Called To Homeschool

Are you feeling the homeschool burn out? It's May and I know many of you don't want to think, talk, or even do school right now. In today's short and sweet podcast episode, I talk about feeling burnt out, why it's ok, and what you can do.

I am so excited to have you listen to today's episode. I got to interview my friend, Andee Martineau, about her book, Connect Method Parenting. Andee is an amazing parenting coach who has done a brilliant job of helping you parent without using bribing, punishments, grounding, or time outs. She went from traditional parenting (using punishments and rewards) and now teaches her connect method parenting. You are going to want to check out today's episode where we cover consequences, meltdowns, and lying just to name a few.

My absolute favorite parenting book has to be from the scriptures. My goal is to parent like my Heavenly Parents and my Savior. I found this gem in the scriptures the other day, and I think it shows a great way for us to run our homes. Check out this episode to hear.

I remember how challenging it was to have so many little babies in such a short amount of time. I would think about how much easier things would get when they got older. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but things don't get easier when kids get older. The hard just changes. In today's podcast episode I share with you how to stop wishing away the days and hoping for things to get easier, but instead to have a life that you like now.

Are you worried that you need to teach your children everything?   Do you worry about what will happen if you haven't done enough by the time they are 18?   If so, you need to check out this episode from a mother who has three adult children who have graduated from homeschooling.

Did you know that learning to play an instrument is so good for your brain? Playing an instrument recruits almost every part of the brain, including regions that process vision, sound, movement, and memory. It's easy to see why so many homeschool parents are encouraging their kids to play one. However, if you are fighting with your kid, is it worth it? Check out today's episode to see if your kid should play an instrument.

We just finished studying about WWII and I wanted to do a book review of all the amazing books we read. I have suggestions on books for younger kids and older kids.  History really does come alive and can be a very enjoyable subject when you are studying it from really good books. I put together a list of all the books; you can check them out here. 

To celebrate my 200th episode I put decided to answer your questions!! Some of the questions were: How do I start homeschooling? How do I homeschool through High School? Do I need a transcript for college? How do I homeschool challenging behaviors? ADHD and disrespect. Check out today's episode to hear what I had to say.

What is a family culture and why do you need one? I adapted this from the book How Will You Measure Your Life, When you have a a supportive family culture, children don’t even need to ask how to behave, how to make decisions, or how to make this trade-off against that one, your family has become self-managing thanks to it’s culture. Parents don’t need to dive into the details of every decision, because they culture of the family is present in the details of every decision. Having a family culture makes your home easier and creates a flow and rhythm.  Listen to today's episode to learn how to create a family culture.

This is an incredibly powerful interview with Lyissa Anderson. She is the most amazing teen that I have had the privilege of knowing for a long time.   Lyissa was a typical amazing teen. She loved her family, was incredibly kind and helpful, and she got addicted to porn.  She is probably the last person that you would think that would struggle with pornography, but now she goes around helping others who have found themselves addicted and she is teaching moms of how they can best help their teens.   It is a message of hope and I absolutely love her courage of being willing to share her experience so that she can help other people.   You can find out more about here at her website: https://www.lyissaanderson.com/

Have you ever wondered what yelling does to your kid, or how do they feel when they are getting yelled at? I interviewed several teens and asked them what they thought about themselves, the parent, and many other questions about yelling. I also asked them how they wish their parents would show up instead. Listen in to today's episode to see what yelling is doing to your kid, and what can happen to your family when you stop. Click here to check the no yelling course.

Do you want your children to listen to you more? Do you want to stay more calm and patient when something at home doesn't go the way you planned? Then you need to listen to today's episode of why taking care of your fundamentals will help you so much. Taking care of your fundamental needs helps you to feel less anxious and depressed and more calm and loving. Check out the episode to hear what the fundamentals are and how they will be incorporated into this year's no yelling course. Check out this year's No Yelling Course HERE. 

Who wants a step by step guide of how to create something?!? I know I do. That's why in today's episode I am going to be giving you a step by step guide of how to create something by using the law of creation. Check out this year's No Yelling Course.

What does nature do during the winter? It sleeps.  Then when spring comes, it starts to wake up. Animals become more active and it's the perfect time to plant seeds. This year, I want to help you plant seeds this springs to become a calm parent. I want to help you grow all summer long, so that when harvest time comes, you'll be able to reap the harvest and no longer yell at your kids. Find out more about planting your seeds here.

Do you remember when they used to list clothing as one size fits? Then they realized that one size does not fit all.  Education has been a one size fits all model for a long time, and people are realizing that one size does not. But what do you do if you feel like you don't have the time, money, or energy to homeschool your kids? I am interviewing Allison Sorenson today who is helping those in Utah to have more options with their education. Even if you don't live in Utah, this is a great episode to see what you can do with your state to get more choice with your child's education. www.utahfitsall.com

Not too long ago I wrote a post in my No Yelling group and I had someone comment that my message came across as toxic positivity. I had to look that phrase up because I had no idea what it meant, and I was surprised that someone would say that about me. I want to share with you a very raw and real episode of where I came from, and how much I have struggled with depression, and how I feel about someone telling my message is toxic.

I am so excited to share this interview with you!   Tanner & Alisa documented their experience with last year's No Yell November challenge. It was so amazing to be able to see the day to day struggle they went through.  I was so impressed with their video that I wanted to have them on the podcast and talk about their experience.   You can also check out his video on YouTube by going to The Terrible Husband and find their video, I tried not yelling at my kids for 30 days.

Have you ever worked with your teen and their goals? Maybe you sat down with them and helped them create an actionable plan of how to achieve that goal, and even put it in easy to manage steps. Then, a few weeks, or even a few days later, your teen completely gives up on that goal. What do you do? Get after them? Push them harder? Check out this week's podcast episode to hear how to help your teen and their goals.

A few weeks ago I was upset that my favorite music app has sexual content. I was angry and mad that the world seems to feel like it continues to get dark and evil seems to be everywhere. I want to end this year's podcast with challenging you to be the light. Light always chases away the darkness.  I would love to hear from you how you plan on being a light in 2023.

How does one become a great homeschool mom? Do some people just have it, and others don't? I don't think so. I think anyone can become a great homeschool mom, and I'd love to show you how in this episode. Also, here is the link to join my annual membership and receive your Family Planner as a thank you gift!