Social Confidence For Life

Today, we are discussing How To Handle Criticism With Confidence. This is important because if we don’t develop our ability to handle criticism, we will buy into it and make it true, which gives our power away to people so that whatever their criticism of us is, we automatically believe it. So if they say you are weird, boring or awkward, you would just believe it and feel it’s anti-loving energy in your body. Also, if people judge your passions, interests, or dreams to be weird or not right for you, then you would agree with them and give them up. Even if we get angry and repudiate their criticism, we are angry because a part of is taking their criticism and criticizing ourselves with it. One type of criticism I struggled to handle was getting feedback that I was being awkward, boring, or embarrassing. This could be directly said to me or shown in peoples’ facial expressions. As soon as I perceived that people thought of me as awkward, boring, or embarrassing, I would make what I thought was their reality