Lowered Expectations

We make it look easy. 

It's a fun episode. Enjoy yourself.

Bubby is having some problems with his boundaries and I'm just a mess. Yay.

Well... that was interesting.

It's time to check in again

I can't stop orgasming and it's pretty good.

My other pup comes back and I couldn't be happier.

We're flat broke, unemployed and full of love

California-based doctoral candidate and sexy mofo Ali Mushtaq stops by to talk about gay kink culture, being brown and mental health.

I'm not feeling as trusted as I think I should and it's time to finally get to the bottom of it. 

Bubby has a new play partner and is in need of some advice. 

We're getting married, but in our own way. 

Restarting an active D/s relationship means figuring out what works and what doesn't. So, we did. 

Now that everything isn't all doom and gloom, we've found some time to get back into an active kink life. Things got off the rails, but we got to a great destination regardless. 

As a Dom, remembering to stay open is important. Even the ones in charge need to feel loved.

Sometimes you need to give your partner a kick in the ass. For me and Bubby that time has come. 

A partner Bubby and I share recently came back into our lives and it sparks an important discussion. 

Everything sucks.

It's important to check in with each other. 

This week, I'm joined by a new friend of mine Devi Ward. You may know her from Sex is Medicine, her podcast on using sex as a tool to heal your soul. In this episode, we go deep into talking about what the soul needs to be satisfied. The answer may surprise you. Hint: It doesn't come from a store.