Social Confidence For Life

Do you ever see someone attractive and immediately feel like it’s all or nothing – “if I don’t get into a relationship with that person, then it’s all over! I have to be with that person!” And then, does it feel like you put yourself out there too much to try to impress him or her to the point that it probably repels that person from liking you? When we come from a place of needing someone, we become repelling to the people we find attractive because they’ll see us as taking more value than we give. By needing someone, we show that we want to take value. What we want to do instead is be okay as we are no matter the outcome and constantly give value to those we find attractive. So how do we appear and feel more confident and less needy? I’m not talking about apply pick-up artist techniques of faking confidence to improve attraction. I’m talking about truly feeling confident and completely okay with yourself even if the person you like doesn’t like you back. The over-arching approach to being more confident and