: The first of the three traits, jealousy, takes us out of our own lives by fixating on wha