Social Confidence For Life

How are you in the process of getting things you want badly? Do you patiently wait out the journey? Or do you feel like you can’t get there fast enough to the point that you start feeling terrible about yourself for not having the results you want? Perfectionism is harming your sense of self-worth until you get the outcome you want, and most people are stuck doing this- in fact, there will always be perfectionist tendencies at every level in our growth. The more ambitious we become, the more a part of us wants to go faster and get the results ASAP! What’s important is that we 1) catch ourselves in perfectionism and then, 2) let it go so we can enjoy working toward our goals without dealing with feeling terrible for not having what we want yet. Feeling like a loser for not progressing “fast enough” is super discouraging and eventually causes us to give up if we don’t relax that part of ourselves because it gets stronger the longer we leave it unattended to. It’s like a little kid shouting to his mother who d