Love Via Hashem

Welcome to Love via HaShem. This lesson is about Mashpia. After finding someone, write down your list: How do you feel around people? (determining chemistry) Ask about relationship with each parents Who is their Mashpia? What do you want out of life? What is something that their mother/father does which they like? What is something that your own mother/father do which you like and want to emulate in some way? It’s best to look introspectively at yourself, lest we get too interogative with the other person. Understanding ourselves can be just as important. Mashpia (Hebrew: משפיע‎) lit. "person of influence", pl. Mashpi'im (Hebrew: משפיעים‎) -- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mashpia Who is their Mashpia? Is there anyone (elder prefered) guides them? When they are going in the wrong direction, who sounds the siren? Be careful of someone who has no points of authority, counselors, or advisors. It’s quite possible that they don’t like people telling them what to do. When you try to give them advice, mayb