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What if low self-worth isn’t something wrong with you—but your mind protecting you from being hurt again? AJ sits down with psychologist Dr. Marisa G. Franco to explore how past experiences shape the way we see ourselves, receive love, and react in relationships. They unpack why compliments can actually feel threatening, how unresolved “open memories” keep the past alive in the present, and why chasing confidence through achievement, validation, or attachment labels rarely heals the deeper issue. You’ll learn a practical exercise for changing how painful memories live inside you, what to do when your body is triggered by something you can’t consciously remember, and why acknowledging insecurity can actually be a sign of healthy self-worth. The goal isn’t to eliminate difficult emotions—it’s to stop abandoning yourself when they appear. Episode Resources: https://www.amazon.com/Worth-Science-Self-Esteem-Secure-Attachment/dp/B0GGNPKM6S/ Chapters 00:00 – Why compliments can feel threatening03:18 – What sel