Synopsis
The Connected Life is an open and honest exploration of life's messiest issues that keep us disconnected from the life right in front of us. Join Life Consultants, Justin and Abi Stumvoll, as they discuss how to get connected to ourselves, connected to others, and connected the life right in front of us. Its time to face some fears, have some fun, and get honest about all the messy things in life as they tackle family, friendships, marriage, and all the things that life throws our way.
Episodes
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The End of The Liberation Project As You Know It
19/09/2016 Duration: 48minWe've had a good run. We've started a lot of conversations, and probably a few fights. But we've come to a crossroads. We love The Liberation Project, and the purpose behind it, but we're sensing a massive shift taking place. In this episode, we invite you into the conversation about The Liberation Project's heart and soul, and if and how it should continue.
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Overcoming Obstacles - Part 4 of 4 of The Creativity Series
12/09/2016 Duration: 45minWe all hit roadblocks. They are annoying, or sometimes devastating obstacles to our (success, relationships, creativity, financial breakthrough, or fill-in-the-blank). To finish out the creativity series, we decided to tackle this issue head on. We discuss what creates blocks—internally and externally—and what we can do about them. This episode is for anyone that is currently stuck, or has been stuck, or will be stuck...yes, it is for everyone.
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Finding Your Creative Voice - Part 3 of 4 of The Creativity Series
05/09/2016 Duration: 01h02minSome people just seem to enjoy life. They like what they do, they like who they're around, and they like who they are. Julie Sequeira, a world-class artist, is one of those people. She's spearheaded several world-impacting trends, and her designs are always in demand. Not to mention, she's one of our favorite people in the world. In today's episode, she's going to shed light on creating a life you love, and discovering your creative voice.
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How to Get Paid for Your Ideas - Part 2 of 4 of The Creativity Series
29/08/2016 Duration: 01h06minWe all have creativity. Some of us are able to harness that creativity to follow our passions, and often, to produce a profit. Noah Elias, a world-class Fine Artist, is an expert at helping people monetize their dreams! He helps people understand what is fundamental to success, and how to align yourself for accomplishing your insights and inspirations.
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Re-Discovering Your Creativity - Part 1 of 4 of The Creativity Series
22/08/2016 Duration: 48minIs creativity just for artists and "free spirits" or is it supposed to be an integral part to everyone's life. in this episode, we discuss the importance of creativity to having an incredible life! If you haven't tapped into your deep creativity for awhile, this episode is for you.
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You Can't Make Me Adult
15/08/2016 Duration: 46minLet's face it, the current generation of young adults is finding a hard time learning how to "adult." We want to keep our options open, and live life to the fullest! But when should we make the transition into becoming an adult...and is that really all that bad?
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Are Millennials Destroying the World?
08/08/2016 Duration: 48minMillennials get a lot of crap. People think they're lazy, unmotivated, unrealistic, and idealistic to the point of being ridiculous. But is that the whole story? In this episode, Justin and Blair (with special guest Tom Crandall) discuss Millennials in a semi-balanced way.
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Rebounding from Betrayal
01/08/2016 Duration: 49minWe've all been betrayed. It sucks. And often, we don't just get betrayed once...but a lot of times. In this episode, Justin and Blair discuss the various types of betrayal, and how to respond to it!
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How To Know If You're On The Right Path
25/07/2016 Duration: 35minAll of us, from time to time, need a little life direction. We need a little calibration from where we're heading, to where we should be heading. In this episode, Justin and Blair discuss a few ways to know if you are in the sweet spot of life.
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Do Black Lives Matter
18/07/2016 Duration: 54minIt seems with all of the controversy surrounding race and the police, people are almost forced to "choose a side." In this episode, Justin and Blair discuss the idea of creating a middle-ground where every group feels heard, respected, and supported.
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How to Become a Master at Asking Questions
11/07/2016 Duration: 57minOne of the most under-rated skills in our culture is asking amazing questions. It allows us to improve relationships, build rapport, and succeed in business...but so few people are talking about how to ask questions effectively. In this episode, we bring on Abi Stumvoll to help us understand how to ask incredible questions!
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Male Body Bashing - The Undiscussed Epidemic
04/07/2016 Duration: 40minWe're pretty comfortable talking about female "body issue" problems, but what about men? Do men struggle with body issues...feeling athletic, losing weight, and feeling sexy? Heck yeah most men do. In this episode, we tackle this question head on.
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The 10 Absolutes for Romance
23/05/2016 Duration: 36minOkay, guys, there are some fundamentals that are completely necessary for romance. In this episode, Justin and Blair discuss the pillars for creating fulfilling romance. It's not enough to "want" to romance someone, or to spend energy trying to romance someone, we must learn how to romance a woman. In this episode, we simplify the how.
