Synopsis
Do What Matters Most features Dr. A. Lynn Scoresbyexperienced psychologist, executive coach, business and education consultant, father, and grandfathertalking about how to recognize and then do what matters most so you can improve and have more fulfilling relationships. Topics range from marriage and parenting to ethics and character, stopping violence, and more.
Episodes
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Lighting The Fire Of Your Children's Faith E22: Faith In Fidelity, Part 3
07/07/2025 Duration: 24minYou can teach your children to have faith in fidelity by using the experiences in your family. Learn how using these principles can help your children be happy and successful. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Lighting The Fire Of Your Children's Faith E21: Faith In Fidelity, Part 2
30/06/2025 Duration: 21minTeaching children to have faith in fidelity can be accomplished in a series of small steps called "One More Thing," which helps them go a little further and stay with something a little longer than they expected. Soon, if this process is explained to them, they become committed to completing tasks and succeeding. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Lighting The Fire Of Your Children's Faith E20: Faith In Fidelity, Part 1
20/06/2025 Duration: 18minThis episode lays a foundation for why parents should be interested in teaching what it is that enables children to keep promises, face and overcome hardship, and retain their loyalty to friends, family, and God. Fidelity is an old word with a new blessing for those who have this kind of faith. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Faith Is More Than You Think E11: What Faith Feels Like, Part 3
23/05/2025 Duration: 30minWe talk about three more characteristics of faith that make it easier to identify, teach about, and promote. Faith can be a focused form of loyalty toward others and God, which leads to honesty, regulating thoughts so they are positive and loyal, and training feelings so they are focused on keeping one’s commitments. Faith also increases people’s mental and spiritual abilities to comprehend important principles of truth, and it is quantifiable and can be measured by its emotional intensity in order to comprehend it. We then discuss how to talk to kids when things don’t turn out how they want and they wonder if they have enough faith. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Faith Is More Than You Think E10: What Faith Feels Like, Part 2
24/04/2025 Duration: 19minIn this episode, we talk about two more aspects of faith that we can learn to recognize—and help our children learn to recognize. Faith is not totally separate from knowledge or reason but is usually strengthened when one’s intellect, evidence, and reason are employed. Also, faith reveals or excites what a person knows about himself by identifying and giving access to added abilities called spiritual gifts. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Faith Is More Than You Think E9: What Faith Feels Like, Part 1
10/04/2025 Duration: 36minWe want to have faith, but what does that look like? What does faith feel like? How will your children know when they have it? In this episode, we talk about how to teach children about their inner experience so they know what mental and emotional activity to look for so they know when they are experiencing faith. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Faith Is More Than You Think E8: The Practical Nature of Faith
27/03/2025 Duration: 28minScriptures teach about faith, sure, but faith can also be very practical. Learning about faith is something you and your children can use every day in your religious life and everywhere else. See how faith can be taught and applied as we discuss 10 practical elements of faith. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Lighting The Fire Of Your Children's Faith E19: Teaching Children To Have Faith In Themselves Is A Gift To Generations That Follow
20/03/2025 Duration: 23minChildren's early experiences often lead them to be afraid, and then when parents see this, they try to instill confidence. But confidence is not the same as faith because confidence is related to a specific situation while faith is related to children's belief in themselves and their future. Consider making a new effort to promote your children's faith in themselves, and watch them begin to see their futures as something achievable. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Faith Is More Than You Think E7: Become A Faith-Emergent Family, Part 2
06/03/2025 Duration: 26minWhen parents are teaching their children about faith, they are asking their children to believe in things that are not certain. Since traditional religious training isn’t proving to be enough anymore, what can parents do so that children actually listen, apply, and then use this knowledge to take steps of faith themselves? First, you have to build trust by avoiding harmful behaviors, remove distractions like excessive screen time, and then use your teachings to help them learn how to do hard things, which every person needs to know. Becoming a faith-emergent family will promote so many positive behaviors in you and your family, some you probably couldn’t even foresee, that will make the extra focus worth it. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Lighting The Fire Of Your Children's Faith E18: A New Look at Helping Children Have Faith In Themselves
