The Alpha Dude

Worldwide the average lifespan in 71.5 years. Yet, what if you or a loved one is a statistical deviation and you aren't promised the seven decades? In this episode we will examine time, its properties, how you can make the most of the time you have. Then we bring on the amazing Guest Tanya Kraisingr, who shows how she overcame personal tragedy with the loss of her husband, trained Kung Fu in Shaolin and so much more. Tanya Kraisingr https://soundcloud.com/bizbuilders  

If you lie to yourself, then everything else is lost, if you know it to be truth there is everything to gain in the fight for it. Jeremy is on to discuss his Journey from the struggles he faced, to embracing his truth and the fight behind it all. Kung Fu and all. Jeremy Roadruck www.Theparentingprogram.com  

While resilience will help you to overcome all things, it must be remembered that you can come back from wherever you are, and our next guest is here to share with us his story on overcoming drug addiction, going through jail time then onto being highly successful. BUT before we go there I would like to again thanks those who have got a copy of the new ‘Personal Upgrade book’ , and if you liked it, I would really appreciate your review at amazon. I would also like to encourage those of you who haven’t reached out - to flick me an email. I communicate with many listeners already, but I know for so many others its a one way dialogue, so if you have any questions or comments let me know @ michaelpulser@gmail.com Thanks to those who sent their condolences to the loss of Big Al, he was truely I great guy. Our Guest is Ben Swicegood https://www.theupliftingplace.com/

This episode is dedicated to one of my best mates 'Big Al' who died recently, unexpectedly before he even turned 40 years old. In this show I discuss: My Friendship My Deepest Regret and share the message with you, that was made for him. We are joined by Dr Sean McDowell, famed author and teacher to help with this journey. A rather personal podcast, next week normal programming will return, in the meantime let me know what you though about this episode. michaelpulser@gmail.com Sean McDowell (PhD) https://seanmcdowell.org/  

When we were children we had many magical abilities that we seem to have lost today. As we grow up we loose both this skill and many childish habits.  Once we learn what this skill is and how to get it back, suddenly life takes on a new meaning and a myriad of problems are overcome. Some people advise going back to their child state but it brings up drama or childish ways. This focuses on only pulling the good back. At the end we conclude with a BONUS hypnosis session, to be done only when you can give it your undivided attention.  

When you see someone stand up despite being scared it speaks to us at our deepest core. Courage, perhaps one of the greatest traits, like a diamond it is equally rare. In this episode we examine what it takes to be courageous. This is followed by a special announcement... https://www.amazon.com/Michael-Pulser/e/B07RTP8GB3/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_ebooks_1  

If you have heard me talk about psychology, alpha males and being true to your self, at some point you may wonder - "Who is this guy?" +/- "What's his story?" This episode is in response to those who have asked for some of my background, along with some of the challenges I've faced and how I have overcome them. This is a stand alone episode so there wont be any guests on this week. Hope you enjoyed it and if you have any questions please visit my website: https://michaelpulser.podbean.com/    

We often try to distract ourselves from life when it becomes too mundane. When the distraction becomes a greater source of joy than life, addiction sets in. Albeit addiction is a spectrum, this episode lays the groundwork for both the standard model and another unique mode of dealing with addiction. Prevention is key, and by having a solid purpose we can avoid the potential for the pitfall. Josh Mclean is here to help us with that aspect. https://www.catalystignite.com/about/

When you learn how and why others attack, you can then intelligently deal with any situation. If you must fight back, you can do so and remain in control and keep the advantage, or if you wish to deflect then you have the option to do this and guide the outcome as you wish as well. We will explore this using the top down approach, and our Guest from the 'Wading in Podcast' often uses such an approach in analysing various subjects. Wading In Podcast   https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/wading-in/id1449672229        

Emotions often control us, unless we take control, this episode explored the fundamentals of controlling one’s emotions (which we will expand on this further in future episodes.) This is a special way to change. As I mentioned in the very first episode of Personal Upgrade, we live our lives with our loved ones, and if we fail to give this domain the same attention we give to our personal growth, then relationships fail and life gets messy. Our next expert guest Tyree is on to help those of us who struggle in relationships, and teach how we can make otherwise dead relationships come back to life. Tyree Wilson

