Robot Monk Xian'er

One Should Be Independent but Not EccentricIf you cling to yourself too much, alwaysfocusing on your own problems, sufferings and happiness, and losses and gains .. . you will end up with caring only about yourself. That’s why you feellonely. One should be independent but not eccentric. Being independent meansthat you have your own pursuits and hold responsibilities for your own actionswithout depending on others; being eccentric means you think only of yourselfand estrange yourself from others. You can be strong and happy only when youhave an independent spirit and meanwhile, love and care for others.