27/02/2025 Duration: 21minLearn nine new factors you can teach to promote children's faith in themselves. When you use these tools, children will know more about themselves and believe in themselves more. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Lighting The Fire Of Children's Faith E17: The Dos and Don'ts of Teaching Children To Have Faith In Themselves
27/02/2025 Duration: 22minIn order to successfully teach children to have faith in themselves, it will be necessary to recognize that we may have gotten it wrong sometimes and we need to adjust what we do. In this episode, learn what does not work and instead what can. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Lighting The Fire Of Your Children's Faith E16: When Children Have Faith In Themselves, They Will Move Mountains
27/02/2025 Duration: 20minWe live in a time when the ideas about what children could become are blurred and less definite. This can be positive in a way because it provides more options, but there is a risk because it often leaves children more confused. Plus, we sometimes focus so much on what children become in their careers that we forget to give them what they need most for success—to have faith in themselves. In this episode, learn the foundation for teaching your children to believe in themselves. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Lighting The Fire Of Your Children's Faith E15: Ten Things You Can Teach That Will Bring Quiet Miracles To Your Family
27/02/2025 Duration: 21minThis episode describes ten specific things you can do that will lead to the quiet miracles that demonstrate the worth and power of teaching your children to believe in God and themselves. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Lighting The Fire Of Your Children's Faith E14: Teaching Children To Have Faith Brings Quiet Miracles
26/02/2025 Duration: 21minTeaching children to feel faith brings inspiration, and with this inspiration comes several other remarkable but quiet miracles: peace of mind, organization, or more hope. In this episode, see how inspiration is connected to teaching faith to your children. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Faith Is More Than You Think E6: Become A Faith-Emergent Family, Part 1
05/02/2025 Duration: 20minWhen parents decide to focus more on faith in their families, what does this look like? Learn simple ways to start the process of becoming a faith-emergent family, like telling stories of people who have exercised faith, as we discuss how manageable it can be, how you can adjust your approach according to the ages of your children, and how great the rewards are. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Faith Is More Than You Think E5: Deeper Definitions Of Faith
28/01/2025 Duration: 33minHumans are hardwired to have faith. It can be seen when children are young and begin to make choices, and it can grow into something really powerful if we know how to use it. Faith has many mental and emotional qualities to it, and the more we know about them, the better we can use faith to strengthen ourselves, our company, or our family. What does it feel like to have faith? What can you do to build more faith? What is its purpose in the first place? Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Faith Is More Than You Think E4: Faith In The Team's Mission
16/01/2025 Duration: 21minFaith really impacts whether the mission of an organization, a leadership team, or a family is achieved. If people believe in the mission and focus their mental exertion on it, people tend to be more committed and more focused on producing it. There are risks organizations face when employees don’t have faith in the mission, like low employee morale, and you can see these risks in a family setting as well. So how do you create faith in the mission and make it last, and what do you do when people don’t have faith? Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Faith Is More Than You Think E3: Faith In Team Culture
17/12/2024 Duration: 20minWhile faith used in a business sense might sound unusual, faith in your company culture or team culture has a lot to do with how much you enjoy your job, how well your team bonds, and how well people work together to get things done. If you’re a team leader, do you know how to promote faith in the culture of your team? Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Faith Is More Than You Think E2: Where Faith Can Begin
26/11/2024 Duration: 31minMany people think that engaging in traditional religious practices, like prayer or scripture study, is enough to produce faith in children, but many children who grow up with these traditional practices do not remain faithful for the rest of their lives. So what else matters? The family environment and how families are organized have a tremendous impact on how receptive children are to parents’ teaching. Learn why and what you can do in your family to help your children better receive what you teach. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.
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Faith Is More Than You Think E1: Faith Has More Reach
19/11/2024 Duration: 19minWhile faith is something people might often think about and even talk about, most people still don’t know the full meaning of it and the tremendous and dramatic benefits of using it. In this episode, we discuss an expansive definition of faith—faith in God, faith in yourself, and faith in your culture—and how faith is one of the first answers to the challenges people are facing today. Visit FirstAnswers.com to find answers for 21st-century parents and more about the podcast.