Looking at role models like 'The Rock' gives us a reference point into what is possible, and in this episode we examined this process briefly. The purpose of examining these individuals is to inspire us to achieve more, yet we should always remember the simple things in life. Things like joy and happiness. This week we bring on Mike, from make time online to discuss his take on happiness and positivity. https://maketimeonline.com/

* Regular Programming will resume shortly... This episode we talk about the Alpha Dude system and how it translates to ladies, to give them the edge when it comes to Personal growth. Mariah then comes on to give her perspective on psychology, females and mindfulness. Once you see what is transferable between the genders, most aspects are universal and so transferable between the sexes. I would like to thank all the ladies for tuning into the podcast today and urge you to keep listening, as the information in upcoming podcasts are both transferable and enriching, in this unique system you are unlikely to find anywhere else. Thanks Mariah Podcast: How do you solve a problem like Mariah?

In this episode we examine how to master your voice, to command respect whilst being charismatic at the same time. This is an important part of the system, while many others fail to give this component the attention that it deserves, (but when you do, it pays massive dividends.) With this in mind, please pay particular attention to the verbal delivery of our next guest, Dennis Sumlin who is a confidence coach. More importantly though, he has worked extremely hard at his craft, in mastering his voice and delivery, earning him prestige and recognition with the international speaking organisation toastmasters. https://coreconfidencelife.com/  

In this episode there are some unique techniques and hacks that allow you to make rapid change in the area of self confidence and personal development.  Remembering this is simply part of the greater system, where we balance these 'Upgrades' with true Authenticity, as such we bring on a special guest. Actor, Rapper and Author Lester Greene is on to discuss his journey from witnessing a murder in Harlem, to being a rapper, then Actor and Author. Throughout it all he developed his own philosophy that he lives by and is here to teach - Act like you love yourself.  https://www.lestergreene.com/

Understanding and Mastering your mind is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. This not only means you can upgrade yourself, but appreciate what others are going through. The payoff is the adaptive distancing which is important so we don’t get caught up in others dramas. Frankie joins us again, to explore deeper his life's purpose and his pivotal experiences using the plant medicine Iowaska. frankfihn@gmail.com  

One the biggest hurdles many of us face is in displaying a confident personality without feeling like a fake, it's something we all need need to work on. Being overly concerned with others judgements sets us up for the the nice guy trap, where we act in a manner with the expectation that we will receive something. A better word for this is being manipulative, and despite our best intentions manipulating is never cool. We examined the critical step to change everything in this episode and then bring on a guest who has mastered this to change his life. Frankie Fihn of Sacred Planet Retreats is an international speaker and expert in ‘The Mystical Arts.’ Today he joins us to demonstrate how he literally started to live the life of his dreams, and how you can too. Frankie Fihn frankfihn@gmail.com

To overcome challenges and to be your best, we need to master our minds. In this episode we dig deep as we examine how to release the ultimate potential of our mind. To do this we look at NLP, CBT and other change technologies. ...but is this enough? Mental qualities plus moral qualities equal character, and our guest Greg Koukl of Stand to Reason is here to help us solve this aspect of the equation. https://www/str.org/      

Too often we make excuses that get us off the hook. Taking responsibility and action is the answer. This is easier said than done, particularly if you are the less charismatic or experienced person in the encounter.  So we learn to pump ourselves up, only to feel a temporary buzz and usually defeated at the end.  So frustrating! What can we do? In this episode we examine this and the real alternative that makes the difference. BONUS: Now we are really using our minds to make change we bring back expert guest Richard Scott to help you make rapid change easily.  http://www.mynd.works/

Albeit the system is one built on concepts and principles, there is a time for techniques, that give immediate results. These are some powerful ones that will help with your focus and confidence.  Be sure to give them the attention they deserve for amazing results. To assist us with the process we have Anxiety expert Richard Scott come in and discuss the finer points.  http://www.mynd.works/

Success and Goals. Talked about probably a little too much in the field of self-help. I am bringing up the topic to look at the different approach which has helped countless others take things to the next level. If you have tried to achieve that dream and failed, chances are you missed something and this episode is for you. On your Journey, we can collect things we don't need both psychologically and physically. To help you dump the physical we brought in the experts Bec and Tara to work through this from the 'Be uncluttered Podcast.' www.beuncluttered.com.au