Neil Delamere's Sunday Best

Hi Neil and Niamh, I'm with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and we're in the process of movingin together. We're very happy and life is good, except for one issue thatarises all the time. I want to have a baby but he's not sure that it's what hewants. I have nieces and nephews and he loves them and he's great withthem when we mind them for the weekend. But still he says that he doesn'tknow if he wants to be a father himself. What do I do? He's not getting anymore sure about this each time we talk about it and I don't know what'sgoing to happen when we get to farther down the line. I'm 33 and he is 35.Please help.________________________________________________ Advice:1. Whilst most people think of having a baby, actually you are having aperson. It is about raising another human being, initially for 18 years butreally having responsibility and input until the day that you take yourown last breath. So, some people want to be parents and that’s ok. Forothers this is not for them and that’s ok to