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Self-Disqualification
16/05/2016 Duration: 37minOften times, we don't step into the next season, because we are disqualifying ourselves. Not because we aren't ready, or don't have what it takes, but because we believe we are disqualified. It's time for us to give ourselves more credit, and to step into what we want...and what we are ready to do!
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The Poison of Comparison
09/05/2016 Duration: 39minComparison is death to our confidence. Regardless of how good we're doing, how many strengths we have, or what we've accomplished...there will always be people that are "ahead" of us. If we keep our eyes on others, we won't ever be able to embrace our own strength and unique qualities. Highlights from the Show: Everyone compares themselves to someone. Sons often compare themselves to fathers. If I have a relationship with comparison, I will limit myself so that others aren't threatened by my success. Comparison divorces you from your personal authority. When you compare with others, you don't have energy to invest in yourself. When you have a relationship with comparison, it opens the door to envy and fear. We must separate the comparison version of us from the present version of us. When we compare ourselves, we can't recognize the benefits from the season we're in. When you can't embrace your current season, you trap yourself within it. Comparison opens us up to desperation. When we exhaust ourselves with
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No More Mr. Nice Guy
02/05/2016 Duration: 39minWe all know a "Mr. Nice Guy." Heck, we might even be that guy. But it's true that nice guys finish last. It's time that we identify why we become a "nice guy," and how to get out of the mold...without becoming a jerk. This episode is for all the guys who want to break out of the friend zone (even in marriage), and all the ladies who have been waiting for guys to be powerful and confident.
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Pornography: Everyone's Favorite Topic to Avoid
25/04/2016 Duration: 58minPorn is a big topic. BIG. To handle this monster topic, we thought we'd bring in Abi Stumvoll to help us discuss it. This may be our most important episode to date, and you definitely don't want to miss some of the craziness that ensues. If you've struggled with porn, or have known someone who does...this episode is going to be groundbreaking for you. If you feel comfortable, please share this or send it to someone you care about!
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The Transformative Power of Forgiveness
18/04/2016 Duration: 45minEverybody and their brother tells us to forgive. But what the heck does that mean? Why is forgiveness powerful? In this crazy episode, Justin and Blair talk about what it really means to forgive...and why it can change our lives and relationships. A few highlights from the episode: “Forgiveness is less about the other person, and more about restoring your inner world.” –BR “Forgiveness is not restoration of trust. Trust is earned, forgiveness is given.” –BR “Forgiveness is not giving someone another chance, it’s restoring the balance within you of the resentment that you are holding.” –BR “People who have felt wronged feel powerless.” –JS “I am going to forgive this person so their pain is no longer dictating my life's circumstances.” –BR “Unforgiveness is not keeping you safe, its’ drawing you into similar situations so you can get healing from places you feel unresolved.” –BR “Unforgiveness becomes an infection and is always projected on the world around.” –BR “Unforgiveness will not keep you safe.” –BR
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The Monsters of Stress and Anxiety
11/04/2016 Duration: 36minWe all deal with stress and anxiety. But can we eliminate the majority of our stress and anxiety? Is it necessary? In this episode, Blair and Justin share the main reasons we deal with anxiety, and how to reduce them. Highlights from the Show: "People often have anxiety from feeling powerless but responsible." -BR “People that deal with anxiety get lost in the present.” –BR “Often times stress and anxiety is not rooted in the present, its rooted in a behavior learned in the past.” –BR “People are attracted to others with the same level of anxiety that you have.” –BR “Anxiety is insulation for intimacy.” –BR “Our stress and anxiety is not circumstantial, it’s internal.” “We have to determine the payoff of giving up anxiety in our lives.” “Whatever we are focused on will manifest in our life.” “When we are living in a position of stress and anxiety it’s proof we have issues with control.” –JS “Many people who deal with anxiety have an unhealthy relationship with control.” –JS “If you learn to manage your worl
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A Blunt Conversation About Faith
04/04/2016 Duration: 57minWhat do you think about faith and spirituality? Is it fundamental to us as men, or is it superficial? In this extremely honest conversation about faith, Justin and Blair discuss the role of faith in our lives, and share their personal journeys with spirituality. A few highlights from the episode: “What you believe is what you will become.” –BR “If you view God through the lens of your own experience, you will always bedisappointed.” –BR “Something shifts in our lives when something bigger than us wants to be involved in our lives.” –JS “So many people view God as having an agenda, but the truth is His goal is to love us.” –BR “Shame is the managing thing that has kept us from love in general.” –JS “Time doesn’t heal all wounds.” –BR “There is mystery in life, but mystery does not negate faith.” “If relationship is not a part of your faith, you should question your faith.” “We are created for relationship.” “Legacy is fundamental to faith.”